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I do it all the time, not by anything I wear,but how I move, stand or sit. The other day leaving the gym a lady stopped her car to let me go in front of her, so I pranced in front of her with a lady like trot. I also strike lady like poses while checking out items at the grocery store.
I was in drab when I was at a mall and was walking through a department store, I came across a lovely blue dress. While I was looking at it a SA asked if she could help me. I asked if it was possible for me to try on the dress. The store was not very busy. She was more than willing to accommodate me. She walked me over to the dressing room and told me to ask if I needed any help. I asked if she could zip me up. She complimented me on how lovely my red panties looked. This made my day! I also ended up buying the dress.
I think my sis may have noticed my Lycra panty girdle waistband when I leaned forward! Has hearts on the waistband.....
I used to love wearing a bra under a loose fitting sweatshirt. Walk around unsure if noticeable. PLus have to ocassionally pull up starps if they fall.
Dont we all accidentally flash? Lol
Day wear for me is either trousers or jeans - and I always wear a thong. I make no attempt to hitch the jeans up when I'm at the supermarket, so when I squat down to pick something from the bottom shelf, I know that the thong is visible to anybody who happens to be looking.
If you look yourself (when out shopping) you'd be surprised at how many men are 'under-dressed'
Prior to my initial mostly full body laser hair removal treatment, I had a long discussion with the technician so that she would know that I was serious about undergoing the treatments. Then, for my first treatment, I had to get undressed and put my clothes on a chair in the treatment room while the technician was elsewhere in the building getting the machinery ready. I placed my very pretty and feminine panties on top of my clothes as a way to further ease the technician's mind that I was legitimate in obtaining the treatment. I saw her notice and admire them, and since then have always worn and placed my prettiest and fanciest panties fully visible in the treatment room for all subsequent treatments. The technician has never said anything outwardly, but I know that she has admired many of them!
- I twice recently went into town dressed up beneath hoodie and jeans with bra, hold ups and a strappy cami top. I had painted my toe nails and left hand and even wore a subtle amount of lipstick and foundation. As I got more confident I tried on some heels in a shop checking myself out in the mirror as other shoppers walked by. I bought the heels and as I went to get back in the car decided to wear the shoes and undo the hoodie exposing my top beneath. It was exhilarating but then had to walk all around the car park to find a pay machine right in front of the staff there. I got a bit of a smirk but felt so good and comfortable in the clothes that I did the same again a few days later, and driving home fully on show. I'm just working up to my next little jaunt, 👠❤️
I always wear panties and thigh high tights everywhere. I got caught by a freind at work who said nice socks but he really didn't know. They were green and white stripes.
The only time I kind of flashed on purpose was I had been dating a woman that things were heating up. after dinner and a few drinks we went back to her house. I knew I was about to get lucky but then it dawned on me that my toenails were BRIGHT orange. When we started disrobing I just thought in for a penny in for a pound. she either didnt see them (impossible as they almost glowed in the dark) or she never mentioned it.
I do love displaying a non-accidental flash of femininity. I travel often and wear panties under my guy clothes when flying. I can tell you that many times when sitting in the plane and reaching down to get my travel back under the seat in front of my the lacy or silky waistband of my panties will be visible above my pant line.
I usually wear heels of some sort when I go out to restaurants. When it is raining, I always wear my high heeled boots, other times, my 4" leather pumps. I get a few looks and the occasional compliment. I often wear panties underneath drab trousers but they usually aren't visible. Even when swimming in drab, I wear a woman's rubber bathing cap.
I've gone shopping in men's clothing. And have had sales associates help me pick out dresses. Have had help zipping up. One woman complimented my thong, bra and smooth girly legs! Never felt more alive. I've tried on dresses where it was obvious what cute panties I had on underneath. Everyone was so helpful.
I've received a massage when going in Male mode. I left on a bright yellow thong from Victoria's Secret. She didn't say anything until I asked.. she didn't mind, but it was definitely a first for her!
I always wear panties and have started wearing thigh highs a lot. However I’ve never actually flashed them but they feel so good that I can’t help but have a femme feeling to my walk that I’ve always kinda covered. There’s a very cute gg that I would love her to see my nylons or panties or painted toe nails. Admittedly I have a crush but I don’t think it’s mutual. I would like her to discover my secret and be able to hang out with her dressed even if it’s just as friends. If I thought she was interested I’d try to flash her my toes lol
One of my favorite things to do (if I HAVE to be in drab)...is wear some of my cute jewelry...rings, watch, bracelets...and just enough makeup so that it's visible...(mascara, eyeliner and lipstick)...I get noticed - but so far, nothing negative!
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Shawna