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I am very lucky to have my male friends in my life still.Growing up,knew there was one thing different about me I was holding in.Coming close to 11 years ago next month,finally did come out about it.Told them I always had a female side of me dressed as Adrianna and not going to dress as male anymore.They adjusted well seeing I am now completely happy in my life.Still call me Adrianna using the pronouns she and her around me.I still hang around them.Have been supportive as well and do not miss the male side of me at all.Their wives say I look better in a dress and heels than them.
A simple test of true friendship is sticking by a person no matter what. Why dressing differently would end a friendship is beyond me, but it happens. True friends would not care in the least. They value you, the person, not what you wear.
In my mind male friends were going to be the hardest to tell and it took me some years to finally come out to some I have known for what seems a lifetime although their partners knew and encouraged me on. Most accepted it very well a couple are a bit cagey while they get used to it but friendships are sound. One will not be told due to his beliefs which I understand and accept as he helped me through a bad patch so value his friendship. It is often said the older generation have more difficulty in acceptance than young which I have seen is untrue.
Let's face it we can lose old friends for many other reasons, that's life