Ever Been Confronted In The Ladies Room..? What Did You Do?

Hi Hannah I keep everything shaved down all the time I would say it's personal weather you shave or not. Every time I have gone out I have made sure I haven't needed to use the bathroom but the one time I did i did use the ladies room and no one noticed or said anything to me about it and I don't think you would get in trouble for using the ladies room. I would shave your face though and makeup never hurts I hope that your adventure out is fun and goes well

Never confronted, but then again I don’t speak (I have a radio announcer voice).  I just act like I belong (I do) but I also wear makeup and keep everything shaved.  (My wife hates it)

Hannah Jeanne

Hi Hannah,

When I go out I always use the ladies room. Just walk in like u belong, because you do sweetie. I always have full makeup on but do not shave my arms haven’t been noticed yet. Good luck.

Sapphire

I have only been out once when I needed to use the restroom.  At the time, I was more concerned with being confronted by a few men who were waiting outside the restrooms than I was with being confronted in the bathroom by anyone.   The experience, however, was uneventful, which actually did wonders for my confidence.

MacKenzie Alexandra

I use the bathroom almost every time I go out. Always a little nervous but never a problem. Go in, do your business, wash your hands and leave. Don't make small talk.

Unless it's very busy, I doubt anyone will notice your arms. But.... how hairy are they?

I , too, simply act as though I belong.. and *IF*  I make small talk, it's *very* small and very brief. Plus, I don't speak loudly at all.

My arms *are* hairy.. but I Nair them the night before.

I have been out femme for a month.  First advice, stop having these fears.  As other people have said, be confident and act like that you belong, because you do.

Secondly, do what you can reasonably can to pass.  That means shaving your arms, putting on makeup, and do other things you need to do.  The voice is not something that can be easily changed overnight.  If it is a concern, I would recommend checking out some YouTube videos that offer some advice.  It will come around as a habit.  What I keep in mind is to have my voice in a higher range, make it a little breathy, and make you sure you are modulating it.  Don't talk in a high monotone.

I used the women's bathroom on a regular basis.  Even at places, where I have used the bathroom as a man.  I have had no trouble.  It's a public bathroom.  Just like the men's room, women just want to walk in, do their business, wash their hands, and leave.  There will be no one standing guard making sure you should be there or not.  I know there has been a lot of political handwringing over this issue.  Actual incidents are few and far between.  If you do come across someone who stops you from using the bathroom, there are resources you can use to make sure that won't happen again.  From lawyers to activists, there are people available that will make that business regret embarrassing you like that.

Yes indeed after sipping coffee at length at a favorite spot one needs the restroom.

Clearly I cannot use the male restroom especially since I just sat there the past hour catching the surreptitious ogle eyes.

No problems as yet with restrooms as I am fully passable but I am also not sure about local laws so I am super careful.

As mentioned above a confident strut and ownership of the situation makes all the difference.

As also mentioned above practice speaking in a breathless soft tone, or raise the octave level.

I tend to lapse back into my normal voice if the conversation stretches out.

When I meet a friend in public I need to keep my voice level low so that I can talk in my normal voice.

Don't fear the ladies restroom......Ladies.

Barb.

I have yet to go out, but I think about some of the concerns you raise. I have also noticed over the years that not all women have hairless arms. I just shot a model who had noticeably hairy arms and it's not anything I would touch up or mention. No need...it is who she is. I recall when I lived in Puerto Rico many years ago it wasn't uncommon to meet women who did not shave their legs or armpits. In some cultures, I think you may encounter that attitude. I also enjoy a husky voice on a woman...it can be damned sexy.

I've been going out for several years and have used ladies rooms on a regular basis.  But it's never just to see if I can do get in there, it's because I really need to go.  That makes it a business trip, not a vacation.

First and foremost I attempt to be the best representation of a woman as I can.  While I don't pass as a woman, I sure as hell can do the very best I can to show I'm trying.  The last thing I want to do is fit the stereotype of "A man in a dress" trying to get into the ladies room.  I don't need the aggravation and I don't want to muddy the waters for any other T-girl who follows me.

Get in, do your business, wash your hands and check out your reflection to make sure you haven't tucked your skirt into your underwear, touch up your lips and leave.

I've been in one of two stalls in a small restaurant restroom when a mother brought her young daughter in.  I stayed planted until they were gone.  I've waited in line at a busy casino restroom where there was a mother and her daughter.  I didn't start conversations and hurried as quickly as I could.  No problems.  Just be confident and remember, it's a bathroom and things are much more interesting outside that place.

Well, I have no desire to be a voyeur in the ladies room. All I want to do is take care of necessities and leave. Nothing more.

I agree with all the above, just remember you make a different sound peeing than women do which can be a give-away.

Get in, sit down, do the needy, then adjust the clothing and make-up and leave. Simple!

I avoid or hold it if i see mother with kids going in.  Kids always seem to stare and i prefer to avoid any possible issues. Agree with all, pee, wait for clearing, wash and go!