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Shopping trip.
Talking to my wife about dressing unobtrusively she suggested female skinny jeans.
We went on a shopping trip & discovered Asda female skinny jeans size 14 fitted. We also found a red blouse like thing that looked like a t-shirt with bows on the edges (GG's will probably have a name for it - I'm still coming to grips).
I went out with my wife on a trip to the local garden center totally underdressed (stockings, suspenders, knickers & bra) with female skinny jeans & a female top.
The only thing i would'n't brave were shoes - I'm size 10 extra wide so I only own heels as shoes are expensive.
I have very long hair - my picture is fairly true to life (faceapp added the curl)
Nobody even noticed....
Congratulations Ayla!!!
I think this is the best part of CDH. Sharing experiences that give others encouragement.
Hugs
Tennison
Well done Ayla!!! I went shopping in femme for the first time a few weeks back and nobody noticed. It felt so good!
Love and hugs, Stephanie ❤️💖
Congratulations Ayla on your outing! And also having an accepting SO.
Alice
Hi Ayla,
And congratulations on going out. My first outfits were ladies' Lee Riders and tees; wasn't even underdressed. May I suggest you look at Shoe Show (in malls or online) for nice flats at bargain prices; and Gloria Vanderbilt has some really comfortable jeans, both regular and skinny - and with real pockets you can use in guy mode.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Congrats Ayla on the outing hope to hear more outings from you and many more girls. Know do alot and what really fun is going with my mother.
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Donna
I know your trip was exciting & pleasurable. Wishng you many more such trips!
Hugs,
Jen
Just looked at Shoe Show. WOW, WOW WOW! A pair of shoes for about under a tenner (UK prices).
Asda Jeans (I think you know them as Walmark) size 14 regular fit as a bloke in skinny jeans but i think 14 long would be better to achieve a proper tuck.
Glad I could help, Ayla. My feet are a 13 W, and it's heels which I find impossible to locate. Except for color choices, flats are not difficult.
I'm a 10 or a 12 short in bottoms, and they are plentiful.
Hi Ayla Congratulations Great job. Its all down hill from here. The top sounds really cute, red is a very feminine color and with the added bows there is no question who you most identify with. I would go with what Bettylou suggested, a cute pair of black flats goes well with so many outfits and they are fairly inexpensive. Keep the curl its adorable Happy for you
Luv Stephanie
Congrats 🎉 that’s wonderful! And congrats on having such an amazing, understanding wife you lucky girl!
💖💋
Just tried to order a pair of sandals & they don't ship outside the USA DAMNIT!
Ayla,
For shoes try flats or loafers. I have a few I wear almost daily, and out. They are rather androgynous, although I try to go as fem as possible. People don't really seem to notice. My wife did but oh well.
I also wear "booties" short womens boots. Those too can be rather androgynous.
I do wear skinny/womans jeans and capri length pants every day however. Only a mans shirt. Everything under it all is fem.
Go have fun, gurl!
That's a bummer, Ayla. I have an idea, sent you a PM.
Hugs,
Bettylou
Congratulations on your first venture out. I am also in the UK.
I also tend to always wear skinny jeans or jeggings with either a t-shirt or blouse when out with my wife and I know shoes, and size can be tricky.
I tend to only wear skate style shoes, walking boots, or ballet pumps when out.
TU and George only go upto size 8.
New Look, Dorothy Perkins only go up to size 9
Yours do a 10, 10e and 10eee:
https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/wide-fit-shoes
Long Tall Sally go to a 12:
https://www.longtallsally.com/shoes/
also worth a look are Dream Pairs on Amazon and Shelikes on ebay