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OMG I told her! I don't know how.
I was a mess. She was an angel.
I don't know what happens next. I don't know how deep this will go. It still feels like bits of eggshell are falling away. I hope I won't lose her.
I thought she'd reject me. I must be the only person who does the me rejection around here.
Yesteday, after I had secretly tried on one of her dresses and then returned to my usual clothes, I looked in the mirror at my face and actually related to and accepted what I saw. That's not happened before, and I don't think it would have done without all of your support.
After talking to my wife I looked on Wiki at the transgender flag and burst into tears. I'm not really sure if it's meant to include people like me, but in any case, I can't think of a time when a symbol has meant so much to me.
Emma
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Emma, you just went to a huge scary place and survived. I hope you can get through this and be the best you can be for each other.
All my best. Cassie
From one Emma to another.
I opened up to a few very good friends just recently, and , yes, it's rather cathartic (!!!) Tears were part of the scenario for me too. It's not as if that's the end of it, but as far as I'm concerned it's a massive release and a massive step forward to acknowledging a 'truer' me to those I love and care for.
A job well done, and I hope all goes well for you.
Emma xxx
Emma, that's amazing! What a lovely thing to read on a Sunday morning, a great start to the day. (Or any day really)
I hope, instead of doing the "me rejection" stuff, you'll give yourself, and your angel, huge credit for the way you've both handled this.
You've taken a very big and frightening step, Emma and it sounds like it'll be worth it.
Like the other girls, I hope the two of you can build on this honesty. With every boundary I stretch and my wife accepts, I feel a deeper appreciation for her and wonder what I've done to deserve being so lucky.
I may have mentioned once or a hundred times, the support and encouragement this community gives, can and does change lives.
Please keep us updated 😊.
Allie x
Congratulations, that was a big step. For those of us with suppprtive spouses it is great to be open and honest. I am.sorry for those who don't.
Oh Emma, what a reflef this must have been. Just take a breath now and calm downthen work through it together. You indeed have an angel in life and hope that this is a new and exciting part of your lives.
Than you for sharing a wonderful experience.
Emma -
I'm very happy for you that you were able to take such a big step. It is wonderful that she accepted you the way she did. You are lucky to have her in your life. Continue ti enjoy your journey.
XOXO
Suzanne
I know this was a very tough thing to do Emma and I respect you for having the courage to discuss it with your wife. Just take it slow and keep the lines of communication open and you should be fine.
