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Hi Ladies, I’m still quiet about sharing my secret (Katey). So do you find it that you feel more feminine when you get to be your real self? I always wear my undies under my male clothes, so when I go out it gives me such a warm feeling that Katey is with me and no one around me knows. Feels a little mischief.
Feeling like I'm hiding in plain site is what gives me my fun when out and about. I can look at all the clothes and jewellery I like without feeling like people are looking at me as they might if I were in drab. It all feels a little naughty, but it's such fun.
Becca
In a way sure. When I’m wearing all the clothes and nails and shoes, I definitely feel very feminine. That’s a feeling I can’t usually get any other way.
But my mindset typically is a bit more feminine than masculine. Ok maybe a lot more … 🎀. In that sense my feminine feel doesn’t change very much whether I’m dressed or not.
My journey into CD does include some exciting journeys out n about. But, mainly indoors. But, you have to buy some shopping in some days, and it’s such a bind burying the en femme look. I’m not ready (and may never be ready) to go out fully en femme. 💚
Katey -
Be yourself.
I have my femme feeling pretty much all the time. I do underdress at times in panties, tights, knee high nylons as well as wearing ankle boots. My ears are pierced so I wear earrings 24/7, mostly studs and small hoops although I have worn dangling earrings in public. I keep everything form my neck down shaved, as well as wearing nail polish (clear with a pink tinge on my fingers and color on my toes). All of this reminds me of my femininity without others knowing.
Enjoy what you do, there is no right or wrong in expressing yourself.
XOXO
Suzanne
I have felt feminine since I was a child, like every waking moment. I had to live another way. It was for survival. I am more free to be me now. Earlier this week, I went out to my hair stylist dressed up. It may sound corny but I felt like I was one with the universe.
I am unusual even amongst unusual people and I always find threads like this interesting. I simply don't know what it means to feel more feminine or feel masculine for that matter. I am always just me. The female clothes are a preference, what feels like the right thing to wear, they don't make me feel any different
It don't feel feminine. At least I don't think that I do. I wouldn't know what feminine feels like.
My persona doesn't change when presenting as Cerys other than I'm a lot more confident. Cerys is a lot more stylish than the name me.
As for the real me.... Cerys is my superhero. She's my armour. She boosts me Even though I spend a lot more time as Cerys than it did the real me, the male me is the real me. If feeling like I do when I'm out presenting as Cerys is what it feels like to be female, in very envious of females 🙂
Cerys
These responses show how not all CDs are the same.
I wear cotton panties every day even when out in public in drab 🙂! I start to feel very anxious and depressed if I’m forced to wear my male underwear (like if I’m on vacation sharing a room with someone who doesn’t know I crossdress)
❤️ Ashlyn
I underdress every day in panties and camisole, occasiaonnly with a bralette as well. and sleep femme every night. My favorite time is the latter, especially ion a warmish night when I can clothe myself in pure silk nightwear. Plus bra and forms.
Sometimes I get lucky and my forms stay attached sans bra. So to lie in bed with all "that loose weight" on my chest, makes me feel as close to the "real thing" I can get.
Due to minor but persistent health probs, I have not been "full femme" for two years. I'm hoping to correct this in 2025.
Caty.
I'm not sure how different I feel when I'm dressed. I'm still me. I do think that I behave differently and when I'm fully dressed I am much more feminine in my mannerisms.
I underdress almost always and usually in other feminine tops and jeans etc, so always feel connected to that side of me. However, I don't always put a wiggle in my walk when I'm not in heels 🙂
Caroline your response reminded of one time I was leaving the grocery store. This hottie came pulling in nearby. One of those girls so good looking just sitting in the driver’s seat - you have to wait for her to exit so you can get a good look. It was worth the wait and she wiggled and strutted her way across the parking lot into the store. I almost went back in, she was THAT cute🥰.
As I passed by her car I noticed her personalized license plate: SWIVEL.
Perfect.
Absolutely Katey, I wear romantic lingerie to bed every night so I feel extremely feminine as Jess!
That’s wonderful ❤️