How do I meet real (normal) women?

hi girl, what you want is exactly what i want,  i want to date and maybe to get married in the future with a real woman that understand that there are men who prefer to be pretty and feminine instead of being tough and macho, but in my culture this is very difficult to accept, specially by the women  themself, because they think mostly  that  feminines men  are  also gay not straight, which is not my case, i love women and some day  i would like to get a beautiful woman sharing my life as my wife and me as her feminine husband, i pray to God for it and I have faith to get it

kisses a lot  Felicity

I wish I knew that. I've tried what you did and ended up with the same result.

It may seem odd, but I meet a lot of GGs in gay bars, who seem to go crazy for CDs.

I'm not on the pull, as I am happily married, but it's incredibly flattering - on several occasions, I've had girls who do not seem to be completely inebriated run up to me, tell me how amazing I look (I wish!), and within a few moments, tell me that we're soul sisters, and spend a lot of time chatting, flirting and dancing with me.

If it was just a one off, I wouldn't mention it, but it generally happens several times a night, and they're the same the next time I see them.

It's a lovely way to make a lot of new friends, and I always make a point of making my married position clear - but if you were looking for a soul mate who appreciates cross dressing, the in-person approach has to be best.

It's really odd - in male mode, I found it really hard to attract female attention, yet in a sparkly dress and heels, plastered in makeup, that all changed for me.

I'd guess it's because of the confidence the clothing gives me - I am no longer looking around, distracted by the thought that I'd like to be dressed up - because I am, so I can get on with talking to people, which is easy - everyone wants to understand why you dress like that, so the ice is broken straight away.

Getting all analytical again - point is, it's not just about going out, it's about enjoying the feeling, and also not expecting anything but fun conversation, dancing, or whatever else you like to do when you go out.

Keep the drinking at a low level, avoid drugs, don't expect to pull, and you never know - I would imagine it's much more romantic and exciting than a dating site - but I wouldn't know, as my partnership predates dating sites!

Once lockdown ends, go out, and have (safe) fun!

Love Laura

Dating sites are a waste of money! I also tried that route and have had no luck. I just happen to get lucky when I started dating my current girlfriend. One night she made a comment about the underwear I was wearing. They were mens but very form fitting and made of silk. She joked  "Those are some sexy panties you have on" I told her I don't like the tightey whiteys and that boxers bunch up. She said she liked my panties and that she noticed I don't like body hair either. I am slowly letting her know more about my desire to dress and act feminine and that I am not gay or Bi that I am attracted to women but sometimes I want to be one too. We are both open minded and feel that everyone has the right to do and be who they want to be and have had many talks about it. We even attended a Pride Festival together this past summer a first for both of us. It was a wonderful experience and we met and made some new friends. I wish you luck and my advice is be honest with the person you date. You don't have to tell them everything right away but at least test the waters to see if they are accepting or not before either of you get to attached.

I could not agree more with Laura, I too have met many GGs in LBGT bars. I too find it hard to attract female attention in male mode. But put on that little black dress and a pair of heels and I am one of the girls.

I think that these women I chat, flirt and dance with are not sexually interested in me, they consider me as just a friend. As I am just one of the girls. I don’t expect relationships to develop further. But Harietta, don’t lose hope though I once met this bi girl.

A word of warning, if you dress as a sexy woman in a night club you are going to attract male attention. In this case it is me that has no sexual attraction. But I chat with them anyway, I know how hard rejection can be.

Hi Harietta. .  I would start by being honest with your self and presenting who you are as a person first and then express your hobbies and interest. Their are so many cis woman that are looking for a nice. kind and generous person. Generous i mean people who want to share everything about them. You are not just a crossdresser . Like any one meeting some one new there has to be a connection in your case a emotional connection. If you want to express your self as a female full time all the time then look for women looking for woman its not about sex. Its about woman connecting with other woman.  What happens after is up to the both of you. That is a personal thing. You and i know what goes on on these CD dating sites. There are so many of us that just want affirmation that we look cute and pretty when we are dressed. There are so many men that are willing to give you that affirmation and will even pay you. Too many of us get caught up in that life style. It no different for young cis woman and some older they are looking for affirmation that they are desirable and find it when some one is willing to pay them. Its about sex for money that's it. You have to connect on a personal level first that is done by honesty. The problem for most of us is CDing is to much apart of us. It is not really the whole of us. Reality is its a small part of us that we make it bigger than it is. Connect with your heart first what comes after is up to you and your partner Luv Stephanie

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Wow! Thank you for sharing this. It's great to have confirmation that others see the femme experience too.

I tend not to get pestered by men - only once, and I had GGs around me to protect me - they're such darlings.

But, my goodness, the unsubtle hints I've had!

This is why I say just have a lot of fun with it - really enjoy being cross dressed, don't expect anything but love and fun, and fun and love you will have.

Love Laura