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Well this is a new one for me. If we don’t already have enough definitions for people to choose from, now we have this one, or at least it’s new to me. Demisexuality. What is it? Well in layman’s terms, it defines someone who is attracted to someone else they find interesting as a person, not sexually because of great abs for example. They can develop a sexual attraction over time, but that is not what makes someone attractive initially. Rather, simply find someone interesting as a person intellectually. Hopefully this helps them answer questions about themselves regarding their lack of sexual curiosity, particularly in their teens during the years of discovery.
Back in 1981 I got speaking to a girl on the CB radio. I had no idea what she looked like. Short, tall, fat or thin. I had no idea. We spoke quite frequently and became friends over the air. I ended up really liking her and wanted to meet her and hopefully start a relationship. After about 4 weeks we did meet. We've been together ever since, and married for 32 years.
Being attracted to someone you find interesting is nothing new. It doesn't need a name or a flag. It's just one of the many ways people get to like someone.
Cerys
Back in my day we had a name for this type of a relationship: Friend.
Yeah, Grace but this is the 21st century, or what I like to call the "post-common sense" era!
Allie x
@gracepal - Couldn't agree more Grace, well said. Whatever will they come up with next.
Well, it’s fall now so probably “Pumpkin-spice-sexuality”🤣
Interesting never herd tell 🤔 of this word
@erinb I hadn’t until recently either. Interestingly, someone Demisexual is attracted by someone’s smell, or looks, appearance,etc. but not in a sexual way. It’s not the same as a friendship, but rather, an opportunity for a long term relationship without any sexual stimulation or thoughts as part of the relationship process.
@jillleanne interesting indeed but also kinda like use we could be attractive to another CD but not in sexual away at all im attractive to a very good looking trans who’s an adult entertainer but not in a sexual way by any means here beauty indeed
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