[Closed] Ever been hit on by a guy?

For me being hit on by a guy is not want I want and has only happened a couple of times over twenty years ago when I was younger. I politely thanked them for their attention, informed them I was very much taken and that was that. A friend said that I should wear wedding rings which I hadn't thought of at the time which I started to do. Of course they may have seen I was a crossdresser and on the pick up but it wasn't for me.

Now I am very much out and on being introduced to a male there may be a peck on the cheek in the form of a hello or goodbye. That is not uncommon and acceptable to me as it is part of life as a woman and doesn't matter if they know or not as there is no false messaging either way. If there was inappropriate touching or persistence they will get short shrift form me which any woman would do.

Like you Amber I am more interested in being with other women in a normal friend relationship, lot of hugs and cheek kissing is the order and also arm linking occasionally when walking along. In male mode you could easily get false messaging but in girl mode it is quite natural and part of life. Women are very complimentary with each other and show feelings of affection towards each other that guys would definitely not do.

I am not sure that your experience was as much being hit on as admiration for you, as a crossdresser, being out and looking good. I have been out and about and received compliments for something I am wearing then a conversation might follow about where I got a dress I have on and it will go from there, it's quite normal and I love it. I have had women come up and quietly say 'You look very nice' and glide away, now that says they have sussed me and are doing it in a supportive way which is what I think the lovely lady you met was doing. Of course it depends on the kind of place you were in and how she kissed you.

I have several times while out in Palm Springs. I wear a female wedding ring set and nicely tell them I am married. Being honest it is a huge boost to my ego and self confidence.

Yes, but only while in drab.

Amber - whoaa! What an experience.

I really don't know what Ellie would do in this situation ... she has yet to be tested!

Hugs

Ellie x

No, never have, and honestly hope it never happens.  That's not the reason why I crossdress..  Have fun all...  Staci...

Yes i have in both guy and  in cd mode. Also hit on by a woman in cd mode.

I have been hit on by several guys but never while dressed. All have just been gay men looking for a good time. I personal knew all of them but one. He literally picked my up hitch hiking to work. Couldn’t keep his eyes off my crotch! “You can drop me off here, thanks”. The other guys I knew from work or friends. All with good intentions I will say. I just wasn’t interested at the time. I will say one guy did turn me on, I can say if I had something more comfortable to slip into my story might be different 😉

Yes I have been hit on (kissed actually) by a guy while in drab mode, right in front of my girlfriend while she and I were on a date!

Oh, yeah! And delightfully so!

OMG, this plays right into my philosophy of "Believe nothing of what you hear, and only half of what you see..." Tabulate the responses, broken down into those in a married/commited relationship, and those in a single status...and who "Blurts" out anything, anyway? In my LE experience, there's a definite characterization of those who do...and there aren't many Blurters out there...again, just having a bit of fun with it!

I've been hit on by men many times over the years but only once while dressed (I was out with my wife and she was at the register) . I'm not gay, but I've always had queer friends and family so it was never a big deal even the couple of times that they came on a bit strong. I've never had a woman come on to me while dressed (except for my wife), and while it would be exciting and a lovely ego massage, that's all it could ever be. I'm already madly in love with the woman of my dreams!

have been hit on by a guy a lot of times, once i was at a club with a friend, GG, and a guy started talking to me, he paid us a few drinks, and we talk for a while, my friend go to the restroom and he tried to kiss me. i refuse and he act like a gentleman, later on,
he tried to give me a ride home, and I told him that I have to take my friend back to her place, also he ask for my Phone #.
on my way back from the gay bar where I go, Two blocks away from my apartment, a guy follows me all the way in his car.
after a Halloween party where I was wearing a skimpy costume, a handsome guy start talking to me, and he invite me to a straight club, he toke me there and get me drunk and we kissed for a while, and take me to his place. around six am have my first, but not last walk of shame

Yes, in the not so distant past, and in the past. In high school there was this math tutor, who constantly hit on me. It seemed I would run into him all over the place, but we lived in a small town too.

At the time I was not really interested in guys, I was dressing off and on, but I know if I would have ever given him the opportunity there would have been fireworks!

I was not offended by it. People always "warned" me or even thought I should not talk to him because he was gay, but he was a nice guy really. I had nothing against him. If he'd been a bit more attractive, I may have done something with him.

Love and Hugs,
Becka

Hi girls,

Through the years I've been hit on by guys, in drab by gay guys and when enfemme by guys and gals.
I've had to tell the gay guys I was already taken or that I was married. Now that I am a full time girl and Lauren is all decked out or even in what I wear to work, I've been hit on by guys and gals. I take the bus to and from work and there's a guy at my stop in the morning who always tries to chat me up. By trying my best to ignore him I think he finally gets the idea. There's a couple guys at work who always chat me up, and there's a gal who always wants hugs, holds hands when we do coffee, and has kissed me a few times on the cheek.
So it seems that I do get my fair share of attention, whether wanted or not...LOL

Hugs,

Ms. Lauren M