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Fun Day Shopping

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Yesterday my wife and I went Thrifting. She was looking for a storage cabinet for the bedroom. We went to 3 different thrift stores. In each one we looked for a storage cabinet for her but also checked out other things, including clothes. It was a wonderful day for me between the 3 stores I got a pair of heels (my size isn't always on the shelves), a lace scarf/shawl, a pink sweater with lace trim on the hem, 2 midi length dresses and 2 pretty blouses. My wife helped me pick them out and actually was the one to find the blouse. She even had me try on the heels to make sure they fit. When we got home I put on a little fashion show and everything fit very nicely. My wife even commented that she may have to borrow some of the items. It is wonderful having such a supportive wife. We talked a bit about her acceptance of my dressing from being upset and feeling betrayed when I first came out to her to where now she helps me shop, put on make up and invites Suzanne to spend the day. She says its ice to dress up every now and again. 

To those whose SO isn't very supportive - give it time they may warm up to your dressing as mine has.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Baroness Annual
(@girlyboy9020)
Joined: 1 month ago

Estimable Member     Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 94

@cdsue You are a very lucky girl Suzanne to have a wife that is so supportive!! When I first came out to my mom she didn’t like it very much at first but now she understands my need to dress just like your wife understands and supports you!

❤️ Ashlyn 

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@cdsue 

A fun day indeed, Suzanne! And very productive too😊.

I'm glad you have the support of your wife, it makes a whole world of difference. Thanks for sharing this with us.

Allie x

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 1030

@cdsue You just described exactly what happens around here at least once a week. So yes, it can be done and really quite easily, especially if you go slowly and don’t push 🥰

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 4 months ago

Reputable Member     Northeast GA , Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 229

@cdsue 

Thank you for sharing this. Its truly wonderful to have her support! For those of us who do have our SO's support we must not take it for granted. 

When my wife and I shop and come home with our items we put on a fashion show for each other. Sometimes we end up trading items too. (Even more fun)  The biggest difference for me was that she has known from the earliest days of our marriage that I like to dress up.  It was never a problem for her but it was for me.  The old dress/guilt/shame/purge/buy cycle repeated over and over but she stood with me all the way. Thankfully those days have been over for a long time and now we have the most fun ever.  

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(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@cdsue That's good to hear, Suzanne.

Yeah, there has been a slow change from my wife, too, but every now and then she will get her back up.

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(@annaredhead)
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Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1839

@cdsue A very successful day!

Hugs,

Anna xx

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(@cdashley)
Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Sounds like a great day together. When you receive help form your SO it is a nice reassuring feeling that they do truly accept this side of you.  

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(@cdsue)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 2111

@cdashley yes it was a lovely day out - stopped for breakfast and lunch as well. It is a nice reassuring feeling. The only thing that could have made it better is if I was dressed but that isn't going to happen any time soon. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@cdsue That would be nice. Baby steps I always say.  lol.

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(@cdsue)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
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@cdashley agree totally - took a few years to get where we are and I'm happy with that - who know s what the future holds

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

so wonderful to read post like these such a wonderful day and a supportive SO makes that even better sounds like a wonderful time you both had and found some wonderful items indeed hugs 🤗 

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(@juliarey)
Trusted Member     East central, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

Really is great having an SO that is supportive.  I came out to mine almost a year ago now, and she has gone from feeling betrayed to being my biggest fan.  I wear whatever I like around the house and she helps with make up.  Best thing I ever did is come out of the closet!

Jules

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I am generally not a thrift store shopper; I just don't like the general poor organization. That said, I was in a small gold rush town on a motorcycle ride and stopped for lunch. There just happened to be a thrift store there so I went in and was greeted by two lovely elderly ladies. I wandered around and found a lover skirt, chemise and blouse which I purchased. The ladies were all smiles and happiness, and no doubt had a good bit of giggles after I left. 

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

You are S.O. lucky Suzanne. It's always good to read about accepting partners.

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