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hi!
I stumbled upon this community, I have always been made to feel guilty about how I feel about the way I am think.
I want to adapt and not shame the other side of me.
Question one . I have mentioned how I feel to my partner a few times and they stand puzzled and unsure, I try to explain what I want or explore but they feel that I should be this struggling mess of who I am.
any support or help on that front
the other thing is I can rarely find clothing I like or is not so tight on the tummy area... I've tried tall and plus size stores and am being picky as nothing seems to catch my eye.
Hello and welcome, glade you stumbled on this site, here at C.D.H we are very friendly and helpful . I am a closet cross dresser so to speak, wife knows of my dressing up and lets me as long as the 2 adult children are not home. She has seen me all dolled up and says nothing but that I put on too much perfume, but at times she does ask me why I dress up. I tell her y but does not want to hear it. But she is getting better at my dressing up.
Hi Erika! Jest read your latest post. Your significant other keep suggesting you were better off before change???? Ask them once...why? After that just say....I am what I am and that is all I am going to be.......now buzz off and accept it. Stop beating a dead horse!
Hope this helps....other solution is to move to your own digs.
Yes clothing can be tough. Find something you like in a large size then take it to a seamstress for adjustments. Or get one custom made at a tailor/seamstress
Good Luck....lady Veronica
