[Closed] feelings while dressed

So for you dressing up has nothing to do with sexuality, thanks for the reply Jennifer 

appreciate it ,  I wish i could feel like that, I am straight as well 

Yes, there is still, and I hope always will be, certain sexual stirrings when dressing/dressed. They are part of the reason I dress, but certainly not the whole reason.

Thanks JJ without bein to riske' what do you do with them, for me it is overwhelming 

There are some days when I get dressed I get really excited, and being older it still is. I'ts still fun when I get something new and look forward to when I get home to try it on. The same is true when it comes in the mail. I DO love woman but sometimes I look more at what their wearing and wondering if I could wear that and look as good as they do.

me too I get very excited sometimes i imagine being with a woman while dressed

When I was younger yes, eroticism was one of the reasons I dressed.  A big reason to be sure but not the only one.

I also dressed simply because I loved the clothes.  And because there was a girl inside me yearning to be let out.

It has always been about more than just the clothes.

Ten years ago I started this journey that took me to where I am today.  I learned that the clothes I wore didn't matter.  They are just clothes.  A nice outfit can make me feel sexy but it isn't sexual. 

If I connect with someone on some level.... emotionally or mentally or physically....that is what gets me going.  It happens regardless of what I'm wearing....or not wearing  🙂

/LK

Has a young boy wearing panties and other lingerie there was definitely a sense of sexuality involved even though I didn’t really understand what that was. Throughout my teens, twenties and early thirties I felt what I had was a lingerie fetish. Lingerie has a lot of sexuality and sensuality built into it and by now I had realized what they was. It wasn’t until my late thirties early forties that I discovered the joy of wearing women’s clothing and all that goes with it. The desire to feel , move and act feminine was a completely different feel than just wearing lingerie. This is when I realized I was a true cross dresser. There is still at 66 a feeling of sexuality when I dress up or underdress. But it’s not even close to the main reason I do it. 

Natalie💋💋

thank you Natalie 

I agree Natalie, there has always been a measure of sexy feelings when dressing but at my old age and having recently come out there is also the feeling of oneness and completeness that was never there before, I really like it

Occasionally, when I am dressed to the nines I feel a female sexual energy which I find very empowering.  Generally though on a day to day basis, I don't experience anything sexual.  I just feel the euphoria of being my authentic female self.

I think it depends for me whether I'm in lingerie or not. When I am just dressed up and lounging around the house it's not very sexual but when I'm going to go out on a date dressed up I tend to go all out and it's very sexual. But I like men and I love exploring my feminine sexuality and being treated well by a man who knows how to treat a woman. 

thanks Valerie , i dot go out dressed (wish i could, but lingerie definitely  

bring on erotic and sexual feelings, thanks for your response

For me, it is more about emulating a woman rather than any kind of sexual stimulation. It is like there are two totally different identities. When I first started to go out, I felt comfortable and liberated more than stimulated. It was similar to when I was all dressed up in a sharp suit and tie in male mode. I really enjoy the fashion aspect of being a woman, much more than male fashion.

Most of the other ladies like me that I met were much more into the sexual aspect than I was. That is probably why I became more of a loner when I would go out. While I did enjoy the attention of gentlemen, it was more flirting than anything deeper than that. If anyone got too handsy, I had a guardian angel bartender at C7 who would step in and tell them I was a 'good' girl.

When I am Jackie, my wife treats me like one of her girlfriends, but in male mode, I am her husband. We do not have sex when I am in feminine mode, so it is definitely not about sex in my case.

when I started dressing as a kid, there was always a sexual excitement to wear lingerie.  Now that I under dress daily, the initial sexual excitement is not as great, but overall it is still a sexual turn on for me , I am totally straight as well.