Do you catch yourself doing "femme" things when not dressed?

The other day I was shopping in drab mode and passed by the cutest sundress. I stopped and looked through the rack and found my size. Without really thinking I held it up to myself to check the length. I ended up putting it back and not purchasing because I do not have the right bra to wear with it and didnt want to go bra shopping. As I left the store I giggled to myself on what I had just done.

About Thanksgiving, my wife made the observation that I was sitting like an old man or women crossing their legs. Asked if I was more comfortable that way. I just said yes, hadn’t noticed that. She said she has been observing that for a while. Pint is, you’re not the only one. 😌🙂

I was rushed to the hospital i was kept for emergency surgery.They gave me a gown that tied at the sides to put on.I thought it looks like a knee length dress.When i would get back into the bed i would tuck it under sin my butt down first then swing my legs in like a GG would.I did not realize until the next day the nurse gave mt the i know tour secret grin.

All the time!! I love it. I figure if I do it in drab it's so real and treasures me of who I am on the inside. Can't wait to slip some more.

My wife's and had mentioned to me often. She notices little things that I really didn't realize I was doing. Hand movements,  crossing my legs, the way I'm walking around the house . She always knows when I've had my heels on. I strut around and like I'm wearing heels but in my slippers lol!! It's amazing that you can be  acting this way and never notice  .. 🌹

I have caught myself (and my wife has spotted - much to her amusement!) crossing my legs when sat a few times in drab and she has also been able to guess if I’ve worn a bra that day too. In man mode I’m a bit of a slouch but with a bra and forms I have my shoulders back and my posture improves and she noticed I sit straighter occasionally. Think that’s my only ‘giveaways’ but I’m sure there’s more lol

Hi Nancy!  It is so true......you dress like a female, imitate them and soon the "actions" just become natural. I have not been called out for this and really don't worry to much about it. We all have our quirks and no-body really notices unless you are performing "drag" but that isn't a normal trait anyway....more of acting outrageous.

Lady Veronica

I find myself doing a hair flick pretty often. And when I have my hair tied back in a ponybun, I tend to do something similar that I guess amounts to straightening the hair from the temple to behind the ear.

I cross my legs constantly, but I don't really think of that as an exclusively feminine posture.

For me it's little things like swinging my legs when getting out or in a car as if wearing a skirt, crossing my legs, when wearing shorts, keeping my legs together as if wearing a short skirt, checking the progress of my pony tail in the mirror, showing more than a passing interest at women's clothes on display. These were things I used to keep under wrap.  Now I don't care so much. Feels great!!

n

Once I was shopping for a bra (in drab) and I found myself taking a bra off the rack and opening the cups to check if they would fit. I looked around straightaway once I realised what I was doing but there was no one in the aisle. I didn't buy the bra but I walked away feeling quite proud that I'd checked the bra out like women do!

To pull my hair back into a pony/bun feels so sexy!!  So far it is just below my shoulders.  Can't wait for it to grow to mid back.  This is my SO's idea. She has not idea how sexy this makes me feel. She wants me to have pony tail, mustache and beard.  Hope to have courage to reveal my true self and not have the facial hair.

I went to meet some friends at a bar to see their band play. None of them know my secret so I was dressed "mostly drab"...I did have on panties (which of course no one could see) and women's jeans which weren't too tight or decorated so no one could really tell. So I'm standing there leaning against a pinball machine watching the band and notice my pose felt quite feminine so I tried to straighten up and assume a more manly stance but I couldn't do it! No matter how I stood it felt feminine. I tried several different positions but I couldn't control it. It was a very strange feeling. Finally I decided to go sit down but the walk to the nearest table was the same way. I only got strange looks from one person that I know but said the heck with it. They've all going to find out one day anyway. It's good to know all that practice is paying off.

Definitely, I've noticed that I cross my legs over the knee or sit with my knees more together. Less of that man-spreading and a little more feminine.

When picking out my male clothes I'm also now trending to go for the tighter fits and the clothes that are a little more androgynous if not quite female.

CB x

<p style="text-align: left;">Believe it or not with me it’s mostly while driving . I commute almost 2 hrs each way to work , plenty of time to check out how other women sit and hold their hands while driving , I sit up high and get a good view. I then find myself emulating ones that look feminine. But I often find myself doing it on my own without the visual . It’s often legs close together , one hand on the wheel the other on my lap or even between my legs ,other times the hand is on flat on my chest at the collarbone .  The elbows are generally down as apposed to men with the elbow up. It’s a wonderful feeling when you unconsciously find yourself in feminine mode</p>