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Since I really want to take my crossdressing to the next level, now seems like a great time for setting some goals for the coming year.
One of my favorite things to do while crossdressing is trying on that new article of female clothing for the first time, and something I have always wanted to do, but have never had the courage, is to go out shopping en femme. I am still very much in the closet with my crossdressing, but I did find a MTF makeover service in the area that offers guided outings. I would like to try out this service, but between the makeover, shopping excursion and photo session, I am looking at over $1000, and since I would be going out shopping, I am don’t expect to come home empty handed, so I can plan on exceeding that by a pretty good margin.
The other thing I have been telling myself for the last 30 years is, this year I am going to dress up for Halloween, and I am going to go outside and walk the neighborhood. This seems like a great excuse to spend the evening en femme without coming out completely, and even though I have the wardrobe for it, it also seems like a great excuse to go out a buy another new outfit.
I have been telling myself I will be doing these things for a long time, but maybe if I make it a goal, I will actually bring myself to go out and do them.
Does anyone else have any exciting goals for the coming year?
For me, it is definitely a makeover. I've done the best I can on my own with my makeup and now I need some professional help! Other than that, I want to continue integrating Lauren into my everyday life and let her out into the world more and more.
More photoshoots - I've got several ideas, one of which is a photographer I know has discussed an outdoor shoot.
I am sorely tempted next time I visit Brighton to go round the Lanes in Anna mode.
Plus the occasional afternoon out in the car.
Hugs,
Anna xx
I do not set goals, I just let life happen and accept it as it comes. I never made a choice to dress, it just sort of happened slow over the years. I never set a goal to shop, but found buying my lingerie in person was better then online...same for dresses. I never set a goal to go public, but just decided why not and did. While it is not really a goal, but I would like to do a prefessional photo shoot.
I had aspirations, goals are to be scored and if you miss there is disappointment maybe?
Whatever you call them having something to look forward to gets set in the mind and increases the chances of it happening as you will mull it over in the mind and work out how to achieve the aim. And sometimes the opportunity arises there and then so the 'Hang it all' attitude comes out and you just do it.
As they say,'You only have one life and maybe one chance'....
For 2025, my goal is upgrading of the panty & bra collection with only very high-end items and pack away the boring Vanity Fair for when I must travel to visit family. Add a few dresses or skirts, heels, possibly bigger forms & bras. Maybe can keep it under $1000 USD this year. AND want to find more opportunities to meet & spend time my sisters.
Dani
CD New Years resolutions for Lizzy:
1. Finally get around to booking a make-over/photo shoot
2. Build up the confidence to go out in public as Lizzy
Hopefully like most new years resolutions I won't forget about them by the end of January!
Well, 2024 is the one year that I can remember managing to keep to my New Year's resolution, which was that it was going to be Fiona's year. It certainly has been! As will all years be from now on 🙂
If that's the only time I achieve my aims for New Year then I'll take it. But if I could try something new as Fiona in 2025, it would be to travel by plane and have a holiday in another country.
Of course, I already did that in my male life. If I could try something completely new as Fiona, it would be to travel by plane and jump out of it 😱
Well. Like many I feel guilty and purge all my clothes. So this year I will NOT purge. I’ve had so much fun shopping these past few months. I’ve bought it all. 4 dresses, bras, panties , PJs, satin nighties, shoes , make up, breast forms and more. I’ve had that urge to purge but I firmly said NO. I said I bought and paid for them and they are mine. I love it all and it’s me. So my goal is to never purge my wardrobe and just add to it. ❤️
I have hopes rather than goals. I would like to return to Keystone and Esprit, where I had wonderful times.
My only plan for 2025 is to live each day intensely.
Gisela
I'm going to keep on going with what I started earlier this year, dressing up more, taking lots of pictures of myself, going out for more drives, etc
I want to find more places and events I can go to while dressed. Basically, I want to get out and about more as Rayna.
My weight is down significantly since a few years ago but my "figure" still needs work. I could drop another twenty pounds or more. I need to do a lot more hiking.
I'm putting more work into my beauty routine. I want to up my game there and see if I can turn the clock back a little so I look a little less like a grumpy old man in a dress.
I've been watching some videos posted by a gender specialist, and am considering seeking one out. Something changed for me this year. Crossdressing has become a major component of my life. I've been dressing more and more thoroughly. I've been taking more risks. I joined this website. I've been buying more clothes, shoes, makeup, etc. It's more than an occasional thing now, I'm almost constantly thinking about dressing up. So I want to try to find out where I am on this spectrum and what, if anything, to do about it.
Best wishes for a wonderful holiday season and a beautiful new year to all.
Rayna
For me it is to aim at going out fully dress at least once a month and meet in person other CD’s. Another point is to find excuses to dress instead of excuse to not too.
Shoes. Finding heels that fit was last years' goal, still looking.
My creaky old back anda another 1 or 2 other minor health problems have meant I have not been able to get my "full Caty on" more than once or twice all year. By that I mean at least 18 hrs fully femme with make up etc
Yes I sleep fullly femme every night , with the warmer months my favorite cos I wear my lovely "slikies". French knickers, cami and full length nightie. Bra and forms are a given. I also underdress during the day. Panties, cami and stockings/tights in the winter. But its not the same as being "full on Caty".
So I want to go back to my regular monthly charity volunteer overnight trips to again do the above.
My back has improved but I'm still not "there" yet. Plus I have to get better at make up removal, especially the eyes, cos my hawkeye SO, picked that up so easily in the past....
An en femme shopping trip would be fun again. But I have more than enough "femme' gear already....
I guess the above happens to a lot of us "mature" CD's and at least for me, I am happy and content that I've come as far as I have over the last 40 years
Happy dressing(and Christmas)
Caty
My only goals for 2025 are to make some more lingerie purchases (my favorite!). Otherwise same thing as always, wear lingerie to bed every night! 🙂