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Girls, I need your thoughts and prayers again...

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(@reallylauren)
Noble Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi girls,

I had coffee with my brother and sister in law this afternoon. They're in town house sitting for a cousin and have been visiting family members. They've seen both my son and my daughter and today they told me that my kids won't see me or accept me as a woman.
I've transitioned and live as a trans woman, so I really need your thoughts and prayers, I'm having quite a struggle with this.

hugs,

Ms. Lauren M

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(@steveterrill50)
Estimable Member     Weymouth, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Many prayers, along with tender hugs!
Steph I’d

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(@Anonymous)
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I’m so sorry to hear this Lauren, that is some tough news to get but you do you girl and you’ll get through this somehow. Most adults struggle with new (to them) ideas and your kids likely aren’t immune to that but they might also come around. All you can do is give them time and show them that you love them and miss them but that you’re getting on with your life. Hugs Lauren, you’re not alone.

— Abbie 🥰

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(@fred96393)
Honorable Member     Burien, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I'm so sorry to hear of your situation. We're all praying for you and them.
Big Hugs and Kisses,
Fredrika Jones

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 8 years ago

Sadly Lauren, (but for different family reasons), "join the Club" My elder daughter and family moved to the US about 8 years ago and even before then my connection to her and therefore my grandkids, to paraphrase the old English saying  "There was/be (frequent!!!family) trouble at mill".

They paid an unexpected very late notice visit back here over Christmas and without going into all the "ins and outs" of it all, as a result of the above, "my side of the family" are all "Persona non Gratia" with her and my grandkids

I only have one grandchild of my other daughter and she has severe health problems.

So rest assured I can see what pain and discomfort you are going through.

If you can, try to find another "outlet" to divert yourself away from your current feelings. Me?? well for starters, even tho I enjoy it, I spend far too much of my time on CDH!!!

 

Good luck!!

 

Caty

 

 

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(@tanyaj)
Eminent Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I most certainly will say a prayer for you, and your situation. I am very sorry. Hold your head up. With faith, many things that seem out of the question become reality.

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(@margprodue)
Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Oh Lauren, I'm so sorry to hear that.  There is no easy answer to the special hurt when family members reject you.  Be true to yourself and don't give up.  There is always hope that in time things will change.  Marg

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(@aprilcdmf)
Prominent Member     Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Sorry to learn of that Lauren I hope in time they will come around and understand that you are the same loving person and that their hearts and minds will soften. I pray and wish the best for you and your family.

Hugs April

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(@leonara)
Noble Member     Long Island,, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Lauren, oh the hurt you must be feeling… so sorry.           Rest assure you have my prayers for your son & daughter will soften their hearts and reconsider to see them… I guess time will tell.
warmest regards, Leonara

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(@liara)
Noble Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I will most definitely pray for you Lauren. It is their right to not agree with your lifestyle, but to be so hateful is not right. I fear, that if I cane out to my family the same would happen.

Hugs, Liara

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(@jillian4ever)
Trusted Member     Xanadu, Vanuatu
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Lauren, You are Who you needed to be.. You have the same Heart & Love that you always
have had, It may just take a little time for them to see thru the changes, To see You.. The person
they have always known & Loved.. You will always be in their Hearts as They will always be in yours..
And I hope that the Love finds it's way to shine it's light on all you're Lives Very Soon.. Jill💖

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Lauren -

Sorry to hear you are going through this.  Thoughts and prayers are sent.  Hopefully over time they will be able to accept you for who you are.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@veiledbrenda)
Trusted Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Sending thoughts and prayers your way, Lauren.  Hopefully your children can come to understand this is what is meant for you.  Love and hugs to you.

with love,

veiledbrenda

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(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Sorry to hear what you are going through Lauren, my thoughts and prayers are with you, 💞

You can only live your life for yourself and no one else, the life you have chosen to live has made you so happy, the only other thing i can say is that i hope in the future they can accept you for who you are so chin up girl you have the full support of your sister's on here X

Hugs love and kisses Rozalyn X 💋

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(@harriet)
Noble Member     Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand
Joined: 4 years ago

Thoughts and prayers girl! Just remember the quote “this, too shall end”

Polly

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