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Hello sweet girls
Altought like most of you I began my CD in my early years but I'm just starting regular wearing women clothes two years ago, first I used sport panties just to go out for a run (it prevents chaffing so it is wonderful), then I started to wear panties in a daily basis. About a year ago, for the first time I dressed fully en femme and i falled in love with what I saw, i saw Annette and I recognized her for the first time, but remain as a closeted crossdresser until now and never been out.
The thing is, for the last couple of weeks I am under-dressed full time, bra and panties and sometimes pantyhose under my male clothes. Also in the weekends I wear women jeans, women jackets and everything else that it is not so obviously feminine.
I define myself as a non-transitioning straight crossdresser, I began to accept I am a binary person with a male part and a female part, so when I under-dress I feel that I can be both everyday.
But I started to question myself if I am a CD or I am transgender or a woman trapped in a male body, my therapist diagnosed me as soft leve gender dysphoria, buy how can i know is just this.
So, without intention to hurt any sensibilities and just for the sake of my inner journey, to all my CD straight girlfriends:
do you're under-dressed in daily basis?
Just panties or bra and panties?
Anyone feel the same as me?
Thank you in adavance for your kind help.
Kisses,
Annette
Hi Annette, I undress in CK women's underwear daily , bikini or brief , Tiff ☺
I underdressed for the first time the other day after 12 years of active crossdressing. I'd been to a burlesque class on a Saturday morning, and had worn an improvised gaff for the first time. Switched from male undies to some of my panties for the class, but couldn't be bothered to get changed afterwards, so just put my guy clothes on. We sent straight from the class to do some shopping. Frankly I found it a bit weird wandering around the shops in my male clothes wearing a gaff and lacy briefs under my jeans. I can't say I will be rushing to do it on a regular basis 🙂
I started wearing panties daily about three years ago. After about 4 months, my wife suggested that I remove my boxers from my dresser aa they were juat taking up space. (It took me another month before I did.) It has been only panties daily since then.
I did try going back to boxers when we moved in with her parents a year ago. My wife and I were concerned that her mother would be too helpful. That lasted barely six weeks. Panties are just much more comfortable. I find it amusing that I switch to boxers from briefs as a teenager for comfort. And now prefer panties over boxers for comfort.
I have worn a sports bra for athletic activities for several years now. I started to avoid chaffing while biking, but have discovered that the sports bra provides support and comfort given my natural breast tissue. On the same token, I began wearing a bra in general in January of this year, looking for more support and comfort. (I'm naturally a B cup.) After a few weeks, it became normal, and now on the few occasions that I must go without, it's feela wrong.
On the last note, my wardrobe in general is a mixture of menswear and womenswear. In general, I wear the clothes that fit my mood and the occasion. Professionally, that means mostly menswear, but casually and socially, that could menswear, womenswear, or a combination of the two. For me, it is about being me and being comfortable.
MacKenzie Alexandra
Yes I do! Panties every day, VS or Casique. If I have to wear male underwear it is bikini jockey but it not nearly as comfortable or sexy.
Danielle💋👠👗
I under dress often, but panties only, most of the time, the odd time I wear a bra as well. I wore bras when out more often on the cold weather when I was wearing a coat to cover it up.
What I have got to really like wearing for panties are bathing suit bikini bottoms. I love the smooth feel of them, and they hold "boys" in place better than most panties I have. That would be about 4-5 days a week.
Amy
I've worn panties under my male outerwear disguise every day for the past 6 or 7 years. They have helped me suppress the desire for more outward dressing, but the drugs aren't working so well any more.
HI Annette, I under dress every day, with body suits bras and briefs, I also love wearing a tight fitting shaping dress that I can pull down over my ladies pants. I also have the question of am i transgender or a women trapped in a mans body.
Hi Annette,
I have been for about the the year and half. It has been panties, a bra, and a cami pretty much daily. I can get away with wearing a bra because I am on the thin side and I can wear smaller cup ones that are hard to see even when wear a tee shirt. But in the colder months I can go a little bigger because I mostly wear big loose fitting sweatshirts which hide them nicely.
Hugs Lizzy
I do not have any "male" underwear in the house so I underdress in panties all the time. When at home I also wear a bra and forms. In the cooler months, I often have a bra on when I go out too.
Oh yes, I love to underdress, it allows me to stay connected to my feminine self, not to mention the fact that I love how a beautiful pair of silk panties feels underneath my slacks while I'm at work. I haven't had the guts yet to wear a bra, (maybe I should get a strapless or sports bra) but I do own several pair of women's jeans that I like to wear out in public on weekends.
Yes. For the last 6-7 months, I have not worn male underwear at all.
Mostly soft, light cotton briefs - the only real difference between them and male pants is the lightness and stretchiness of the material, and the colours!
I find the lightness far more comfortable, less prone to sweetness, and the stretchiness holds everything in place, gently, preventing fallout.
I mean c'mon! What sadist designed men's underwear when women's is so perfect?
Sometimes I'll wear a cami and/or tights, for warmth - but not in our current seasonal heat!
Love Laura
You'll find a strapless bra needs fussing with, I am always pulling mine up when I wear it, especially with forms too. A sports bra is a good starter, most of them have the option to remove the padding too.
I under dress often, wearing a bra creates too much issues if someone hugs you as they can see and feel the straps easily, I have found wearing a bralette gives me the best option as you cannot feel it nor see it. On cold winter days, I will add some lace top stockings, shocking as to how warm they keep your legs!
Hi Leah,
Yes stay up thigh highs insulate quite well in the winter and wearing a bralette is so comfortable when there is not too much to support😁.
Danielle 💋👠👗