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(@davina56)
Eminent Member     Grimsby, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago
  1. How many ladies have got pierced era's and who wears clip on.

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Lady
(@kari616)
Joined: 4 months ago

Active Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 8

@davina56 

I wear clip-ons currently but I’m seriously considering getting my ears pierced. It’s not that uncommon to see a guy wearing earrings in both ear’s these days, so having a small hole in each earlobe or wearing a pair of men’s earrings when you’re in male mode is really not a big deal 

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(@casimiro85)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Dallas, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 14

@kari616 I just got my ears pierced and no one at work or even my friends said anything negative about it which really surprised me

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3838

@davina56 

I wore clip-ons for years when I was CDing.  The selection was okay....not as good as for pierced.  But it was hard to find ones that didn't hurt after an hour or two.  I had 2-3 go-to pairs. 

I got my ears pierced when I went full time a few years ago.  Most days I wear gemstone posts or dangle earrings. 

One thing that's been an adjustment is the price for good quality earrings.  Cheap, low-quality metal irritates my piercings.  I expect to pay at least $25 for earrings nowadays.

/LK

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2147

@davina56 I have had my ears pierced for over 3 years now. At first had studs and now up to what ever I want. 

Cassie 

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(@marleneroberts)
Joined: 5 years ago

Honorable Member     Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 573

@davina56   I wear clip ons and find them not a problem. There is enough choice that I am happy. My wife suggested I get my ears pierced but I do not want the bother of the healing process or the attention they would get from the family and friends. Best, Marlene.

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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Posts: 1058

@marleneroberts I would love it mi so said that. You are so lucky.

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Lady
(@briana)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 67

@davina56 i got one ear pierced on the day after thanksgiving 1985.

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Lady
(@sashabennett)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
Posts: 801

@davina56 I've had pierced ears for 40+ years now. Even back then it was not anything too outrageous so I'm somewhat surprised that so many are still using clip on's. These days it's unlikely to cause any issues & it gives you so many options so why not just go for it.

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1488

@davina56 I’m a clip on girl at the moment. I’ve considered getting my ear pierced but still haven’t pulled the trigger in it yet.

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Lady
(@gardie62)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Chestertown, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 55

@davina56 
Clip on for me, piercing would draw to much attention , although the selection is limited

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Lady
(@jillleanne)
Joined: 2 years ago

Prominent Member     Renfrew, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 594

@davina56 clip ones, ouch!!! lol I remember them. Been pierced for years now.

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Lady
(@glennalove73)
Joined: 3 years ago

New Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 2

@davina56  Hi, I have pierced ears, three on each side. I adore earrings!

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(@casimiro85)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Dallas, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 14

@davina56 I finally decided to get my ears pierced because I have so many earrings I have been wanting to wear. The clip ons hurt after a while.

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Duchess
(@gina5)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Washington, United States of America
Posts: 118

@davina56 If I got piercings, I would have to hide it at work.  If I could get them pierced, I'd do it tomorrow. Live your life the way you want to.

 

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     Northeast GA , Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 185

@davina56 currently using clip ons but planning to pierce in a couple of months.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1197

@davina56 I wear clip-ons right now but I'm really thinking about getting my ears pierced.  Pierced earrings are more secure and the range of available styles is so much larger.   I just love the feeling of dangly earrings!

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 6 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 468

@davina56 Mine have been pierced for about 20 years. I began with a single, then made it a pair and finally (all within a year) added the second pair. So both ears are double pierced and I wear diamond studs in the uppers (a birthday gift from my wife) and always something pretty in the lowers like hoops or chandeliers depending on my mood and outfit. I used to wear clip on earrings and they always hurt after a few hours. I always wanted to be able to wear earrings all the time and wear all the lovely styles available. 

My go to set is my studs and 1" gold twisted hoops.

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(@judevderl)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 94

@davina56 I got both my ears pierced when I was 18. I used to wear a gold sleeper / hoop in each ear every day. These days, in male mode, I just go for one ear only, but alternate the ear to keep the piercings alive. My wife thinks that wearing both looks a bit too girly. However, when I'm in girl mode, I wear earrings in both ears.

I also had my nose pierced when I was 19 and used to wear a small nose stud. My wife hates it. I still wear it when in girl mode.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

I wear clip ons, scared of needles,and am amazed at the variety available. There are clips that can be bought that will carry standard ear rings.

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Lady
(@florapgh)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Pittsburgh , Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 80

@ab123 do you know where you can find the “adapter” clips?  The selection of earrings for pierced ears is so much more than clip ons.  I love wearing earrings as well as other jewelry, but haven’t considered piercing my ears yet.  I’ve looked in stores and very few carry clip ons.  I can sometimes find some at flea markets and thrift stores.

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Lady
(@emily2day)
Joined: 3 years ago

Estimable Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 72

@florapgh I bought my adapters from Amazon.

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(@ab123)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Posts: 3404

@florapgh I get mine online by putting 'clip on ear ring blanks', they are used by jewelry makers..They have a small loop to hang normal ear rings from, I sometimes clip the wires shorter so they hang better.

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(@davina56)
Joined: 4 months ago

Eminent Member     Grimsby, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 10

@florapgh You can get the on Temu love, I've just ordered some that my wife found. xx

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 2098

@florapgh I've gotten them from JoAnn's Fabrics and Michaels in the jewelry section. I also make some of my own jewelry which is fun and easy (so long as you keep it simple). It helps me extend my crossdressing and it is nice to wear unique pieces. I get charms and beads from the stores I mentioned as well as the hardware to make them. Can be cheaper too.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 6 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 468

@ab123 They don't use needles anymore to pierce your ears. It's like a gun. The starter earring is mounted and the device positioned around the lobe. A quick pull and it's in. I took my nephew to have his done. He was sooo nervous (he was 14). Then he watched an 8 year old girl get hers done. She never flinched. "I'm next" he said loudly LOL. 

You don't even feel it.

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

I wear clip on ones as I don't wear earrings in male mode.

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(@reallylauren)
Noble Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

I'm a full time girl, so I'm always wearing pierced earrings, usually hoops.

Hugs,

Ms. Lauren M

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Clipons for me. As a closet CD, getting my ears pierced would attract too many awkward questions.

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

My ears are done had them for many years never been questioned as long as you take the big hoops out lol 😂 considering my belly button but SO says no to feminine so I’m considering a clip on but haven’t bought one yet  

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Lady
(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

I had my ears pierced in August, yes it hurt but only for a moment. I kept the studs in for the prescribed 6 weeks and since then I have worn earrings every day in whichever mode I am. Usually I wear small earrings that have a locking piece on the back but my favourites are longer dangly ones that hook in to the ear. Putting in the smaller ones can be tricky and I always take them out at bedtime.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

I tried clip-ons but the range was so limited so, in January, I had my ears pierced and it has been fantastic ever since. My ears healed up enough to change earrings after six weeks, although it was a little sore doing that at first. Now of course, I have no trouble with them.

I like drop or larger hoop earrings when I go out, but for everyday use (if in male mode) I have a few pairs of smaller hoops. All my rings are either fish-hooked (my favourite but only work for drop earrings) or latch-closure. I hate those ones where you have to put a stud on the back as with my sausage fingers, they are a pita.

I keep thinking about getting a second piercing in each lobe, but each time I remember I'll have to go through that darned cleaning and healing process and I think I can't be arsed with that. The thought is always there though, so I'm not ruling it out.

Becca

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Baroness Annual
(@nickicd)
Reputable Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Clipons for me. If I find a pair of pierced earrings that I like I just convert them.

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Lady
(@margprodue)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 1101

@nickicd  I do the same thing too Nicki.  And if I find that a pair starts slipping off, I just add a tiny drop of nail glue and have no worries.  Marg

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Lady
(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Getting my ears pierced was the greatest moment of my CDing!!!! No regrets at all. I wear earrings in both modes. No one questions. 

Clip ons are OK, but the selection is nothing like that for pierced. 

The feeling of a large, dangly pair of earrings swinging about is just wonderful. 

Careful though. My holes have become long through to many hours of heavy danglers! 🙂

Cerys

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1278

@dazzler The holes becoming too open is a concern of mine. How long is it before holes elongate, I'm presuming it's quite a long time even with daily wearing?

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Lady
(@dazzler)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Posts: 821

@rebeccabaxter With me it wasn't that long. I really overdid the heavy earrings. One pair were really heavy and had a very thin hoop wire. Basically, as they swang, they slowly filed the holes down. Now I've stopped wearing those, the holes seem to have stopped growing. 

Cerys

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 Lacy
Duchess
(@rholtman96)
Reputable Member     Lincoln city, Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Clip ons for me, my wife says no to piercing my ears. I've found that you can always adjust the clip if they are too tight by bending them out just a bit.

Lacy 

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I wear clip ons too.  I’m too scared to have pierced ears, I just know it would raise a lot of questions.

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(@casimiro85)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Dallas, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 14

@jennconn that's what kept me from getting my ears pierced but ever since I did it, no one has even questioned me about it. Some of the guys at work even said what took you so long. I'm still waiting on them to heal up so I can start wearing the hoop style earrings

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Clip ons for me.

Alice

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Lady
(@jml)
Reputable Member     Near Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

I wear clip on earrings.

Joan

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Lady
(@gienne)
Estimable Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

I had a desire for pierced ears decades before CDing was even on my horizon, but it probably was the seed. Still haven’t done it. I present as male (I’m an underdresser) with only a few subtle visible feminine gestures. But men with pierced ears are not that unusual now, so I’m seriously considering finally taking the plunge. I’d probably wear mostly “guy type” earrings, but the idea of pierced ears has always seemed somehow deliciously feminine to me, and getting them pierced would be sort of a (semi) permanent symbolic acknowledgement of my feminine side.

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(@casimiro85)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Dallas, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 14

@gienne I'd say go for it. Like you said it's not that unusual anymore to see guys with earrings. I did it recently and no one has said anything bad about it. I was mostly concerned about my parents but even they were ok with it.

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