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I saw a woman wearing a darling pair of shoes, and complimented her. She thanked me, mentioned where she bought them and how great they are. I went to the store and they were all out! I can order on line but then my wife will know I purchased them. That's the first dilemma. The second being, she'll see me wearing them on weekends! I mentioned once before on weekends I 'hybrid dress" (my term), wearing womens jeans, love them, and in the winter "booties", love those too. I've been looking for a great pair of shoes, now not sure what to do! Feeling tortured! The (female) half of me wants them so bad! The (male) half, well its tough. Any advice ladies? I really need to come out and say to my wife, I need to do this, or I'll go crazy!
Why not get a post office box at the local post office. Address it to there and you go in and pick things up. Just have it in your name. Note: some places won't ship to P.O.Boxes so put their street address down as well as box number.....if they say no...tell them you live in remote rural area. Works for me.
Dame Veronica
I'm not sure if your concern is the delivery issue or the charge showing up on a credit card. If it's the former, you could do as Dame Veronica suggested and get a P.O. Box (and if you get it from a private postal company like Mailbox Express, they have dedicated street addresses for each box). Or, if your ordering from a major retailer, most have site to store shipping so you can order it online and just go pick it up at your local store. If you're concerned about the charge showing up on a credit card bill, you can buy a reloadable prepaid debit card.
As for wearing it around the house on the weekend, that's obviously a conversation you will have to have with your wife. Hope it all works out for you!
Hugs, Elise
its more of my wife being aware of the purchase. that makes it difficult, among other things.
Thanks Elise. It is more the problem/complications with my wife. That is very hard.
Hi Elise, it's Scarlett. You served up a pile of super options and advice. I'm like you with the last bit of advice, not sure what to say because I don't wear anything feminine around my wife with the exception of exceptionally comfortable Jockey brand boy shorts under anything I wear while in handsome husband mode. I have no less than 40 pair of them (mostly black) but in all of the colors they have ever had to offer. Size 7 fits me like a glove and I haven't worn men's underwear in over 4 or 5 years after discovering these. They end up in the regular laundry basket and my wife is good with me wearing these every day. However, when I get my total girl on as Scarlett, I'm wearing stretch lace in the form of sexy panties or thongs. Boy shorts just are sexy enough for Scarlett!
Again, super advice and I've used, at one time or another, every option you've mentioned above! XOXO Scarlett
