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Finally coming out 3 years ago was a life savior for me.A new chapter in my life too.It was 24 years in the closet knowing I liked feminine clothing and knew this since the age of 15.Without my ex wife around all alone,I secretly tried on women's clothing and shoes without her knowing.It was clothing and shoes I bought.Thought my ex wife would not find my stash of women's clothing and shoes,was wrong 3 years ago.Came home from work one day and she was not too happy at all with me.She found them underneath the side of my bed in a box.Worst part was I was told to pack my things up within 2 days not to come back.Was her house.I was lucky,my oldest brother Jonathon said I could stay at his place knowing I would help out.I was glad he helped me out.We talked the next day and said have my 2nd older brother Heath come by,said I needed to come out about something to them.Heath found out I was kicked out too.He came by the next day and got together,looked at them and I came out as a crossdresser.They knew growing up I was hiding something in the closet for 24 years.Accepted it knowing I was in pain for a long time.Ex wife ended up divorcing and I started a new chapter in my life after the divorce was final.Decided I needed to dress fulltime as Kimber having a much happier life.I liked wearing the women's clothing more than the boring male clothing.My older brothers adjusted to the changes very well to having a much happier sister in their life.To this day I live a much happier life and my brothers call me Kimber to this day using the pronouns she,her and herself.Stayed at my oldest brother's place until I bought my own house during the divorce.
Thank you Kimber for sharing your story.
So happy for you. You go girl!!!
Love and hugs, Stephanie ❤️💖
My brothers also had a new chapter in their life,a much happier sister in their life.During my stay at my oldest brother's place,I didn't freeload and did help out.Him and his wife were glad I helped out and knew freeloading was not an option.
Hi Kimber, and thank you so much for sharing this.
I am so glad that you turned your life around to become the life you needed.
Although I know I only see the surface of the story, I always feel disgusted by women who throw their husbands out just because of dress sense. It seems so incredibly shallow, and my first feeling is that you're well rid of someone like that.
Obviously, I only know a tiny part of the picture, but I saw that happen to a friend of mine back in the 1980s, and I felt so sorry for him and so appalled at her revolting shallowness that it stuck with me, and I have only contempt for over-reactions that lash put ignoring and hurting the human being - and probably the children too. Imagine, breaking up a family over fabrics and choice of cut! Ridiculous!
I am so glad that you are now in a much better place, able to express who you really are, and I wish you the very best for your new life.
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
Love Laura
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So far it has been great,I am not complaining at age 42 now.I never got to come out to my parents about it,Dad died 5 years ago and mom died 4 years ago.Knew they were bias on this
Hi Kimber Thank you for sharing your story, My wife found my clothes in the trunk of my car when i was on a business trip in Chicago. I was hesitant about leaving car at home but just found easier to take a cab that day.I could not even imagine being thrown out of my home because of the clothes i choose to wear. My wife just said'WE HAVE TO TALK" She just wanted a explanation as anyone would. She was frightened that there was another woman was in my life. We had two young children and i was the only one working at the time. She was very capable of taking care of herself and the children if something did happen to me. She just wanted to know WHAT THE F...K has going on that she did not know about. I tried to explain the the best I could over the phone. The time it took for me to get back to my home she had called her sister, talked to one of her friend, who is a gay male. went to the local library read at least two books. She knew more about men who enjoy cross dressing than I did. She wanted to understand. She was not willing to give up a marriage over two bags of clothes. She is the one that taught me about true love and continues to do that for the past 40 years. Just last night I was made a stupid joke about finding some else to talk with because she was not giving me enough attention. She just said to me while still reading her book." You can not just stop loving me it does not work like that. I just had to laugh because she is right. It saddens me when i read so many people have given up on their marriage because their inability to communicate or the willingness to communicate. It is wonderful that you that you decided to put your big girl panties on and start over. This time find a partner that understands true love an everything that goes with loving some one truly.
Luv Stephanie
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Glad I did divorce my ex wife,this was the hold up that needed to go.
