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Hi all, last week I had one of thise days dressing,when i was disappointed in my appearance and got very frustrated. At that point I said forget it why do i keep doing this. So in an angry moment I hit delete account button. I regretted it soon after, I should have realized it is the way I feel not Always the way I look. Now that i rejoined, I have to re find all friends and explain my tantrum which is long process. So final advice NEVER DELETE ACCOUNT!!!!! KISSES ALL Shannon💋💋
Hi Shannon,
I am newer and we were not friends but maybe we can now. I have had a rough week and this morning I felt like why do I bother being Eva. I need some alone time and a nice bubble bath to reset.
Eva... sweetheart, you bother being Eva because you are Eva! That’s why we all do what we do... because we are who we are and no amount of wishful thinking can change that!
Hugs Polly 🌈
Welcome back Shannon...
You were missed xx.
Grace x
I suspect many of us have moments (days?) when we wonder what the heck were trying to accomplish with this. I do. I try to just not think about that and do "other" things until my mind gets right again. I've had trouble lately due to just... stuff going on that's kept me from dressing hardly at all, and that's made me irritable, doubtful, and all that. This place has been a refuge for me though, and all you girls have kept me from losing touch.
Thanks,
Bridgette
Keep cheerful Bridgette...i think you're smashing ....
grace x
Hi Shannon we all have day's like that where we just can't get that look we are after and it gets so frustrating well i know i do I'm not sure about the rest of the girls on here,
Hugs Rozalyne x
Good advice, Shanon. I will never get the look I want, but so what? I still feel like a girl when Dressed, and the natives don't chase me with pitchforks and torches, so I will keep on doing it.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Actions speak louder than words, happy your back 😊...🌷
Nice to meet you Shannon and welcome back.
Sound advice Shannon, I'm going to add it to my daily mantra:
- NEVER DELETE
- NEVER PURGE
Big hugs
Diana.
I hear you, Bridgette!
Enforced time off from dressing makes me proper cranky. About a month is my normal max, and I am 5 days away from month 3 of continuous drab, with a potential end to the drought in May.
Anger, frustration, resentment, annoyance at my male self for being so weak, all these and more...
But doubt no longer enters my mind. I am what I am.
Grrrrr!
Love Laura
Welcome back Shannon!
Alice
I think we've all been there. It's always a bad idea though. You just end up having to do like you did- start over from square one. You basically just purged (which is a very bad idea also). Some sites let you put your account on hold for a while. It's better to do that. That way, when you come back, everything is still there and you don't have to start fresh.
Hi Shannon, welcome back! Great words of advice. everybody needs a break now and then, and that's okay, sometimes we need a bit of space. Sure the doors always open to come back, but I hope no one feels that need to delete their account. Hey, we're family.
Stevie
