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hello girls! I will be moving to a new city for 6 months and this feels like the perfect opportunity to explore myself! I dont know anyone there and I am ready to try anything about crossdressing in the coming months. Any tips on how to get started?
Can't wait to start!
Hi Nina
The world is your oyster, what a great opportunity. Your profile mentions that going out fully dressed is on your to do list. You could start with a simple walk in a park where you wouldn't really need to interact with anyone, then work up to a coffee shop or café. Be who you want to be 🤩.
Geneva
Hi Hon,
Talk about an adventure!! I am so happy for you! I think if I went I would never return....
Start by doing very simple things that do not require you to interact with strangers until your ready to. Go for a walk around the block or in the park. On the weekends hit the mall and do some window shopping. When you feel confident enough, and you'll know when your ready, stop and order coffee, sit down to a meal or buy an outfit while shopping.
We make going out en femme hard on ourselves with our fear of passing or not. Let go of your fear and just be yourself and be extra nice to everyone you meet. Woman can be very talkative when checking out at the store. A lot of ladie's talk with their hands, (I do), and I think you will find 99% of the people you'll encounter will be very nice to you.
Be strong, have fun with it and remember, "Girls do Rule"
I would suggest seeing if there is any meetup groups or CD support services where you are going. If not, dress in something you like, whether it's blend in or stand out. Go out a little at a time. Walk from the house to the car. Take a look and listen around before you go and determine if you think it's safe. Then go for it. If someone sees you, just keep going.
Then drive around a bit. Look for places to stop and get out briefly. Go out often and gradually become more visible and get closer to people. How far you go will be determined by your desire and nerve.