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Have you ever been dressed as a woman/girl (or with some feminine clothing) by someone?

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(@marieclaire2)
Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Whether because you asked for it, for fun, discipline/punishment, preparation for events like Halloween or womanless contest or lack of men's clothing in the context... Have you ever been dressed as a woman/girl (or with some feminine clothing) by someone? How was your experience?

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(@christineth)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Posts: 747

@marieclaire2 

Marie, yes, by three different people.  My first experience of cross dressing was very young, I had no socks or pants to wear to school for some reason (all mine must have been in the wash) and my mum made me wear my sisters white knee high socks and a pair of her navy blue gym knickers.  I must have been under four years old, but I remember it well and fondly.  

A few years later (I was maybe 8 of 9), my sister and I were ‘stay at home kids’ during the school holidays.  My sister who is two years older than me decided we should play a game at being sisters.  She dressed me in her underwear and one of her dresses.  I pretended to not like it very much, but I did not protest so much that she would remove the clothes.  We played at being sisters frequently (daily) that summer.  I remember being quite disappointed when the summer ended and I could no longer dress.  

Finally I have not been dressed by by wife, but helped to get dress…she will sometimes help with particularly difficult bras or skirt zips and she will suggest what to wear and what goes well together.  I am dressed all days when at home and there is something special and very feminine about helping each other dress and giving style suggestions to each other.

So yes, I have had some great experiences being dressed or help to be dressed by others.  It is something special when it happens.

Hugs

Christine

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@marieclaire2 yes and it was fabulous

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@marieclaire2 I have not but I would love to have a CIS Woman friend who will dress me and help me learn the "woman" things I missed out on by growing up AMAB.   I still have a lot to learn about being a woman but everyday I'm trying.

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3859

@marieclaire2 

Yes, with feigned reluctance....at first.

An ex-GF at university 'convinced' me one night to wear her bra and panties when we were in bed.  This became a regular thing as she quickly realized I liked it.  It was great while it lasted.  VERY adventurous girl.  But it was one of the most tumultuous romances I've had.  I got tired of her BS after a few months and bailed. 

/EA

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Baroness Annual
(@lyndajones)
Joined: 3 years ago

Reputable Member     Kingsport, Tennessee, United States of America
Posts: 325

@marieclaire2 A pasted Girlfriend would dress me and herself in Stocking and Garter Belts, we loved to rub our stocking legs together, a great memory.

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
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@marieclaire2 

Your honour, may I refer you to the following Forum post 🙂

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/141337/

Ellie x

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@ellyd22 this is a terrific story. I took from it your lack of confidence with makeup. I paint so had a head start as I have a good understanding of colours, blending and brushing but have had lessons off a brilliant makeup artist who has become a trusted friend. Having makeup lessons is well worth it and learning about what products are out there and what will work for you,

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@annaredhead 

I'm an artist and illustrator but that hasn't necessarily helped me with makeup.

I'd be okay if I was painting an impressionist landscape on my forehead, but I still need a little practice with more 'everyday' looks 🙂

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Lady
(@daddydavita)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Midland, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 68

@ellyd22  you should do the impressionist landscape, it would be a fabulous runway look! Happy Woman Face

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(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602

@marieclaire2 

I have recently recalled a long forgotten memory of the first time I was dressed as a girl. It was on my birthday - probably my 7th birthday (not quite sure). I had heard that my uncle had attended an RAF fancy dress ball as a fairy, so I asked if I could do that for my birthday party. So the wife (of a different uncle) dressed me in some form of party girl outfit (I can't recall much of what it was like) and my younger brother and cousin were also dressed as girls. I believe I thoroughly enjoyed it, but the memory is very faint now. I think my Dad took a picture at the time; it would be lovely if I could track it down.

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@marieclaire2 Actually I have a couple times.  When I started high school we had to dress as a girl and girls like boys for our hazing. I wore a dress with pantyhose , my sisters bra with balloons in it , a wig and my runners. I had to pretend I wasn’t enjoying it but loved every second of it. My mom and sister got everything ready for me. When I was putting on my pantyhose over my boxers my sister stopped me and said “ you can’t wear those underwear under pantyhose.” Went into her room and came out with a pair of white bikini panties and handed them to me. She said “ make sure you put them in the laundry when you get home.”  Now I thought I had died and gone to cd heaven. He I was wearing things I would sneak out of my mom and sister rooms.  
The second one was when my wife and I switched for a Halloween party we were going to. She picked out a dress and heels from second hand shop. Which was before I had come out to her. She did my makeup and styled my wig. I’ve always wondered why she didn’t say a word when we came home and I didn’t change for a few more hours.  

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(@cdgabrielle)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Wesson, Mississippi, United States of America
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@marieclaire2 I did 3 womanless pageants in high school.  So I got dressed up by my mom and a couple of cheerleaders. I had a great time. My mom enjoyed it and still talks about it all the time. 2 or my girl cousins dressed me up a couple times growing up. They liked to put makeup on me and put me in dresses. My wife has picked out clothes and bought me breast forms. She has tried makeup on me and done my nails. It's so much  fun to dress up with help.

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(@jamiec)
Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Joined: 10 months ago

Never. But I fantasise about my SO eventually finding out. But instead of questioning it, she goes all in and confronts me with a full outfit I have to put on and present to her… 😶 

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(@target)
Joined: 3 years ago

Reputable Member     MPLS, Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 212

@jamiec 

I share that fantasy Jamie having my wife demand me dressed 24/7 in female attire after finding out about my Crossdressing dressing would definitely be a dream come true!  

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(@chrisfp99)
Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Not in 'real life' Marie. But I had a professional makeover last June and Cindy put my nails on (my first time) early in the process, even before doing my makeup. From that moment I was rendered incapable of doing anything (how do GGs even function with nails on?), so she had to dress me in four different outfits. It was an exquisite experience, and I'm doing it all again in a couple of weeks. Can't wait!

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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(@gynaeceum)
Trusted Member     Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Many years ago, Marie, when I attended school in England, each of the school's Houses had to perform a play for the entire school as part of an annual competition. When the time came for our House to accept the challenge, a play was chosen that had as one of its main characters a woman, Mrs. Something or other. Being the only Yank of the right age in our House, my mates, always ready to take the mick out of me, identified me as the one to play that part. Back then I didn't think much about appearing in women's clothing before an audience. What concerned me was that I would have to learn my lines and remember them if our House was going to win the competition. When time came for the Dress Rehearsal, my mates went to work on me and turned me into a ravishing beauty. Several of them, as it turned out, knew about make-up and lipstick; others knew about dresses, wigs, heels, and women's undergarments. (How they had this secret knowledge I still don't know to this day!) When finished with their new construction of me as a woman, however, we all knew we had a chance to succeed if I didn't blow it by forgetting my lines. While reassuring everyone I wouldn't go blank when time came for me to perform, that new presence of mind, I next realized, had been bolstered by who it was I had now become as the result of the artistic-sartorial transformation of me as a member of the fairer sex. The experience was arousing, to be sure. But it was also mind-stimulating as well as mind-changing. It was if I had finally found something I knew was always there but could never really place my hands on to complete the process of discovery. A thing that was more real than the reality I was living. Suffice it to say, opening night went off without a hitch and our House won the competition. That night when "Lights Out" was sounded, under the cover of darkness, I slipped out of my pajamas while still in bed, pulled from under the covers at the foot of the bed the bra and girdle I wore during the show, put my pajamas back on over those intimate undergarments, and had the most restful and refreshing sleep I'd ever had up until that time in my life. When the school play was next announced, I tried out for a woman's part but was given the leading role as a bureaucrat. Under the uniform I had to wear as representative of the play's political order, unknown to all except me, were the purloined bra and girdle I'd kept from the previous show, the bra and girdle that would constitute the beginning of my new parallel wardrobe for the next few decades.

Livi

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1733

What a wonderful experience for you Livi. Do you think your femme side was always there, or was this the catalyst for it? xx

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(@gynaeceum)
Joined: 2 years ago

Trusted Member     Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America
Posts: 30

@chrisfp99

Dear Chrissie,

The femme side, in retrospect, was always there. I just did not fully understand it. The event, however, was a catalyst, and a joy forever. To tell the truth, the reason I did so well impersonating the character was that the impersonation enabled me to feel for the first time more alive than I had ever before felt. From that moment forward I knew I wanted to be and should have been a woman. The simplistic construct of gender binarities put a halt to that realization for quite some time simply because in those days we didn't have the language that enabled us to understand the nuances of gender differences and reality.

 

Livi

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(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1733

Beautifully put Livi xx.

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 10 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@gynaeceum I can see this scene right before me like in a Wes Anderson movie. Thanks for sharing this beautiful memory <3

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(@gynaeceum)
Joined: 2 years ago

Trusted Member     Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America
Posts: 30

@jamiec 

Dear Jamie,

Thanks for the note. I want you to know that it was a joy and a feeling of being whole that came of the impersonation of the woman's character I had to make real for the audience. I suppose I became a fetishist as the result of the experience, but when one has the key that unlocks the door, one would be a fool to throw that key away. By the way, you look like a movie star, one of those beauties like Ann-Margaret I always want to be just like. Absolutely beautiful.

Best to you,

Livi

 

 

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 10 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@gynaeceum Unfortunately that‘s not me… 😨 I was taking the next best picture I had downloaded (because I liked the makeup). I now realize that everybody is either using real pictures or none at all. I apologize for that. I feel like an impostor now 😭

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(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@jamiec 

You’re not an imposter Jamie, you’re here and you’re taking part in the forums.

A lot of people are uncomfortable with a photo of themselves. I used one of the standard avatars for over a year after joining. 
Just do things at your own pace.

Lucy x

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(@jamiec)
Joined: 10 months ago

Estimable Member     Vienna, Austria
Posts: 50

@lucyb112 Thanks for your kind words. I absolutely understand that. In hindsight I should have realised it right away. I am also not comfortable with it.

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(@Anonymous 94214)
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That used to be a dream I used to have when a teenager at scondary school.  My dream "wish" was to be taken into the needle work department by some of the girls and dressed by them into somthing they had made.  Then made to go to class all day in the outfit.

I guess this was about the time I realised Ihad an inner me.  Oh BTW this never happened unfortunatly.

But I was asked to go in drag for a badminton match once for a club I used to go to about at a similar age.  I always regret not taking a chance and going for it. too deep in the closet.

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(@Anonymous 94214)
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In my younger years, I was mentored in the female arts by several female members of my extended family, as well as two teenage girls who lived across the street from us.  I learned early on how to dress myself, thanks to some gracious females in my early life. 

However, one event of actually being dressed by another person was during the time I was stationed in Japan, during my service years in the Navy, before I was married.

I had a Japanese girlfriend, and she was aware of my cross dressing.  I stored my female clothing at her apartment, and we would often go out as two women.  On two occasions, I asked her to obtain the traditional female Japanese kimono and dress me in it for one of our outings on the town.  The kimono consists of several separate garments, which one must put on in the correct order.  She also had to obtain a special wig, jewelry, and geta (shoes) for me.  By the time she did my makeup, the whole process had taken several hours, which is why this is something we did not too often. 

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

An often asked question and for me it is yes. I was dressed when I was four for a fancy dress competition, which I won. Then a few times for 'fun' by my sisters and also for a couple more events. 

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(@delaware)
    los angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Marie ................my future SO dressed me once when we were dating .............nothing racy...............she was curious............if i were more accepting of my CD I would have told her how I liked doing it....................maybe she would have helped me explore it a lot more deeply ..................because ...........she was curious......she wanted to see me dressed...........she selected the clothes ...............and not a shock of discovery..............karley

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

My first experience being dressed by someone else was in college.  It was for Halloween, my girlfriend and future wife helped me dress for a party. I wore her panties, bra, pantyhose, dress and shoes. She did my make up and hair (at the time I had shoulder length hair which she curled). It was my first time out dressed in public and I was very nervous but did have fun. 

Since coming out to my wife she helps me with make up, styling my wig and gives tips on outfits. I also do the same for her with outfits. When we go shopping I pick things out for her, she calls me her fashionista. It is fun going to thrift shops. We'll both look thru the racks and she will show me things she think Suzanne would like. Part of the fun is her picking something out, holding it up to me and saying she thinks Suzanne would like it as if referring to a friend (which I guess I am). The only thing I've trued on when shopping is shoes, haven't ventured into using a dressing room yet (maybe someday).

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

My wife has dressed and did my make a number of times for me. While this does nothing for her and as she says is totally my thing, she does know how much I do love being dressed and made up by her.

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(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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@leah63 Nice. Supportive but still reserved.

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(@alison-anderson)
Noble Member     Middlesex county, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

My answer is a resounding kind-of-sort-of. When I was in 4th grade, we had to do a play where we had to wear tights. My mom borrowed one from my sister to wear once for the dress rehearsal, and once from the performance. But I don't think this really fits the category.

When I went for my first makeover and (escorted) outing, although I came with most of what I needed, the woman running the transformation shop changed a few things up. She loaned me a top from her collection which was more flattering. She gave me a bra and foam forms (they were already yellowing at the time), which she eventually let me keep. And although we tried on some wigs, I really wanted to wear my own hair, which was long enough anyway. She gave me some clip-in bangs and a headband to hide the seam, both of which she let me keep. She offered to paint my nails, but I declined. I think I had an inkling that they would be hard to clean off and ensure there was no trace left behind, and decided not to get them painted. My family knew nothing of Alison at the time.

After the makeover, we went out to the local diner for dinner before heading back to her place for me to change (at least my top) before I head home. My kids were all away that night, and my spouse (now ex) was asleep, working the "graveyard shift" at the hospital, so going home en femme was not a problem.

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(@petrasue)
Eminent Member     Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I had a girlfriend in high school who I convinced to dress me.  It started with just a denim miniskirt.  I pushed a little more and one night a friend of hers came over when we were watching a movie and I ended up getting the full treatment - they styled my hair (hard to do with the length of my hair, but mousse and aquanet worked wonders) did my makeup, and then put me in a couple of different outfits before we settled on one and went back to the movie.  I didn’t know it was going to happen before her friend showed up, but we had joked about it so it wasn’t a total surprise.  It was a fun night with the girls.

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