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Let's turn Judy's question a different direction. How many men in your daily life know or suspect your true self? Family, coworkers, neighbors, or even just incidentals along your path.
I'll start: Well, my brother in law knows and tolerates ( for the most part), a couple of cousins' husband's, and both of my nieces husbands all know and tolerate to differing degrees.
At work the other 5 men on the security detail, and my supervisor will soon.
Several of my neighbors know, and this is where most of the intolerant ones fall into.
Places I must do business with, like the auto parts store, of course Wal-Mart and the grocery stores all have men who know, some don't like it, some don't care, but most at least greet me in a friendly manner and some even share some small talk with me, but you can see that it makes them uncomfy sometimes.
I do get more double-takes from men than I do from women, but I just let it go on keep on my business, I just cannot be bothered by the small minded people any more.
PaulaF
Hi Paula , I'd say about 6/8 men know , 2 friends , men I come across at work & our gym & 2 clients .
Never been an issue 🌹
Lots
Son in laws, customers, friends and acquaintences.
If it bothers any of them they've never expressed it to me.
Olivia
Quite a few.
What surprises me, is the number of straight ones who think it's OK to hit on and grope at Morgana.
The only two men that know about my dressing are 1 gay friend he is just awesome and the husband of the first women that my wife told,
When she found out my wife has a hard time keeping things to her self and outed me to half a dozen of her friends which was very tricky for me for a long time
Hi Paula,
The answer to your question, put simply, is that a very large number of men know that I am very unconventional when it comes to my dress choices. I am thinking of adopting the pronoun that some have developed for me, as in "ladies, gentlemen and....em". I spent a lot of my life as Mr, so now I might well become Em Sian Monnow.
all of them seem to have accepted that I am 'weird', and I don't mind that because if you are not 'weird' then you are 'ordinary'. I am damned if I will admit to ordinary! Some of them might not like it Tough luck guys. I spent a long time being uncomfortable with Mr. Your turn now.
So all the guys I know, know I dress differently and that I am called Sian. So do all the women. In my experience guys take the news better than GGs
Hugs
Sian x
None.....I hope.
I echo K Swim’s sentiment: I hope no one in my daily life knows, man or woman. If someone somehow found out about my deep, dark secret, and confronted me with it, I would immediately go into V-fib, probably with disastrous results.
All my male friends. All my male relatives. Any man with an internet connection who has stumbled across any of my social media.
So potentially ... any man on the planet.
None. Wife doesn't want family to know, and my social life is limited to a couple of men at my church.
Only the ones I have had relations with...😮
Hi
I have two co-workers who know and are absolutely cool with it, even congratulating me on being my authentic self. Just about every male on my wife's side of the family: her two cousins, father in law, her brother. I think that's about it. I have had some second looks from men in stores with usually nothing said except for one guy who told me to "put on some real effing clothes".
Just the one I'm about to have an affair with ~!
I am new so nobody
Fortunately, or unfortunately, as the case may be, none that I’ve told - real selective with who I tell, only those who can keep this secret, as secret it must be kept for now. I thought me son had seen me once, but he’s never said anything even when I asked if we needed to talk. And a gg friend may have her husband after I told her, but I can’t be sure.
