Hi girls....how do you REALLY feel???

When going "out," I definitely care about what others think. I mean, for me, part of the whole thing about dressing is to see and be seen. So the insides match the outsides. I love to look good and have others notice.

But, yeah, around the house I'm pretty relaxed: a little make up and casual clothes is great. (And my heels are a little lower!)

-Stefani

Smiles....its not witchcraft....???.

i think we dress for a certain amount of time....and we reach that " level"....we are all thinking alike ..spooky???......keep climbing those mountains girl xx

I usually care about what others think. I think if anyone in public found out Im a “male in a dress” I wouldnt know what Id do out of embarrassment haha.

Jayla....

Standard answer....nobody wants to be outed xx

Grace I feel the same way you do.But that’s just human nature.At home when I’m dressed I’m not as concerned about the way I look.Sometimes I don’t even put on makeup.But if I’m out I want to look my prettiest.

Only dress in private but aim to look as good as I'm able to. Just enjoy the sensation of seeing the other me. Same person but different in one. Different feeling comes over me when dressed fully.

Hard to explain but just feels good.

Good question:

When I am dressed and out in public, I want to be seen and perceived as a woman first and, secondarily, as someone who prefers to identify as a woman even though I come from a male dominated gene pool. My ideal is to be out and about with as little associated drama as possible. Being recognized as "respectable" or simply someone that could be either/or but who cares, then I am a happy woman.

Honey...dont try to explain...

I know exactly what you mean...xx.

and welcome to CDH ❤️

I think I have 3 modes of dressing. If there are no plans to go out it is just a comfortable house dress or top and leggings. Of course it still has to be presentable as I will go out on the front step for a smoke and will be visible to any passersby. No makeup but looking natural.

If I'm going grocery shopping or quick errand I want to be feminine but not attracting attention. Again top and leggings or modest dress, this time with light makeup. I'm just another housewife out shopping.

The third level is for serious shopping  (clothes, what else!?) or dinner at a restaurant. Nice dress, probably shorter than my GG friends want me to wear. Hey, I have nice legs, I want to show them! Nylons, heels and good makeup.

I haven't gotten to a fourth level yet. That would be for a bar, club or party. That will be a goal for being a complete woman. It will probably involve a make over with really good makeup, hair and an outfit totally inappropriate for my age. (Take that GG! Beth is not a conservative matron. She is HERE! Deal with it!)

👿💋❤

Beth

Beth.

You are so organised, i hate you,!!.

seriously, i love your input, keep teasing that neighbour....

Huggs, grace ❤️

Mary....

Looking at your profile pic...you are something honey!!

Grace xx

Often after work, I will put on my wig, some lip moisturizer and my pajamas. Then I make a light dinner and relax with a cup of herbal tea. I just want to feel like my real self but relaxed and winding down from my day. On non-work days when I have the time, I want my makeup to be perfect. I usually hang around the house or just go out to run some errands. I want to be pretty, but just blend in.

Hi Grace

Good question

How do I really feel

When dressed I feel complete on the inside I'm Kelly Ann 24/7 on the outside it's a couple of evenings a week and on the weekends

I l❤ve nothing more than expressing my true feminine feelings

I am who I am and accept who I am

Kelly Ann has been a part of me for over 40 years now

L❤ve

Kelly💋Ann

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Gracious, darling...

When I was in the clutches of the nuns they told me that God sees, not just the front of things, not just the back of things but all around. God sees the undersides, the nooks and crannies, that little corner where ‘Fred’ the spider lives...
I learnt to be the best I could be at any moment of the day and to check all the undersides too!
So... going out; mostly extra care taken! The best makeup application and 24 hour lipstick, nails, jewellery et al.
Working at home; same care taken as going out though the makeup is slightly less intense and less jewellery
Chilling; sometimes just some mascara, some crème lippy and maybe a bangle and short necklace.

Whatever the day, evening... I like to look my best and I like the compliments I get! So very healthy for me!

Affirmation... way to go! Love Polly 🌹🌷🌼🌺🌻🌸