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Got out for a walk

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(@shawndyglitterfiend)
Estimable Member     Detroit, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

I got out for a drive and ended up taking a walk in the park. Took some pictures on a bridge, then went into a panic because I left my backup drab clothes sitting by the door so I wouldn’t forget them. I got over it 😄

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(@christineth)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Posts: 747

@shawndyglitterfiend Shawndy, well done you.  Was this your first venture out?  I am very very slowly building up the courage to go out and I love hearing from all you girls about your experiences.  

How did it go from home to car and car to home, with all the possible ‘sightings’ by neighbours?

Hugs Christine

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(@shawndyglitterfiend)
Joined: 5 months ago

Estimable Member     Detroit, Michigan, United States of America
Posts: 36

@christineth I have ventured out several times recently and have drove to a different state several times in the past. Luckily I’m able to park my car right next to the door so it’s just a couple feet away. The only one that could possibly see is the lady across the street and I know her schedule. Ya, I’m the nosy neighbor.😂

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(@kyrabrooke)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Posts: 148

@shawndyglitterfiend Well, Shawndy  (love your name) ... very fun and of adventure. I get very chicken without my gf. She's placed several dares on me lately yet my taste in dance wear/clothes in general, makes me wonder what events might potentiate, should it be the 1st time my trusty vehicle should need roadside TLC!  Being up nord, the next province is 1000km's, as well as last nights 1st snowfall, daring indeed...ox kyra

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

Posted by: @kyrabrooke

@shawndyglitterfiend I get very chicken without my gf. She's placed several dares on me lately yet my taste in dance wear/clothes in general, makes me wonder what events might potentiate

After reading your thorough profile, it appears that you have gone out in public a fair number of times. Every time that you do that, it should reassure you, so I certainly would encourage  you to do it more often.

I am in Toronto, too, and have yet to find any resistance to my dressing. Mind you, I am not dressed in dance wear. If this is the source for your concern and you truly want to go out dressed in public more often, then you need to think about what will make it work for you.

Of the few pictures of you that I have seen, you are definitely passable, so that is already in your favour.

A change in attitude? F' it and just do it anyway?

A change in style? Blending in, attracting fewer eyeballs, certainly has its advantages.

Sometimes we need to compromise to get something that we truly want.

 

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(@shawndyglitterfiend)
Joined: 5 months ago

Estimable Member     Detroit, Michigan, United States of America
Posts: 36

@harriette I used to go out almost weekly when I was in my late 20’s but stopped dressing for many years. Back then I was a smoke show 😆

I just brought back my other personality this past year and try to get out at least once a month even if it’s just for an hour or two. It’s more difficult with having limited personal time.

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(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@shawndyglitterfiend One foot in front of the other. The more adventures that you have, the easier that it gets.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1341

Posted by: @harriette

@shawndyglitterfiend One foot in front of the other. The more adventures that you have, the easier that it gets.

I can second this.

When I want go out, I just get dressed and go out; I don't really think about it anymore. Only thing that annoys me is if I've just driven away and forgotten one of my staple items: rings, perfume or necklace.

I might add that I do carry a pair of shorts, a T shirt and a pair of trainers in my car just in case of breakdown or other odd circumstance.

 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

Posted by: @rebeccabaxter

I might add that I do carry a pair of shorts, a T shirt and a pair of trainers in my car just in case of breakdown or other odd circumstance.

Ah, the mark of somebody who likes insurance. No being caught off guard. 😇

 

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1341

@harriette That's me, thinking ahead (usually) 🙂

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@shawndyglitterfiend Good for you Shawndy!  It's scary when you first realize that you don't have a safety net but exhilarating when you realize that you no longer care.

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Well done Shawndy. It does get easier as you go out more.

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