Crossdresser Heaven is not a sex chat site

Im glad that you dont allow sex chat i just want be me and not hassled for sex talk im not a slut or perv im traped in this body just want freinds who accept im zara thankyou

Miss Jane.  I do agree with you 100 per cent. I do not use chat rooms for this very reason. I have no time for this type of stuff. I do, however, try to assist new members with  the psychological issues and do get into medical question/ answering where I can but all of this is strictly done on private communication with said member with their approval. If things get dicey with Club Rules or I feel that things are getting a little risque, I will switch over to my own private e-mail for consultations. I trust that this is satisfactory within CDH guidelines.....if not,  please let me know. I am here to guide/assist those who a having difficulties with their choices.....I am not DR. Ruth Westheimer.

Of course, I will continue to welcome new members and pass on any tid-bits that I feel are relevant to the general population.

Regards as always....and thank you for your vigilance with the site. It is unique and I wish it to stay that way.

Lady Veronica

That really makes me feel better knowing this. I don’t mind talking with our sisters about CD and other subjects, however I do not like all the sex stuff. I been to a few other communities and it’s just shameful.

much thanks:))))))))))))

CH is about getting to know one another and realise you are not isolated or alone. We come together to share experiences and  realise this is normal

I like the idea of not bringing sex into 99% of the forum.  Simply because there are so many other things that need to be discussed. Help topics especially. But I think sex is a huge part of CDing. I get really turned on when I'm dressing up (sometimes).  To me honest, it's one of the reasons I started dressing up.

BTW, I'm only saying this because some have made sex and talking sex as something dirty and perverted. Sex is as much a part of life as breathing.  I'd hate to think that just because I get horny and want to talk with someone else that's horny, that I was a pervert. If getting horny made people a perv, then we'd all be one.

P.S. A couple of people mentioned that there were plenty of places to discuss things of that nature (sex). I haven't found any.

I still maintain that having a site for people to interact is a good idea. HOWEVER, I DO feel firmly that "Chat Site" means hook ups and sex talk by definition. The recent spate of this indicates that sexting is just that. Maybe it would stop now if we rename it Conversations or Ladies Fashion Journal. Texting and chat rooms means one thing to people now......dirty rondevous. I am sad to say that but that is the way it is.

Dame Veronica

If I've ever gotten carried away I do apologize, although I don't believe I have.

I love CDH.  It has been a great resource for me on many levels and I'd like to think I've helped others.

I'm all in for keeping it clean, as it were, and continue to enjoy sharing and hearing with and from other Fabulous Ladies!

Thank you!

Love and Hugs,

Rebekka

This is exactly what makes this site great and stand out from the rest.

It's a bold, brave move - and representative of the inner strength that genuine CDs all need to find in themselves.

Love

Laura

This site is a valuable asset to the femme inside.  The support from here and others going or have gone what we are going through is very helpful.  Though sexuality becomes a question or internal delima, that we may need help figuring out.  Sex chat is not needed. In some aspects, it can hurt someone's process of finding themselves.  Just a thought.

That's good just on here to chat and understand a little bit more about  my self and others who crossdress as well not looking for a date or a relationship just want to understand myself a little bit better. By taking to others who go through the same thing 😀

This is one of the reasons I left for while.  I do think I understand that there are those that are still coming to terms with their desire to cross dress.  However I think the line between sex and sexuality often gets blurred.  It is up to all of us to make sure we provide a safe and nurturing environment for all here so sometimes are reminder is in order.   Thanks.

That's what makes this place so special . The care support is why most of us come here and enjoy the true values of what we appreciate.

Stephanie 🌹

I can see how some conversations, choice of words, picture postings and such might be easily misconstrued as sex chat. People can be inventively imaginative. I would like to believe we all know what constitutes sex chat, where the black solid line is drawn  but when the mere conversation concerning sex chat might elicit an erotic response is some the line does gray. Justice Potter Stewart said concerning pornography “I know it when I see it”. I wonder if anybody ever asked the honorable judge “ How is it you know your honor”. To which the wickedly smart judge would have cracked back “by the mere fact I am sitting up here and you down there.”

Good,  that’s not what I was looking for when I got on here .