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I can’t decide what I want more in life. A feminine body, or my penis and sex drive. I’ve wanted a fem body since I was 14(I’m 18 now). The issue is that I like my penis. I’ve done hours of research into a way to get that body via herbs, but they all lead to low drive and a worse functioning dick. Do you ladies know of any natural way to get around this impasse in facing?
Hey Macy
Unfortunately, there is no way around it. Female vs male hormones, one has to lose. In fact most shemale porn stars (I know no sex talk but there is a purpose here) take HRT then inject testosterone before a shoot for obvious ‘reasons’ of function
so one will have to give up T to get that body. And strange as it sounds, I have to take testosterone due to a pesky brain tumor I had but I have achieved a fem form by genetics and selective work out routine and I am 55
won’t work for everyone here but it did for me
Smooches
Gina
Hi Macy
As Gina says, there is no way around this, many girls on here, me included have at some point wished we had a female body, but in order to to get the body you desire you will loose what you presently have. The, I think, is partly about acceptance, in that you have to come to terms to the person you are, as you are, and then work out how you could achieve what you would like. There have to be compromises here, you can't have a full female body without loosing your male bits, so assuming thats not the way you want to go, a work out routine as Gina suggests, would be a start, then using breast forms will give the illusion of breasts, but if you want 'real breasts', you would need surgery. So it's all a matter of accepting who you are and then deciding what you want within the confines of what is physically possible.
Ok so if you were to take hormones there is a method which is not tested but has side effects. I was planning on testing it myself when I start eventually. Ok so there is this thing called "horny goat weed". It comes in various forms And I swear just a pea size amount will send blood flow directly to the penis and unfortunately the eyes. The first day sucks but this obviously in make mode. Not really tested on hormones so I have absolutely no idea. * side effects are kind of nasty 1 you'll be getting random hard ones but can get a hard on at will through out the next few days. 2 the eyes are foggy during the first day especially if you take the whole pill but subside the next couple days. 3 the headache is horrid the first day on the whole pill but will Subdue with the 2nd day maybe even the first with headache meds but mainly time.
They come in pill form but the pills are too high of dose so I break it open and get out a literal pea size maybe even smaller and quickly swallow it with Coke and food. The taste is aweful. I actually have low T and had to take this to please my wife cuz she a nympho. Hahahaha ''tis true. Anyway!
I have read cases where the dr prescribes something to the patient at the request of patient and wife.
My .02 not tested but it's a way that I'm fairly certain will work.
But if it doesn't work then you'll have to stop hormones to at least gain function.
No natural way that I'm aware of.
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P
Hi Macy. At your age you can work on your body thru girls type exercise and diet to maintain and keep the girly figure....meaning no more junk food period. I have been using Purafem, as an experiment, for 6 months now.....I am growing breasts....about and A cup right now. and yes.....sex drive is gone. I never was into male sex drive, so I am not corned with that. At 18 you can use breast form for a while and have a dual life per se. Transgendering is a huge step. Do a lot of research on this....it is irreversible. I recommend that you do the cross dress thing and wait a few years before trying hormone therapy...(always under medical supervision) and then seriously thinking if transgendering is for you. My door is always open, if you wish to chat more about this. There are films on the transgendering operations on you tube and internet....watch these and get a better perspective on what it envolves.
Dame Veronica
Thanks. I’ve aleo come to realize that due to my delayed puberty I probably shouldn’t make a decision if a hormonal whim. I’m going to wait a few years.
All I know is I like being a man but love to wear so called women's clothes and try to present as a woman. I love the clothes and creating different looks. The last several years I found myself preferring to dress femme most of the time, except for those time when it was inappropriate or unsuitable.
Basically I'm Patty except when I shouldn't be. I developed a gender fluid lifestyle. I can be Patty most of the time. I work on different looks with different clothes, breast forms and wigs to get a better feminine appearance.