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I decided, last year, that I would learn to play the bass guitar that I've owned, pretty much as an ornament, for some time.
I watched YouTube videos and also took a dozen or so lessons from a guitar teacher.
My progress was slow and tentative until I was practising one day with my head very much in Allie mode and wow! My fingers flew across the fretboard and a couple of runs just happened without me even thinking about it. Now, I've no doubt that muscle memory plays a part but I wondered how much of the improvement is down to shifting my head from drab to fab.
Has anyone else noticed a difference in apparently unrelated and practical aspects of life when in alter ego mode?
I've yet to pick up my bass while en femme that's next on my list of to do's.
Allie x
Absolutely Allie! After all creativity is considered a strong female trait. They create life after all. I’ve noticed when I’m in my pick fog I’m much more inspired to be creative whether it’s doing my makeup, putting an outfit together, or enjoying my hobbies.
In recent years, I have learned to appreciate works of art by visiting local art galleries, and as the warmer weather approaches, I will once again be visiting local gardens, especially when they sponsor events at these places.
A big advantage to visiting both of these type of venues is that a lady dressed very nicely never looks out of place and is treated like a lady.
The beauty and creativity of crossdressing would seem to have sparked an interest in me in art and the beauty of flowering gardens. Who would have ever guessed?
I'm in such a pink fog lately that I am having a hard time focusing on my interests and hobbies. Of course the exception to this is makeup and my wardrobe. I love thinking about the next things to add to grow my feminine appearance and experience.
It has been my view that bringing out your feminine side releases a lot of those feminine traits that have been hidden. Clearly you have found another.
I love going around gardens here in the U.K. as in the warmer months summer dresses are de riguere along with tea and cake on the lawns...
I love to draw and by the opinion of some, I have a bit of a gift. One wish is to be part of a CD/Trans art group and get together and chat and see if being in the femme ups my art desire and creativity
I'm a musician and I play various instruments (including guitar, bass and keyboards) and play in a band. When I was at school I was very artistic too and went to art college after, although I dropped out and don't do any of that stuff anymore 🙄
I also like to build 1/35 military vehicle kits - an outlet for all that repressed 'art'! 🤣
Having said that I work in audio/visual, producing and editing video, so it's almost creative!
I haven't recognized any artistic talents within me. What has amazed me, is the female mannerism's that just come out of me. When my brain gets awash in femininity, my body mechanics soften and I find myself displaying feminine traits that I didn't know that I had.
Letting this come out now has been so rewarding emotionally to me.
Allie -
Thank you for this post.
I started playing guitar a few years ago and find it to be relaxing. I've had a couple opportunities to play while dressed and it was fun. I also do diamond dot art (like paint by number but with colored plastic dots) which is fun. It is something I wouldn't have done before Suzanne but now even in drab mode find it to be relaxing and enjoyable.
XOXO
Suzanne
Hi, all, thanks so much for your comments, I have certainly noticed more feminine traits and mannerisms since I welcomed Allie into my conscious life (clearly she's been imprisoned in my subconscious all this time!). I think, for the first time in my life, I feel complete. Lucky lucky us!
Allie xx
Thanks for this post, Allie.
I think I'm very creative all the time. I value art a lot. Maybe I'm a little more emotional in feminine. It takes me longer to shop for women's clothing and accessories. I think I have learned to be more open. My masculine and feminine minds are increasingly mixing and it is not so easy for me to separate them. It must be a natural process I guess. After all I have only one brain and I think it works well for me. I live and let live.
Gisela