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Hello Ladies
I hope you are all going well.
It has been a while since I have last been on here with it being between 18 months to two years.
There have been highs and lows during this time that I may talk about at some point however I didn't realise how long it has been since I been here in this community.
The current circumstances limit me from being able to crossdress and it feels like forever since I have been able to do it however one thing is for certain - I miss it.
Life has been stressful and exhausting being stuck in an infinite loop but it has also made me think about when I started to admire and dress as a woman - to help find my feminine side.
Thinking about dressing more often (as I started to previously) has made me feel somewhat better about myself - imagining me in beautiful dresses, nightgowns and underwear. The look and feel makes me happy. It is also like my stresses of life go away.
Also this is a great community to talk because whilst ladies on here may not have the exact problem I have, you have felt something similar that you could pass onto someone else (like me). Any encouragement and/or advice helps so many - even beyond me.
I just thought I'd share some thoughts about what is happening right now and announce to people that I am back 😊
Feel free to reach out in any capacity - I would appreciate it 😊
As always,
Lots of love,
Jacinta xoxo
@carolinecd306 Hi Caroline. Great to hear I am not the only person who has done that. Thank you for sharing.
@jacintajones Hi Jacinta,
I really felt this - thank you for sharing it so openly. I’m in a pretty similar boat… busy work life, married with two young kids, and trying to find space for Jenny in the middle of it all. It can feel like a constant juggling act, and sometimes there just isn’t room for dressing or even thinking about this part of myself.
But like you, just imagining it can be such a comfort. The thought of slipping into something soft or delicate, or even just mentally stepping into that feminine headspace - it helps. It reminds me that this part of me is still there, even if she’s quiet for now.
I’m really glad you’re back. This place has been such a lifeline for me, even when I can’t be fully active. Just knowing others get it - that’s powerful.
Sending love and encouragement right back to you 💕
Jenny x
@jennyinlace Awe thank you Jenny for sharing this. I love it and appreciate it.
Welcome back, Jacinta! I’m new here myself, but this is by far the best online group I’ve joined. The ladies here are kind, courteous & so supportive!
Hugs, Shannon
@shannonhyde Welcome Shannon onto here. I agree it is such a great community as everyone is so encouraging to each other regardless of the situation.
@jacintajones Weather you can dress or not were always here. welcome back to the fold. Cheers RC
@river Thank you so much for those comments River. I appreciate it. It means a lot.
@jacintajones Hi Jacinta,
I am pretty new here and new to cross dressing too, and your post resonated with me honey.
I am lucky, I have an ultra supportive wife and I only recently bought my first women’s clothes (other than undies of course!) However, we have an adult daughter, who I am not ‘out’ to currently living with us so the opportunities for me to properly dress are limited at the moment!
Welcome back to CDH and I hope we hear much more from you.
Love your profile picture by the way!
Love and hugs
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Chrissie
@jacintajones Welcome back to CDH, Jacinta!
Even if you cannot dress, for now, I hope that you stick around.
Welcome home, Jacinta! I'm a relative newcomer here but have found it to be the exact type of community you describe filled with amazing women and loaded with ideas and assistance. I hope that you are able to find opportunities to be you, in full. As I began transition, I found that wearing small, concealable items helped stave off the Pink Fog and dysphoria. High cut briefs instead of male underwear. Women's jeans instead of men's. A light fabric bra that is easily hidden under a t-shirt. All of those helped me - perhaps you might find something there to help you.
In any case, I look forward to getting to know you.
Much love,
April ❤️
@aprilrhaynes Welcome April and congratulations on your journey as well. Love that advice as well. It may need to begin with that based on my circumstances but we will see 😊
Hey Jacinta, lovely to have you back girl. I think highs and lows go with the territory of our crossdressing journey. A lot of us have very little opportunity to express our feminine side and it's so frustrating isn't it?
I don't know how much time I spend day dreaming about slipping into a pretty dress 😂. This is such a diverse community that there will be girls here in your exact situation. And you know if you share a little of yourself you'll be showered with the love and support of the ladies. I'd love to hear more of your story.
Hugs, Chrissie xx.
@chrisfp99 Thank you Chrissie for that. Yeah my journey is different to a lot of people but no doubt I will open up more when I get the time.
Hi Jacinta,
Welcome back girlfriend! It’s wonderful to see you back on the forum. I do hope you’ll be able to let Jacinta have her outings with It’s a great opportunity for you to let your feminine self loose and destress from the daily trials.
Alice
@aliceunderwire Thank you so much Alice for that. It is also great to hear from you as well 😊
