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How did you learn to walk in heels?

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(@mocha)
Honorable Member     Brindisi- BDS, Apulia / Puglia, Italy
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Ladies

Now I'll tell you how I learned to walk in heels.

Exercise created by me:
Female walk in a straight line
Female walk in a straight line picking up tennis balls by leaning forward.
Squat walking and picking up balls.
Walking and collecting balls with one leg squatting and the other with a knee touching the ground with crossing of the holds with respect to the knee almost on the ground.
From a straight line (volleyball field edge) then round trip, then the L, L round trip then the entire perimeter + round trip, go up and down the stairs.

All the walks were carried out first with bare feet, then with socks, then with sneakers and then with a 5cm heel fairy shoe and then with an 8cm heel.
Today with 5cm heels I am able to dance the night away or even jump rope.

XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
Greta ❤️💙❤️

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(@sexxygrl)
Joined: 2 years ago

Trusted Member     LA, California, United States of America
Posts: 79

@mocha I started with a pair of 3” heel wedge shoes after six months went on to try 5” stilettos and after about two months I order like 7 pairs of heel high heel shoes on different styles 5-7 heels, I have a 22 pair of high heels and counting;)

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Lady
(@janetbarr)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     chicago il., Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 12

@mocha One step at a time.

 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3097

Posted by: @mocha

How did you learn to walk in heels?

Greta ❤️💙❤️

Something that I learned about walking in heels, recently, was to make sure that my back was straight up and down.

The walking style of women is supposed to be identified by the taking of smaller steps than what men would take (or so I have read) and you can't take longer strides in heels while your back is vertical.

I once saw a young woman trying to walk in heels and she was leaning forward. Not cool, not cool. Men wearing lifts in their shoes have the same Leaning Tower of Pisa look, too. Stand up straight.

 

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Duchess
(@pattyphose)
Joined: 9 years ago

Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 2263

@mocha I bought some heels, put them on, tried to keep from falling, the took little steps while holding on to things. I wore the shoes constantly when at home, so   anytime I had to walk somewhere in the house I did it in the heels.

I began to get used to wearing them and I felt then breaking in. Then I began going out for walks in them after dark. In a few weeks I felt very comfortable and natural in them. Then I wore them to a party where I had to walk, stand and dance a lot. I was fine in them and enjoyed wearing them.

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(@ab123)
Famed Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

By watching my sisters and mother then trying it out for myself...It's not just the walking as there is putting them on and taking them off too...

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

I just bought myself some heels and practiced and practiced until i managed to get the feel of walking in heels, it's just like riding a bike you just have to get the balance right,

Hugs Rozalyn X

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(@fred96393)
Honorable Member     Burien, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I just bought a pair that caught my eye, and carefully took one step at a time. Looked at a few videos, but stuck to the one step at a time routine, and things have gradually improved day by day.
Hugs and Kisses,
Fredrika Jones

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Duchess
(@geselle)
Estimable Member     Chico area, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Bought a nice sturdy 3-inch pump and watched a few youtube videos and I watch the fashion channel regularly to see the difference in style of walking but most of all I just kept walking until I found what stride worked for me in different styles of heels, I feel I walk one way in a 5-inch pump than I do in a 3 inch and the same goes for thigh high boots with stiletto or block heels, with different type or height of heel and type of shoe changes which way I might walk in them. It depends on the stability of the shoe also

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(@carolyn)
Prominent Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

A lot of trial an error, but in time it just came together. My favorite heel height is now 3 inches, even my wife is amazed just how well I can walk in them. Lol.

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(@target)
Estimable Member     MPLS, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I just strapped on a pair and hit the malls. I’m sure my early years of walking in heels looked terrible just like my makeup but with practice Im now able to walk in heels all day long without any problem.

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(@hippiehuman)
Prominent Member     North Woods, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

I learned to walk in them when I was like the age of 10 or so.

But when I hit my teenager years. I had a major growth spurt. I went from being a small tiny boy. To this mountain of man that could possibly play for the NBA

I have yet to find high heels that would feet. Sure I can find some that come close to the length. But my feet are so wide, that my foot just covers the entire shoe

Life of being a tall CDer

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Duchess Annual
(@shadowqueen)
Reputable Member     Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I put one foot in front of the other and soon I was walking across the floor. To quote an old Christmas special

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(@patches)
Joined: 11 months ago

Estimable Member     Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 109

@shadowqueen I've always loved that song.  That special too every since I was little.  We watched it every Christmas season.

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(@shadowqueen)
Joined: 2 years ago

Reputable Member     Vermont, United States of America
Posts: 356

@patches aww thanks I’m glad I’m not the only one who enjoyed that show.

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Lady
(@jeried)
Joined: 10 months ago

Estimable Member     SE Missouri, Missouri, United States of America
Posts: 54

@shadowqueen I read somewhere that was how to walk in heels 👠. I thought the exact same thing 😂😂

Tootles

Jeri

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(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Went to buy any heels that fitted and put a few pairs on in the store, to find something that worked. I rocked them like a pro and never looked back. The sales clerk couldn't believe that I had never worn heels before.

I was born to heel.

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(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Yeah, some of them can be so fiddley.

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(@debbiedd)
Noble Member     los angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

You tube videos work well but I learned before the internet. It was somewhat natural for me but wore them doing housework in a 4 inch heel and then practicing by walking malls a lot. Before long a lower three inch heel and block heels were easy and more comfortable.  Now I feel completely natural walking slower and one foot in front of the other while keeping shoulders back and chest out. I can glide and dance pretty well now wearing them several days a week

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Lady
(@jincrocker)
Prominent Member     Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I was very young and my oldter sister had put me into one of her old dresses. She handed me her kitten heels and the rest is history.

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(@sutekina)
Estimable Member     Alberta, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

My maximum height was 3-inch heels and only for a short time before my ankles and back started to hurt. I rarely wore them because it wasn't comfortable. I took up running and got myself up to 10k marathons after a couple of years. Then I found a cute pair of 3" sandals I wanted to try (from a giveaway box for students). I was amazed because I was able to walk around and it never hurt. I started to experiment with taller heals. I can be in 4" heels comfortably most of the day. 4.3" is bearable and 4.5" is uncomfortable to walk in. If you see women wearing 4.5" heels regularly, their legs are really toned. That's the key. Anyone can master the appearance and form with practice. But to be comfortable in them all day and milling about in your home or outside, you need strength in your legs. I don't know if it's an ankle thing, a calf thing, or a whole leg thing. With running, you strengthen the whole leg (and back).

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(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

When you spend good money on shoes, you soon learn to walk in them. For me it was around the house on carpeted floors. Once I felt comfortable, it was outside on hard floors.
Small heels were instant. 4" was quite easy. 6" took a little practice on the uneven pavements where I live. Now, I can walk on heels without thinking about it.

Cerys.

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