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As a public going CD for over 50 years i have and do at least a 1/3rd of the time. Besides the sensual feeling of wearing true nylon stocking with garters and feeling that luscious tug on your legs from the garter pulls the other glorious feeling is having the natural temperature and breeze going up your dress or skirt?. Does anyone here have the same experience to share?
@meghan47 Definitely comfy when the weather is warm and I'm wearing a dress!
@joanarbour hey Jeannie, that little one eyed mouse needs some ‘ swinging time’ and a upskirts peek a boo
@meghan47 For some odd reason, a scene from Jason Statham's Chaos just flashed before my eyes. 😳
Does anyone here have the same experience to share?
Not in public, rarely at home.
Most of the time in public, I tuck for the practice, the look and the feeling *. For these reasons I don't hang about.
* I find tucking my testicles to be more comfortable than having an uncomfortable "accident" and squishing things that don't like being squished. They are out of the way and protected. The right underwear helps to keep them up there.
I agree with Harriette, tucking my testicles back inside is a good place to put them , that way your very smooth, more lady like , the smoother the better = More Feminine look.
Isn't that what it all about being feminine being a woman , and woman are smooth in there panties ..
Stephanie👠
Hello Meghan,
first, very interesting topic, the closest I have ever done it, and I must add, several times is a nice sexy thong, so nice of a feeling in a nice cool autumn day, nothing beats the feeling of the breeze coming under your dress touching your legs, my opinion ❤️
Hello Meghan,
I know that feeling, when I finally has the courage of shaving my legs I wore a thong, no nylons with a nice flare dress. So nice to feel the breeze in a nice spring or autumn day.
@meghan47 l do go out to put the garbage bin out anc also bring it in. I also take the dogs out to the toilet. I gave a skater skirt on not every time commando but sometimes.
I do and Have
Meghan
I do and have many times and l will many times more, it's absolute freedom and just a little bit naughty
I have never been out commando, I always wear panties, I'm away next week so i may just wear a skirt and thigh highs, and see how it goes X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
Hi Meghan, I'm ready to venture out, I'm all En Femme and I'm not wearing panties, I'll let you know how i go on, there is a LGBTQ bar near to where I'm staying, I think i might order a cocktail or 2 , well here goes X
Hugs 🤗
I Did it i ventured into the light and a big black hole didn't appear and swallow me up, I didn't go in the bar though I'm still a bit chicken shit, am i allowed to say that, I apologise for that remark in advance,
Hugs and here is to the next time X 
@rozalyne fantastic and well done - you may as well try the bar too whilst you are there ;0) - One day i might venture out but I too am extremely chicken so will probably just dress in my room
Hi Sally thank you, I was like you just dressing in my room, and now I've taken that first step, one small step for woman kind one giant leap for Rozalyn, what i might do tomorrow is go to the bar in my drab man clothes and ask them if it's ok for me to go there in a dress 👗,
@rozalyne brill - that sounds like a good idea - do let us know how it goes
Sal x
@rozalyne remember like opening a store; the phrase” location, location, location! Be well aware of the bar, restaurant or club you want to enter engenders, make sure you choose wisely 😉 scout the place out in advance in drab before ( secretly and privately) [non-exposing] your little one eyed mouse with the pink derby
Ok Meghan, I'm going out tonight in drab but I'm taking my Fem clothes with me and I'm just asking if they have any objections to CDs , if not I'll ask if there is somewhere i can change because I've brought my dress with me, I'll let you know how everything goes,
Hugs X
Hi Meghan i chickened out again i got to the bar but i just couldn't walk through the door, I'll try again tomorrow night i shall just go in drab and see what happens X
Hugs X
Hi Meghan,
The LGBTQ bar near where I'm staying was closed tonight so i didn't get to meet up with some people about dressing up, I went in another place which was a man's pub where they just served pints of beer and there was blood and sawdust on the floor so i couldn't just say is it alright if i wear a dress,
Well I'm off home tomorrow and I'm just wondering how I'm going to smuggle my Fem clothes back into the house without my wife finding out, well looks like I'll have to wait until sometime in the new year for another chance,
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
I hope so joanarbour, I'm hoping this is the start of something that I've wanted for a long time,
Hugs Rozalyn X
@rozalyne you need to go to a real bar. i find gay bars are not very friendly. we don't fit in with that group. but regular bars find us very interesting, and they talk to us. just my experience. I've been going out for about 10 years. women always asking questions about shoes and clothes. i get a lot of complements from men and women. i even have men tell me if anyone gives me trouble let them know. i think if anyone tried to pick a fight with me there would probably be a dozen people on them. it's so fun to be out in the real world with normal people. they are so friendly. a girl will hug a cd faster than a real guy. I can walk up to any woman and get a hug.
Hi Rachel,
That would be nice if i could get the time to go out, I don't know anywhere near me i could go to,
Love Roz ❤️
I mays have to go get the mail or retrieve the garbage can, but i don't usually because if I'm out walking, the draft from walking pushes the skirt against my legs, and unless it is something stiff like a jeans skirt, would leave an unsightly bump.
I have done a couple of times the next best thing, which is wearing only a gender-bending g-string. It has an extra piece of elastic from the center front to the g-string, which creates two tight pockets and also acts as a gaff.
I don't think I'd risk it. I'm quite old and nothing much works down there anymore, but every now and then...
I'm not sure I'd want that to happen while out and about without some underwear to hide behind! 
Becca
I have made a few commando runs. Putting out the garbage. Picking up mail from my home mailbox.
I even put gased up the car all feeling the breeze!
I had a great aunt that was always commando! She once slipped on a department store escalator. She said she refused offers for help to get up. 'Because I wasn't wearing pants'. Pants is what she called underwear.
I still love panties and have a sizable amount.
🥰 Fran
It depends on my mood. I have on occasion gone commando while wearing a dress if I'm feeling naughty. I only do it when hiking or where there is little chance of meeting other people, just incase I get a little too excited from the feeling. Or there is a sudden updraft.
I wear yoga pants often, so rhat means thongs or nothing to avoid VPL, so yes I do. With skirts and dresses I usually wear panties, but have gone without and enjoy the breeze.
Definitely at home!! In public hell no!!!
lol
-Nat
- Yes. I did it just this morning. Black leggings with a spaghetti strap top, no panties. Yoga pants, short shorts, skirts, mini skirts. Just gotta be careful with the short shorts and mini skirts.
Hello Meghan, No, not out in public, the nearest is out in the back garden. As some lady said I am getting older now & I think it would not be appropriate especially if the wind got up & blew my skirt up. love Helenmarie
@helenmariehayley hello Helen , l am in my sixties and l have gone commando, to me it's liberating, makes me feel free. But l can see why some won't go that way and really either way is great 
It sounds like some of you ladies need to cut loose a little. A breeze up your skirt should be experienced by everyone, at least one. I bet even the Queen of England did at some point in her 75 year reign.😚🤭🫖
@jjandme Haha, maybe. But she didn't have to worry about her 'little gentleman' making any unannounced appearances! 😁
I've only done it in 'guy mode' and found it distastefully flappy and sticky! 😆
I wouldn't do so in girl mode as I absolutely hate that thing bobbing about ruining the girly look... unless I was in a nice full, petticoated dress perhaps. Maybe when my other half finally talks me into walking down the aisle in a gorgeous meringue of a wedding dress 🙂
I haven't tried it but don't think I would. I like the sensation of a flat smooth front too much.
Yes Gurl, much much better feminine &'lady like flat smooth front , !!!!! Lov a nice smooth feminine front ...
Stephanie👠
