Notifications
Clear all

Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven, a safe and welcoming place for everyone in the crossdresser community.

Join Crossdresser Heaven today to participate in the forums.

frustration

8 Posts
7 Users
0 Reactions
96 Views
Posts: 40
Lady
Topic starter
(@elan)
Trusted Member     STOKE-ON-TRENT, Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hey ladies.

 

So I went shopping on my own last Saturday and bought different nothings for a whole day Sunday of fun. Then... Sunday went wrong as had wait for the landlord as boiler died. Then each day this week something has got in the way. Now I'm just frustrated as it's part of life and I can't express it.

 

How do you cope if you have similar problems?

 

Aisleyne x

Reply
7 Replies
Posts: 1748
Duchess
(@985anythinggoes)
Noble Member     New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Tomorrow is another day, love.

"Every time I start to get worked up over something, I just think to myself, 'Is this really going to matter in my life tomorrow, in an hour, in a year?' You just can't get stressed about the little things 'cause it's just not worth it at the end of the day."

Every little thing is gonna be alright....
Smile sweets!
Reply
Posts: 562
(@alicent)
Honorable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Grrh ! how frustrating for you.

If things change and I lose a crossdressing session I get a little miffed, then I just think - well never mind there'll be another time soon... 🙂

Reply
Posts: 51
Lady
(@sissypam)
Trusted Member     Northern VA, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I can totally relate to this as it definitely happens from time to time. I just try to be patient knowing I will have another opportunity with the bonus of already having all the things I got to enjoy it when it happens. It's still a total downer when it doesn't happened when you planned it.

Hang in there!

Pam

Reply
Posts: 7325
(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Aisleyne,

 

You can see your reward is at the right around the corner.  The delays just provide opportunities to choose the nail polish color, grab another pair of pantyhose in case there is a snag, go over your small items list like being sure you have your compact mirror, ....

Take advantage of the wait time.  No need to become angry.  The wait from the delays will be well worth it.  Cross dressing is so much fun!

Alice

Reply
Posts: 0
Guest
(@Anonymous)
New Member
Joined: 1 second ago

Hang in there baby doll!  I think this happens to all of us, from time to time.  Moreover, I just came through a two-week period where it was one thing after another.  Wife had a medical procedure, truck had engine troubles, a newly adopted kitty cat got sick and had to go to the vet, then I had to treat her with various meds for the next few days.

Finally got out as Peggy Sue today, and it was fabulous!  Well worth the wait.

Hugs from Peggy Sue in Atlanta

 

 

 

Reply
Posts: 40
Lady
Topic starter
(@elan)
Trusted Member     STOKE-ON-TRENT, Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

thanks ladies, I managed make up for it this weekend which helped, plus had a dress up evening friday.

 

Really have to keep scratching the itch though...

Reply
Posts: 0
Guest
(@Anonymous)
New Member
Joined: 1 second ago

Line up your rewards and work for them.

If you're going through Hell, keep going.

The reward you planned is still waiting for you, and if something happens to take that reward away, well, there's always the next one...

You did line them up, right?

What rewards?

I have a star chart which worked so well for the kids, that my wife and I added ourselves to it.

We do stuff that needs to be done, and get stars, which represent 50p.

Every so often, we can cash those in for a reward. Mmmm. New dress time! Nails! Eyebrows!

My wife has always had irregular but frequent meets with friends, time out with her mother, etc.

I get Laura time. A whole, wonderful day to look forward to or back on in times that need a lift.

Hope this inspires!

Love Laura

 

Reply

©[current-year] Crossdresser Heaven | Privacy Terms of Use | Link to usContact Vanessa | Advertise with Crossdresser Heaven

 
[kleo_social_icons]
Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Subscribe To Our Newsletter

Join our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates from Crossdresser Heaven.

You have Successfully Subscribed!