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I also under dress every day and it seems normal nowadays. I also wear women jeans on the weekend with a plainer top. This way I’m out in public and no one notices.
Underdress as much as my life will allow. Mainly leisure time as at work would be a problem. Where I work is in the process of cutting staff, redundancy in the UK, don't know if you call it that stateside. So one advantage is more me time.
Anybody need employees😉😁
Underwear daily which is never an issue until I go to the gym!
Oh Donna,
I’ve been through that a few times with work and twice with wives. It isn’t easy trying to keep things together especially if one side constantly demeans the other and is relentless about it. So keep your wits about you, spirit up, and keep forging ahead. Here it is called downsizing😔! Something is
Sure to come up for you and I will be praying you find something.
Danielle 💋👠👗
They are the only underwear I ever wear! Before I retired, I had two strategies. When I was over weight, I wore an extra firm control girdle everyday. On days I went to the gym, I changed out of my girdle into beige panties in my office before going to the gym. As I lost weight and stopped wearing girdles each day, I gradually became more bold in my panty choices, wearing more feminine colors, but no patterns.
Over time I expanded my color palate eventually going with lace trimming, cute little bows and ribbon, bright floral patterns and the like. Even at the gym, I change clothes without trying to hide what I’m wearing underneath my otherwise male attire.
For the last 5 years I have been wearing panties under my clothes with the exception of when I'm at work.... But I have just discovered Aerie cotton boy brief undies in navy, gray and black and they are now my stealth work panties. Good bye ugly weird men's underwear.
Thanks for kind reply. To be honest I've been there before myself and come out the other side. Look on the bright side more me time. Downsizing is very appropriate in this case. Have nice day, chin up and thanks.
xoxo
Dear Annette!
I also under dress as much as I can! Lately I wear panties daily no more BVDs! I also love wearing a bra almost 3 to 4 days a week!! I have also worn jeans and tops that can pass almost for men’s clothes!
I hope someday I can go out dressed feminine totally but for now I really enjoy the feminine underwear! It brings the woman out in me! Since my wife died over a year ago I have developed my feminine wardrobe especially things I can wear around the house when I am alone!
Love you!! ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Kimmie, I too change at the gym without concerns about my female underwear & manscapped pubic area & touchwood there's never been an issue , Tiff ☺
Hi Annette. This is a good question. Honestly, I've only under-dressed on maybe 2-3 occasions, and that was years ago when I was going to some fetish related events...back when life was simpler, lol. I haven't done it in years though. BUT I did just buy some new panties that I may try under-dressing in. If my wife would be on board with it, I might try it more often, but for now, let's just say it's an experiment in progress. I'll keep you posted though. 😉
Have fun...
I underdress as time allows when not at wor and with a greater frequency. I love, love, love wearing panties. I've recently bought my first bras and have been wearing them as well.
Yes all day and all night. Minimum panties cami and tights. Bra and forms most nights in bed, (my SO and I do not sleep in the same room, let alone bed. "maturity will do that for you..)
Only an 18a bra during the day when I know I will not be hugged by my belovedand the bra band would give me away...
Tho come the Australian summer, I will have to desist with the above. Just too hot.
Caty
yes, panties and a cami, or racerback tank, very occasionally a bra, every single day since the beginning of the year. I haven't thrown out my male undershorts, thinking I would take them when I travel for work and have to room with someone, but so far, I haven't taken them and just put on jammies in the loo. I guess throwing those out and making more space in my dresser for pretty things will be the next step.
Hello Annette, Yes I have been underdressing everyday for 2 or 3 years now. I wear knickers everyday, bra/tights most days, except when weather is hot. I go out to friends/shopping/etc underdressed as well, which is great also. Get to fully dress 3-4 times a week, but only around the house for a hour or so. I do go out in the garden from time to time, fully dressed, but that is far as I go. Have not been out in public so far, may be some day in the future. love, Helenmarie
Pantyhose whenever possible. But this heatwave we're having is killing that! Ugh!