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Dirty Laundry

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(@valentina16)
Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 weeks ago

How does the closet CDer address the essential chore of washing all manner of secret pink and lacey attire and, after washing it, how the feck is he going to get it dry?! I’m guessing hanging it out on a clothes line is prolly not the greatest idea given the very nosey neighbours.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1776

@valentina16 Our dresses go out on washing lines in summer. 

We have hung maids outfits on outside washing lines, as well as more conventional dresses.

Underwear is hung in our middle floor bathroom 

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Princess
(@erinb)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1119

@valentina16 I have some items that need hung dry usually I hang them in the closet depending on time frame I have a shower rod in the utility room that I hang them on as well definitely will not be hanging them outside lol 

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 847

@valentina16   My wife and I launder most things together but put them away separately.  The nylon or satin items. I hang on hangers in the closet.  For bras , girdles and really delicate lacys wash in Woolite in the sink. I use a drying rack  placed in the spare bathroom tub.  When washing one of my wigs, I use a plastic frame stand to dry.

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Lady
(@gorgeousgwen)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Northamptonshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 54

@valentina16 using a dehumidifier in the bathroom while hanging the clothes on a clothes horse works well

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

My femme things go in the wash with e erything else. My wife knows, so it is not an issue. If I am traveling with other people beside my wife then I am a bit more discrete. I have many black panties that a pretty generic, so those have been seen by others. To my knowledge nobody has realized they are panries, not mens' briefs. If they did figure it out, so what?

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 970

@jjandme I read something somewhere about Cary Grant wearing women’s briefs because they were “more comfortable” than mens. I remember thinking: “Well, if Cary is going to wear them than surely its fine if I do too.” Since that, every movie I’ve watched of his to this day - I figure he’s wearing panties underneath. Cuz, they’re more comfortable. Sure Cary, whatever you say girl🥰🤣

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 664

@gracepal Didn’t William Shatner (aka Captain Kirk of course) wear some sort of girdle, keep his belly in? I’ll start the rumour anyway. 🖖

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 970

@valentina16 I think that right! And just look at Bill pushing 94 years old now. I hear all the time that fat around the midsection leads to an early grave. Someone forgot to tell Kirk😊

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(@cherylt)
Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

That used to be an issue and it was very hard to keep certain things clean.

Luckily that's no longer an issue and just toss the soiled in the hamper and do the laundry when it's full. All the panties are mixed then sorted after drying. Our bras hang together to dry. My stockings get washed and hung in the shower. If you came to our house you'd think two women lived here.

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(@jillleanne)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 593

@cherylt lol, isn’t that the truth. If you came to our house, you would find two women living there. lol

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Lady
(@scottyjane)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Inverness, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 19

@cherylt we frequently have an hilarious time in our house sorting our clean washing, the “claim the lace panties” game is always lots of fun!!🤣🤣🤦‍♂️😘

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 6 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 453

@scottyjane We never have that problem. We have completely different tastes and we are completely different sizes.

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Lady
(@scottyjane)
Joined: 1 month ago

Eminent Member     Inverness, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 19

@cherylt that saves a lot of time! We are both the same size and both adore lace, plus we generally like the same colours…but I will admit that any bright red panties are mine!!!😆😆

Jane x

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 970

@cherylt Stockings hanging in showers Ive always found to be a good look. Check out ‘3 Days of the Condor’. Faye Dunaways pantyhose hanging all over her bathroom 😍

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I used to have to wash my things when my wife was asleep mor out of the house. Last year we took a trip and she had me bring something for Suzanne to wear while in our room. I took some panties and pajamas. When we got home I went to do laundry and was going to take Suzanne's things out and wash them separately. My wife said to do them all together. Since then everything gets washed together, bras get hung up to dry everything else goes in the dryer. It's nice not having to worry about doing separate loads.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 664

@cdsue This must be the ultimate test of acceptance. 💚

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

I'm in a DADT household. So to "keep the peace" I do Caty's "smalls" laundry when my beloved is not home. I then hang most of it ina couple of wardrobes with towels etc to catch the drips.

Other items eg, long nighties in the summer, fleecy PJ's in the winter usually end up on a drying rack in my storage unit about 30mins from home.

I also iron anything that requires same in the unit. I got lucky its not the usual "black hole", has power and a window and I've set it up like a mini "Man Cave/She Shed"

Caty

 

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 664

@ryanpaul keeps from rubbing things under her nose. 💚

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Baroness Annual
(@girlyboy9020)
Estimable Member     Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

My mom knows I crossdess because I voluntarily told her so I just do my own laundry which includes washing my panties 🙂!

❤️ Ashlyn 

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 664

@girlyboy9020 it’s an essential part of ordinary ‘life goes on’, innit! 💚

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Being able to do my laundry was such a liberating thing when I came out to my partner. Being able to just wash all of my clothes and hang them out to dry in full view is just so much better!

Fortunately, I have a 'music room' which is on the top floor of our house and she (even now) seldom, if ever, ventures into, so I would wash things every now and again and then have them hanging in there. Not ideal and things only rarely got washed. Eugh! 

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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Upon return from an outing. I sort out the what goes to the cleaners and save the rest for morning laundry. I have a DADT understanding here so i try to keep it discreet and finished before she is up. I'm always up several hours before she is so i've usually ample time for the delicate items that need to hang dry. I built a rather large pool room in my house with two cieling fans. The fans greatly accelerate the drying process for me.

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(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Discreetly. I follow a protocol. Some clothes at home and the best dresses in the laundry.

Gisela

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

I am in a DADT relationship and every Wednesday afternoon I am home alone. Everything gets washed, some goes in the dryer and some things hang in the laundry room where I use a Fan to dry them.

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 664

@ria TY for sharing 💚

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Joined: 7 years ago

Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Posts: 2013

@ria Hi Girls,

My previous home was on a 1 acre block and of course that gave me room for a big shed and "Man Cave'.This took up about 1/3 of the Shed and had a wood heater. and also a restored billiard table. (it was my Dad's)  So on winter nights when "The Boss" was not home" i'd do Caty's laundry, grab two chairs and a billiard cue and thus my "intimates" would be drying "on cue"
Its OK, I'll go now.... My 2001"th" post on CDH. Here's hoping they improve.!!

LOL

Caty.

 

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(@valentina16)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Noble Member     Worcester, Worcestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 664

@ryanpaul Thanks for the insight Caty. The image of smalls on the tip of a billiard cue is a little bizarre, but, needs-must! And congrats on the 2000th post! Puts my 400 or so to shame, lol. 💚

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