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(@Anonymous 100087)
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does anyone use hidden clues to maybe sedges you're a crossdresser?

my friend called me up today and asked if i made any money today? i said enough to get my nails done. he ask what am i doing today? i said waiting for bikini weather. he has no idea i cross dress. he thinks i'm just horsing around. do you give any clues about your cross dressing?

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(@gafran)
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Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
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@prettytoes 

 Wearing my girly winter jacket. It zips opposite of a male jacket. I've told male friends about it and said it fits its warm and has pockets. 

 I've also said that I'd look better in the dress than the women that was wearing it. They laughed. But I was serious! 

Fran 🥰 

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@gafran that's a good one.

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(@astridt)
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Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
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@prettytoes When I bought my last glasses I had some trouble fining the right color. Finally the optician came up with a magnificent violet model. I learned only later that is was from Ray Ban’s women’s collection. A tell tale sign that I missed back then, but you don’t hear me complaining about it now! 👩‍🏫

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@prettytoes Well I do have my finger nails shaped and a clear coat on them. But I do a few things that aren’t really “ hidden” as well. I’ll wear my woman’s jeans and a top out while presenting as a man. Light makeup and perfume. I had my bra straps noticed by a few people. My pantyhose showing at my ankles at the base of my pants.

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(@emmat)
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Prominent Member     I don't do cities ;-), Powys, United Kingdom
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@prettytoes 

Good heavens, no. I'm still in the closet. I'm sure people don't have a clue.

So just longer hair, but shaved legs and arms. Longer fingernails, currently sparkly. Colourful reading glasses on a cord,  plenty of jewellery - earrings, necklaces, bangles, rings. More often than not these days a slightly padded soft bra. Unisex tops, jumpers, cardigans from the women's racks, occasionally some subtle lipstick. Sometimes women's jeans, or colourful harem pants in the summer...  

eM x

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(@beach-girl)
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@emmat You're kidding, right? With all of that, I'm sure people have more than just a clue. You go, girl.

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(@emmat)
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Prominent Member     I don't do cities ;-), Powys, United Kingdom
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@beach-girl 

Excuse the british humour!

I honestly don't quite know what people think, Dawn. It's all  very ambiguous. A few friends don't need to guess anymore. Yes, I'm sure some others have an inkling that I'm not just an old hippy.

But I really am in the closet , in that I'm still not comfortable when I've been out and about in a dress and make up. But what I've described, well, I feel I definitely  'own it', so it doesn't bother me.

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(@mkat3874)
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Reputable Member     Northeast GA , Georgia, United States of America
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@prettytoes 

Some "not so hidden" clues when I'm not fully dressed are:

Shaved legs

Shaved arms

Never wearing a beard or even stubble 

Women's sneakers and socks

Sports bra under my shirt 

Women's deodorant and a very light fruity scent body spray or lotion.  

With all that I've never had anyone say anything or seem to notice. 

 

 

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(@carolinecd306)
Joined: 7 months ago

Estimable Member     Fraser Valley, British Columbia, Canada
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@prettytoes

Obvious signs: pierced ears, painted toenails, shaved legs. Less obvious: underdressed, CDH browsing on my phone.

C💋😜

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(@cherylt)
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Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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@prettytoes I wore shorts in my line of work almost all year. One cold and blustery day I was at a customer and the receptionist said "aren't your legs cold?" She was wearing a skirt so I said "you're wearing a skirt, aren't yours?". 

She replied "but I'm wearing pantyhose". "I'll have to try that" I replied. We both laughed but little did she know.

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(@jennconn)
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Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
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@prettytoes I’ve heard some comments from ladies sometimes about things guys don’t do and I’ve joked about only doing it on the weekends.  No one ever had a clue that I crossdressed, so it made it a lot of fun.

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(@brendalynncd)
Eminent Member     Monson, Maine, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Sometimes if I'm the only guy in a group of women (a work group numerous years ago or a group of my female classmates), I tell them I'm just one of the girls. They have no idea!

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(@melania)
Trusted Member     San Jose, California, United States of America
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The top of my panties (or whale tail) showing when I bend over .  Or the outline of my bralette through a tee shirt.

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(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
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Heck no 🤢🤮 I don’t even think of this lol way to much anxiety 😦 myself best to keep things in the dark closet lol 

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@erinb we need to shed some light in that closet. it's not bad like everyone thinks it is. stand behind me and i'll show you how it's done.

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(@nataliecd)
Estimable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
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I don't know about hidden clues. I do have my toenails painted but that isn't exactly hidden and it isn't a sure sign of being a crossdresser. I do make jokes about wearing dresses or heels every so often. Though, I do that about a lot of things so for the people that know me, it is just another absurd joke.

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@nataliecd sounds like a hidden clue to me. painted toes aren't hidden clues. i have them too and they are everything but hidden. i show them in both modes.

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(@gracepal)
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Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
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@prettytoes You can tell you and Natalie are a younger generation. If any of my friends were to show up at the pool with toenail polish of any color on…there will be plenty of questions for them😊

GP

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(@Anonymous 100087)
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@gracepal gee how old are you? i'm early 60's.

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(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
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@prettytoes Yes, but I'm subtle about it. 

My toes are glittery red 24/7/365 regardless of footwear or appearance. And roughly half of the time my fingernails match.

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
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I also paint my toenails, but usually wear girly skin-tight jeans when I go out (with appropriately flat tuck) with tops, blouses, sweaters of the non-masculine persuasion. Always worn on top of lingerie and pantyhose of course. Occasionally I will wear a little subtle makeup and even more occasionally my finger nails will be painted too.

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(@annaredhead)
Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 11 months ago

My legs are always shaved and i wear shorts most of the time.

If I'm off work, I often wear nail polish.

I use feminine shower gel and deodorant the whole time.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Rachel -

Thank you for asking this, the replies are interesting.

I wear earrings 24/7 (got them pierced for my birthday a couple years ago), sometimes studs or small hoops, other times dangling ones that aren't too femme. My toes are painted in a color depending on the time of year, rihgt now they are pink with white hearts for Valentines Day. My fingers are a pink tinged clear, Both are gel. I also underdress in panties on occasion. more so now than in the past. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@alison-anderson)
Noble Member     Middlesex county, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I've got so many I'm probably missing a few. Long hair. Ears pierced at 65. Wearing women's androgynous (or almost androgynous) tops, jeans, socks, shoes, occasionally boots or booties. Wearing women's cardigans or jeans jackets (they button on the women's side). Waxed arms and legs. Wearing panties and thongs and changing in the gym locker room at work. Sometimes wearing (winter opaque) tights as socks. A couple of times when needing a CT scan I wore women's leggings (no metal so I don't have to change) with my essential personal belongings in a fanny pack. Longer than typical male fingernail length. Keeping eyebrows trimmed.

I'm straining to come up with more, but this should be enough to not just hint but hit people over the head with a hammer. 😀 

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(@andreauk)
Honorable Member     CAMBRIDGE, Cambridgeshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Rachel, I don't intentionally give out any clues, but I have to say from my experience, we all give out clues unintentionally that are often picked up by others. These hints are picked up by others, most will not guess what they mean, but will know there is something about you that somehow does not quite ring true. It may be the subtlest of hints but they are there. We all do it, so even in full male mode the clues are there.......

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(@beach-girl)
Honorable Member     United States of America
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Seems that you all want to be outed. That's OK. I do, too, but I can't. My ears are pierced-- 4 holes-- and they're very noticeable, especially as I've gotten older & creases have formed where the holes are, but hardly anyone as ever asked me about them. I used to wear studs in them, 24/7, but don't anymore. Don't know why. I often wear women's socks, but except for "HANES" in pink on the bottom, you wouldn't know. Other than that, when I'm him, I'm completely male, but when I'm me, I'm girly to the max!

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

I didn't do anything like painted nails or some items of female outwear, I did shave arms and legs though. I had many other hidden clues, the problem was that they remained hidden and were part of my psyche. I liked chatting with girls, complimented what they were wearing, was empathetic. Now that could be seen as being 'on the pull' but reactions were that I was very understanding and they felt comfortable telling me things they wouldn't tell other men! Even going for broke to ee what would happen, dressed up to a fancy dress party in a female version of the theme did anything to raise suspicion, even though I had done it all myself and wasn't recognised until I stood in front of the hostess and introduced myself. Even after no one suspected so it had to be done meeting up with the hostess of the party, a colleague, for a coffee dressed in my usual daily female attire and re introduced myself, and she still didn't quite recognise me standing next to her until I spoke. Even as we sat and chatted over coffee she still would never had guessed. hey ho such is life.

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