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Decision I made 10 years ago is one thing I don't regret doing.I was 31 at the time with a happy life and knew I had a decision to make.It was live both lives as male and Mika or as Mika fulltime.Before I did anything,had a talk with my parents.Knowing I am their only kid,said I have support from them if I decided to go fulltime as Mika.It hurt my first marriage,ex wife said she couldn't take it with me fulltime as Mika.Did separate and filed for divorce on me.I made it through that good although it was ugly,this was in November of 2009.I don't talk to her anymore ever since,this.I made the decision on January 1,2010 to go fulltime as Mika and it was the best thing for me.My parents took it well and still support me to this day,say a much happier daughter came out.Remember it all,went to the salon to get my nails done and permanent hair extensions put in.When I looked in the mirror,said OMG.My friends have been there for me,said my life as Mika has been better which I fully agree about.Remarried in 2013,didn't last very long which ended in divorce,2 months.In 2014,met my 3rd wife Lisa whom has been very supportive.Met her at a LGBT support group,her mom is a lesbian and we started hanging out dating a month later.Married her in 2016 and has been great ever since.
Thank you for sharing your remarkable story with us! I am happy to hear life is treating you well now.
Stay Healthy!
Amy
Hi Mika,
You are very courageous to stick to who you are.
I am sorry you had to go through all of those tough times but it sounds like you definitely know where you want your future to head.
I admire you for they.
Thank you for letting us get to know Mika.
Patty
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I did and knew there were going to be a few sacrifices at the same time
Half that story sounds like my own. Except for the fact that I don't consider myself to have a female alter ego, my wife left after she knew that I like women's swimwear. Although that divorce process was easy, she too has disappeared and I have not heard from her since. That was all 4 years ago. The part about finding someone accepting hasn't happened.
Hello Mika, and welcome to our little slice of heaven.
Those hard times are what make us as strong as we are. It is a shame we must experience them, but here in CDH, you have many shoulder's to lean and cry on if you need to, and many of us have been right there where you are, and we have all survived them.
Keep your chin up and live the life you need.
PaulaF
sounds like you are happy now with who you are and your wife is too.
What better balance could ANYONE ever, ever ask for!
Life is short in the big picture, and best lived when happy!
I'D SAY YOU NAILED IT!
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I did.My parents were asked if they wanted to see me as my male side one more time once.They said no,said they see me much happier as Mika now.I agree with them 100%
