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Finally coming out trans all the way

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(@raginamarie)
Trusted Member     Augusta, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi ladies! What a wonderful night last night was. I’ve decided that I’m going ahead and transitioning after an old friend told me to be who I’m supposed to be, not what I’m expected to be. That was a real kick in the head, so to speak. He saw something in me that I hadn’t seen in myself till then, and I’m so happy he opened my eyes.

I made it official last night at the club I hang out at. There is every stripe of the rainbow flag there. They have great drag shows there from Thursday through Saturday night. I asked the person hosting last night if I could make my announcement and they said of course. I was invited on stage just before set break, and told everyone that I am transitioning. I got mobbed by everyone, wanting to hug me and congratulate me! Of course I started crying, trashing my makeup, but I didn’t care!!!
After the show was over, I went to leave and everyone wanted to give me one more hug and several gave kisses. Finally I got to leave and make my way home. After a bit to unwind, I went to sleep with a huge weight off my back and slept peacefully until late in the morning.

I’ll be seeing my doctor in December and will ask for a referral to a Gender Support Clinic in the local VA hospital. I’m excited to begin the next phase of my journey. I’ll be sure to give updates as things progress. Much love to everyone. Follow your own path, wherever it takes you!

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(@leonara)
Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Congratulations Regina on your decision to transition. I wish you the best in this new life journey..please keep up to date on your progress… as I .. I am sure all of the ladies here support you… Leonara

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(@christineth)
Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Joined: 2 years ago

Many congratulations! Making the decision is a hard thing to do. Now you’ve made it I’m sure you’ll have a fun journey (not to say that there won’t be difficult times, but knowing your goal will help get you through them). Hugs
Christine

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Ragina -

Congratulations on your decision. Enjoy your journey. Looking forward to your updates.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

How wonderful Regina and I am sure a few more hugs will come your way. Have a beautiful journey.

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(@lauren114)
Noble Member     Connecticut, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Congratulations sister! It must have been amazing to reveal your authentic self in an environment full of such positive energy! Have a wonderful journey and I hope you get everything you want and much more!

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(@missylinda)
Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Thank you for your service.  Happy for you, that you have found your path.

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(@reallylauren)
Noble Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Congratulations dear sister! I made the same decision two years ago, and haven't regretted a single moment! Being true to who you have always been is so amazing!

Big hugs,

Ms. Lauren M

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(@heels234)
Prominent Member     Mesa, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Congratulations Ragina,Now that you have made your decision,please have an easy trip.I trust you have everything in order and all your bases will be covered .As I am always the practical and planning person,Please make copies of ALL your documents just in case something gets lost or misplaced.At the end of your journey,you will have assembled quite a scrapbook and a great list of memories.Again Congratulations, Michelle.

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(@flatlander48)
Noble Member     Cathedral City, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Ragina:

There are many difference ways in which we come to the fork in the road. That fork is whether we continue as we have been or we make adjustments (often significant) to be and live as we are. And, as we know, moving towards living as the person that we know ourselves to be is not a trivial decision and thought process.

Glad that you are involved with your local community. Many find that to be a great source information and the camaraderie is always helpful.

I don’t know if you have noticed, but there is a section here:

  https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/forums/forum/transitioning-for-transgender-and-transsexual-women/

Also, there are forums on TransgenderHeaven.com dealing with Physical, Emotional and Social aspects of transitioning.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Noble Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Way to go girl! Enjoy your new life.

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(@ellyd22)
Illustrious Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hey Ragina

If I was there at the moment I would also be mobbing you, hugging you and kissing you 🙂

What a truly wonderful post.

Thank you for being an inspiration.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@nataliejane99)
Reputable Member     Sunnyvale, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Congratulations, Regina! What a lovely way to come out! With friends at your favorite club!

Also, thank you for your service!

-Natalie

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(@amandawoods)
Estimable Member     Denver, Colorado, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Congratulations, that is wonderful for you. Wish I had the courage to walk out of the house en femme, again so happy for you.

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Topic starter
(@raginamarie)
Trusted Member     Augusta, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Amanda. It took me a bit of doing to take that first step, but once I did, there was no stopping me from doing it again. Yes, it takes courage to do it, but once you take that first step, you’ll regret not doing it sooner. I suggest you start by finding a place like a club that is LGBTQ friendly. I promise you be most welcome, and soon, you’ll have a group of fast friends. That’s what happened to me, now I don’t have friends, I have a family that loves and affirms me. Like the ad says,”Just Do It!!!!!

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