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Five years and 104 days.

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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

This past Saturday night, Halloween Eve, marked the 5 year anniversary of finding out I had Stage III Colon Cancer.  Two major hospital stays with surgery plus 5 minor side surgeries, a bout of pneumonia, surgical abcess, two full rounds of chemo and 1 round (28 treatments) of radiation, and I was pronounced clear.  The scariest time of my life, for sure.

Now, with that passing, in 104 days I will sit down with my GP, Endo, and my Oncologist to start a full day of tests to insure that I am clear, and may then proceed with starting full HRT.  One milestone leading to the next.

I found CDH after my final surgeries and rehab and feel most lucky to have ALL of you wonderful ladies that I can call friends and a sort of extended family.  The days until that meeting look open and clear for this part of my journey and I will stay positive to the end.  I do have a small kernel of worry that they will find something though.  With your help and advise as I go, I know that I will be okay.

Thank ALL of you beforehand.

PaulaF

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So pleased for you Paula,

'Lately it occurs to me, what a long strange trip it's been'

I'm wishing and hoping your trip takes you to pleasant places.

Marti xxx

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(@sarahjayne)
Honorable Member     County Down, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hope everything goes well for you Paula.
Hugs
Elizabeth

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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
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Thank you Marti.  Keeping positive.

"If you don't give up, and you don't give in, you may just be okay."

PaulaF

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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
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Thank you Elizabeth.

PaulaF

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(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
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Paula.  First and foremost I am glad you are now clear of that cancer! ❤

You have spent 5 years living through hell, now it is time to look towards the happiness that you so rightly deserve.  Let's banish the "worst case scenario" attitudes and believe that all will go well for you - I pray it will!  104 days.... your time is coming soon, and I'm so happy for you.  As I said, you deserve this hon, so go get it! 🤗

Stevie

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Hi Paula,

First congratulations on being cancer free that tremendous news. Please stay positive you will be absolutely fine, the next journey on HRT you totally  deserve to enjoy the happiness and contentment it will bring to your life as Paula, you certainly earned that right sweetie. We are all behind you 100%,

Lol Amanda xx

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(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Paula,

Happy that you are cancer free.

Keep that Positive attitude, it really helps!

I wish you the best of luck with the rest of your journey, and on to your new life as Paula!

Hugs,

Lara

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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
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Thank you Stevie.

PaulaF

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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
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Thank you very much Amanda.

I am being as positive as I can be.

PaulaF

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Lady
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(@paulaf)
Noble Member     Pampa, Tx, Texas, United States of America
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Thank you Lara.

PaulaF

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(@stephanier)
Noble Member     Adelaide, South Australia, Australia
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Wishing you all the best Paula. May everything's go well.

Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖

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Hi, my dear friend,

I’m thinking of you. In doing so I’m positive that you are upheld in love and friendship. You have sustained such a positive presence here and we are so much the better for that. I know the future can be a problem as well as a promise. So I ask you to look for the promise rather than the problem. I promise to stay your friend ( that maybe the problem??!!😂😂.
Be assured that you have still so much to offer us all and don’t worry, that is not difficult, you have been there before.
So stay close, tease and be humorous, show us all how to be true to our promises. You have inspired many and there are more to follow who will benefit from your presence here. Do not be afraid, we are all with you. We know you by name and we all belong together. Such is care, friendship and love.

Anya ( in gratitude for knowing you)

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(@fred96393)
Honorable Member     Burien, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Well, it sounds like "a long and winding road," but you made it! Congratulations! We're all so happy for you! Onward and upward, right?

Hugs and Kisses,
Fredrika

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(@bridgettek2020)
Noble Member     Virginia, United States of America
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That's the best of news! I'm very happy for you. We all are, and we'll be here for you all the way.

Bridgette

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