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I just went grocery shopping en femme and loved it. It was wonderful to stroll up and down the aisles looking for the things I needed...and a few things I didn't need (how did those Jelly Bellies get in my cart? 😊)
I posted a post-shopping picture in my gallery.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/photo/the-most-ordinary-thing/#comments
Just showing how easy and natural it can be to do easy and ordinary things. We can be our own worst critic. Nobody cared in the east.
@jjandme most people don't care,those that do care are too busy too see , the rest dont matter
I suppose my life is pretty ordinary, but I spend most of my life presenting as a woman while doing ordinary things. This makes the experience seem real to me, as compared to the less frequent opportunities to go out on the town.
JJ so true I was out shopping in the big city all en femme, girlie jeans blouse painted toes on display, light makeup including subtle lipstick and some nice jewelry. had some compliments when talking to the sales gals a few looks but a totally positive experience. Nobody cared or even noticed except on a positive note
@jjandme I'm happy it was such a great experience for you. I've done the same and thoroughly enjoyed it. It was particularly nice to go to the cosmetics section and feel comfortable looking at makeup and looking through the hosiery
@jjandme Wish my SO would let me out. Do you know Jelly Bellys actually contain jumping beans. That’s how they get in my cart also.
Its fun to do ordinary things like grocery shopping,mailing letters at the post office,going to Hallmarks card store and taking myself out to eat.People are too busy to notice anything and if they do,just smile and say hello,no matter what your voice sounds like,
I agree that doing ordinary things femme are wonderful and some of my most favorite things to do as Olivia. You are right that most other people are so caught up in their own world they won't notice at all you let alone take a second look. For me doing the things as Olivia that I would normally do as my male self, kind of makes me feel complete that I can do the same things with both my identities. The small interactions with people like the waitress at a cafe or a shop assistant while paying or needing help, leave me almost euphoric as it confirms to me that there is a place in this world for Olivia. Yes we can be our own worst critic but if we are confident and own the moment nothing can stop us.
JJ -
How nice that you were able to do that, hopefully it is the first of many. I long for the day I can venture out like that but alas it won't be happening soon. I have ventured out underdressed which is not the same but is a start.
XOXO
Suzanne
