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What’s your favourite thing to do when you’re dressed? For me when I’m able to have a day as Joanna, I always go out, either to get my nails or eyebrows done, or just girly shopping in one of the larger towns.
The naughty part of Joanna likes to show off her legs, so sitting to have a coffee with my legs crossed and letting a shoe dangle from my toes is a bit of a guilty pleasure! 😂😂
@joannat What’s naughty about sexy legs? That coffee shop you visit would be a regular stop for me just to catch a glimpse🥰
Up until attending LFF earlier this month, I wouldn't say I had a favourite thing to do, it was enough to just sit and relax or do some cooking but, since then....Get out there!
It'll have to be well away from home though so I'll settle for a few times a year....at the moment 😊.
Allie x
@joannat I generally love doing the things I would normally do (running errands, hiking, etc). Doing these things as Lauren makes an average day a lot more special. Of course, I do love to do the girly things that I was previously denied. I love working on Lauren and making her better as a woman. The situation doesn't arise as much as I would like but when I can go out dressed nicely (dress or skirt, heels, etc.) that i amazing too but my lifestyle doesn't call for it nearly enough.
I'm very much along the same lines as Cerys @dazzler, below. My favourite thing to do as Fiona is to interact with other people, because it makes me feel even better about being myself. Mostly, that involves going out. It also often involves buying clothes. What's not to like?! 😊
@joannat The coffee shop discussion is perfect. That is exactly what you should do and have fun!
@joannat I'm not certain how to answer. I'm en-femme most of the time and just do what a "girl/lady" has to do during a normal week. Turning this upside down, I have to think of the activities I look to do when NOT en-femme. I have a golf group consisting of men and I have a women's book club and women's tech leaders groups I belong to so.....
It is very interesting seeing both sides when then genders are not mixed. Quite a learning experience.
I like to get out and about. I like shopping for clothes, and spend far too much time in charity shops. I try to restrict full price shopping as Cerys has expensive taste. This even more so lately, as I'm now unemployed and it's not fair on my hard working wife to bankroll Cerys 😉
If truth be known, I like to be seen. Being out and about as Cerys, in a busy place boosts my confidence. There was a time when Cerys would hide in the shadows, but not now. Cerys has nothing to hide and wants the world to know.
Cerys
My favorite thing to do is to go out clubbing with my wife and dance, but that hasn't happened lately so another thing I like to do is watch movies that are atypical for me, such as romance movies or newer, popular movies. I'm awfully pretentious when it comes to art but I was watching Pitch Perfect and I was struck by how much I enjoyed it. It just goes to show that these barriers we set up are all artificial and you shouldn't have to feel weird about liking something that gives you pleasure (as long as it doesn't hurt anyone). Anyway, if you excuse me, I have Myra Breckinridge waiting for me in my queue.
In a word, Everything! I live alone and have the opportunity to dress all day, every day. I just get on with my day.
I'm a farmer. So I do farm work enfemme. Hunt. Garden. Chainsaw. Mill timber.
The only thing I don't do is fight bushfire. We wear a protective uniform. Earings get in the way of helmets and hearing protection. And because team members need to be focused, it wouldn't be fair that I cause a distraction.
I don’t get out much, but the few times I have, I think the most favorite thing to do is to shop for female clothes. There’s always a certain amount of stress shopping for girl clothes as a man. But when you are dressed as a woman, what else would you shop for other than feminine clothes. Even if someone spots a man dressed as a woman, they might not like what they are seeing, but wouldn’t complain about you shopping for female clothes. I just found it to be the most liberating thing that you can do while dressed.
Generally normal stuff that I would do at home in drab. I do like posing for photos n a pretty dress which is about the only difference.
Anna xx
Myself love to get dressed up and clean house especially in a maid outfit
My favorite thing to do = GO SHOPPING!
1/. En femme bra fitting. Had two and loved every second of the experience.Having a "GG" fuss over you whilst you are "topless", doing up the band and adjusting the straps ...bliss. check out my article/shere on CDH on this matter
Plus of course just "browsing shopping"
2/. Going out to dinner. Have done so no more than 3-4 times in decades.(mostly the last 1 or two), A DADT relationship will do that to a body..
3/. Sleeping femme. (especially in "summery pure silk). Bra and forms on (hopefully with the self adhesive latter staying on when I remove my bra in the morning.) Hopefully x 2 that I can take it off like a "GG". Release the band and run the straps over my arms and pull it out of my top.
Wake up in the morning with "'my breasts swinging?" and if I have some lingerie to fold and put away, sit on the edge of the bed fold it and place it ever so neatly in the drawer, do that whilst feeling ever... so.. femme..
I also tuck my junk back between my legs, so as I look down to change my panties
Sometime even a "ratty old wig" just to add to the mood of "just woken up"
Caty.
PS Male me just chucks his "Socks and jocks" where they might fit.....
Anything!
Whatever I do is wonderful when I do it as myself.
My favourite thing to do is to go out... I mostly prefer to go for a nice walk - a woodland walk, a park or a lovely garden or somewhere that's just nice to visit and wander around.
Shopping for clothes for me is a bit of a waste of time - there are no shops locally that stock clothes in my size - just sometimes I'll find something suitable in a charity shop.
I prefer a little trip out; I like go to a nice little market town. While I'm there I'll visit places of interest (nip into a museum or old church), look in a book shop, I'll browse the charity shops, pop into a food hall to buy a sandwich & drink for lunch.
