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Getting complimented practically every day

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(@yellowpumpsgurl)
Eminent Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

If you've read my posts or profile you may know I only started dressing again last month after a hiatus of nearly a decade.  More often than not rather than dressing, which I primarily do for special outings (no pun intended), I go about in a sort of androgynous mode.

Again if you've read my posts this included going to Target a couple of weeks ago wearing a matching yellow polo and shoes, and having my sneakers complimented, and being told I look great by a male employee there.  Last night on the other hand I was out in full gurl mode with a group of local LGBQT Christians, and one of the women complimented me on my "hair" (wig).

This morning I needed to pick up a couple of things real quick at the grocery store, and since I plan to go to the closest Unitarian church later on in full gurl mode, I did not want to take my credit card and license out of my purse/wallet, put them in my boi wallet, only to have to put them back in purse/wallet.  So I just went out with my purse, and in my favorite color again, yellow 😉

In any case, when paying for my groceries the clerk complimented me on my wallet.  I'm not going to lie, I'm liking the attention 😉

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(@nicolebox40)
Estimable Member     Baytown, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

My girls and I are wanting to plan a day trip shopping soon before we go to the bar. Meet another CD last night that is going to join our group. I'm excited all of a sunden I have friends that are like me.

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Yes, it's lovely to get compliments, especially from a total stranger, especially when that stranger is a GG.

I mentioned in another thread that I went to a remote Devon beach a couple of days ago, in wig, pink trainers and long white Broderie Anglaias sundress.

A lady walking her dogs stopped and smiled at me. After exchanging pleasantries about the weather and location, she floored me by saying, wide eyed and with a genuine smile "You look beautiful".

Oh my goodness, I will treasure the feeling for a very long time!

Love Laura

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(@charlotterose)
Trusted Member     Trinity, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I love getting compliments. I even think just being called by female pronouns to be a compliment in itself. I got called ma'am while at a Sonic and was told I had nice legs (I was wearing a skirt) while at a convenient store.

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(@leonara)
Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Thank you ladies for sharing your wonderful experiences. Venturing out as Leonara is on my bucket list...your favorable experiences give me hope...Leonara

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(@pattyphose)
Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

It's funny in an ironic sort of way how you can go out in male attire and you seem to be invisible, but go out in pretty fem attire and you can become the focus of attention.

My first dressing out in public was pantyhose with guy shorts and guy clothes. I thought everyone would notice this. No one seemed to. I decided I needed better shorts to show my legs better. I bought some short girl's shorts. They were definitely better for showing off my legs but I didn't notice any  real difference in getting attention. I though my shoes were kind of boring and could use some upgrading too. I bought several pairs of platform wedges and began to wear those. I began to notice some looks.

I had some real teeny shorts I couldn't wear out. I also had several long shirts I wore at home with pantyhose. I liked them. They looked like I was wearing a short dress. Those shirts came to about the same length as my short shorts and completely covered my teeny shorts. I began wearing that out.

I sometimes wondered if when I was buying pantyhose, if anyone thought I was buying them for myself. If I was wearing pantyhose while buying pantyhose, that would remove all doubt. I began to go shopping in my favorite attire. I noticed some heads turn but no comments, laughing or taunting. One day while picking out pantyhose in a department store, a girl asked if I was wearing pantyhose. Fear came over me. I put down the pantyhose I was going to buy, hurried out of the store back to my car and drove home swearing I would never do that again. After thinking over what happened, a few day later I wore the same outfit, went back to the same store and bought the pantyhose I left behind.

The next time I got asked about my pantyhose, the same fear rushed over me but I didn't run off. I talked about the pantyhose I was wearing and the pantyhose I was buying. I even got a date out of it.

Occasionally I would get asked about my pantyhose and how nice my legs look . I was even told "if I had legs like yours I would show them just like you do". A couple of times I was politely told I had a run in my stockings. I was beginning to think with my pantyhose, as hirt that looked like a short dress, or short shorts, platform wedges and longish hair that I was being mistaken for a girl, at least from he back.

Then one day on line behind me, a girl asked me about the pantyhose I was wearing and buying. When I turned and began to answer, she realized I was not a girl. As we continued chatting she wondered why I didn't dress fully as a girl and just do this partial stuff. I had been tempted to try more things but just hadn't gotten around to it yet. Over the next few months she got me all femmed up.  Then we went to a Halloween party as a couple. I was the girl, she the guy.

I wasn't expecting the attention. I got. Many girls complimented me on my legs, pantyhose and shoes. Guys wanted to talk to me and do things for me. That night I won, "best legs", "sexiest costume" and "best couple theme". I even met a bunch of other dressers dressed as beauty queens who invited me to join them at their dress up parties.

At those parties, I was usually quite popular. Girls and guys wanted to know me. Girl power from the clothes I was wearing was an amazing thing.

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(@leonara)
Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Thank you Charlotte for your support

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