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Okay, so I'm writing ahead of time, but tomorrow (20/06), I will be going out for the very first time enfemme.
My wife has been encouraging me to eventually do this for a while now, and we finally agreed that tomorrow would be that day. We've been thinking of different places to go to, whilst also allowing for the possibility of rain that has been predicted in the area, so no chickening out from me with excuses, lol.
I will be wearing a kinda casual/feminine outfit to try and blend in, and a slightly subtle makeup, but it will definitely be with a view of presenting as feminine, rather then androgynous, which is the most I've ever done before. This is seriously new territory for me, and any advice from any of you experienced girls would be very much appreciated and helpful.
I am both extremely excited and extremely nervous, but it'll be a very big step for me tomorrow. Wish me luck girls! 😄
OOOOH, Im so excited for you, KHeart, you will do great I'm sure.
I am not experienced, but from what I have gleaned, is be confident, hold your head high, smile, and remember, you are likely looking at them, more than they, you
Good luck honey
Hugs, Regi👸💕
I hope everything go well for you
I would love to go out dressed, but i not brave enough
Good luck
From Emily
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KHeart we all wish you best sweetie, best advice I can give you is just be yourself and act as natural as you can. Keep your eyes focused forward, and don't be worrying about what you think people might or might not be saying. Remember to most people your just another face in the crowd and most won't suspect a thing. Have a beautiful day and enjoy the day out. Lol Amanda xx ps you can do this sweetie.
I don’t have any advice other than to enjoy the experience. I’m hoping we’ll get a report afterwards 🥰? I’ll be vicariously living through you. Good luck, you got this!
— Abbie 😘
Hi K.
All I can say is....remember this..
Hang on to her arm, stay calm, and take it all slow.
Breathe deep breaths, look ahead, and the day will flow.
You have waited do long for this...make sure you enjoy it...every second.
Best wishes, grace xx
Go out and have fun! I go out regularly and my sole bit of advise is attitude. If you own it and are relaxed and just go about things like everything is normal most people even if they notice “something” they are to busy with their lives to worry about yours. Good luck!
🍷C
Have fun Kheart! Follow your wife’s lead. Stay focused on taking those small steps, palms up and enjoy your perfume!
Alice
Well, of course, I wish you the very best of luck - I think you'll have an absolute blast!
Encouraged by the S/O?
Wow!!!
Proper cross dresser heaven!
My tip is don't worry about whatever other people think - the important people are you two.
My other tip is to smile lots, and look around you.
Chances are, people will smile back and enhance the experience.
Love Laura
You are so lucky having your wife by your side on your first outing. Just remember, shoulders back, eyes up, smile, smaller steps, and most of all ENJOY 💃💋👗👡👜💄
Wife is going with you? Piece of cake! And you will love it, the first time you are addressed as "you ladies". And don't worry; you will be totally ignored, except perhaps by some vendors in mall kiosks...presuming you are not outrageously dressed - and your wife will see to that. Have fun.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Good luck be sure to let us know how it goes. 💕💋 Katie
So happy for you KHeart. I am sure all will go well. All the advise from all the girls here have given so far is it.
I am sure all the stories hereon CDH helped give you the courage to do this. That's what pushed me out there.
good luck and have fun. Sandy
Well I hope all goes well, and with the help and guidance of your wife I would think it shall!
So let us all know how it went!
Congrats!
Amy
On the show The Marvelous Mrs Maisel, they use a phrase that says to be proud and strong, essentially, but equally is important for us: "Tits up!" Meaning keep you shoulders back, your back straight, and look like a girl! That's my advice. Head up shoulders back, tits up. Be bold and proud, and you won't be challenged by anyone.
Also, you'll love it and want it again and again.
Bridgette
