Welcome to Crossdresser Heaven, a safe and welcoming place for everyone in the crossdresser community.
Join Crossdresser Heaven today to participate in the forums.
Okay...
At the end of the day, we mostly do this beautiful thing that we love to do.....for one person...us!!!
I love to dress, full on, the outfits, the makeup....the whole works...the glamour and.... modesty allowing....i think I look pretty damn good, but more importantly.... it makes me glow...how's that for good mental health!!!...
But......I also have days when I'm sat at home I will just be a bit lazy...a bit of lippy, maybe ear rings.....a skirt and t- shirt...no make up...it does vary. What I'm trying to say is....a few little feminine touches work for me, anyone who saw me might laugh....but I can't see me...I'm looking out!!! it makes me feel wonderful....I'm the guy in the dress...but it's my bloody dress!!!
I don't always look the real deal...but just wearing that skirt can carry me through, just give me that buzz and make me feel " real "....can you girls see what I'm trying to say....grab an hour in that dress or bikini if you only have an hour...but do it!!
Just live day to day and do what you can to feed that impulse...not passing or looking the real deal isn't always important....ITS HOW IT MAKES YOU FEEL !!!!
I love you all, however you look 😂😂😂....Gracie xxx
....
I know what you mean Grace ,
If I only wear one female garment , my pantyhose , that's already enough to give me a
difference in the way I am feeling at the time.
Carpe diem !
Love Sylvia.
Honey....checked your profile, it's what rocks your boat....so glad you are happy with that xx
Awww, Gracie, I’m feeling better already. What an uplifting message. Thank you!
And I’d like to echo your sentiments. Of course we all know there can be a lot of anxiety stemming from our compulsion to crossdress. Some suffer a lot, some, not so much. We know it’s easier for some than for others. Whether our dressing is fully incorporated into our lives or if it’s something that we try desperately to hide, none of us should ever take for granted that wonderful feeling inside we get when we can finally get a little (or a lot) “ femmed-up”. Whether we dress daily or weekly or even not as often as we’d like, whenever we can, we should simply relish the shear joy in the opportunity to express that wonderful side of us. There is nothing wrong about that. No further explanation needed. We do it because it gives us joy.
My Dear Miss Scarlett, your message is such a good reminder to help us to keep our focus on our own happiness, embrace those moments of prettiness and celebrate the joy of dressing as you wish.
Best to you always and joyfully yours,
Miss Clara Cross
Clara...goodness me you are so special...you have filled in every gap I left in my post...thank you xx
Wearing minimal feminine clothing and no makeup is normal for me if I have no plans. I'm Beth and that's all that's important. I'm lazy but why expend all the time and energy into dressing up if panties, bra, wig and a simple outfit fill the bill and make me comfortable and happy.
❤
Beth
I’ve only been there once in my life, but I’ve never forgotten to “mind the gap”.
C❤️
In your own inimitable way you make sense..Other times I think you are three stops past Barking.....
Can relate Grace for a week now been my self no makeup in gown laying in a bed Feeling more fem then ever and looking in mirror still saying one beauty of a girl Oh last night felt like touching up nails.
Hugs
Donna
Hi Grace.
You are so spot on as always. I've looked at your beautiful pics and you are a real beauty when you go all out... wow! Its a lot of work and even most GG's don't dress all out every day unless its for their job.
Anyone who has read many of my posts know that I'm always wearing my panties and a bra underdressing in public. It works for me feeling girly all day long. I don't look like a girl to the public but I feel like one and thats what matters.
I do love to dress for the whole nine yards but don't get that opportunity very often. Every day around the house its simple feminine casual without makeup, heels, jewelry or the rest of the icing on the cake but it satisfies my need to dress just enough. No one sees me anyway but the wife and she just ignores me... its just me being me. I would be very frustrated if I couldn't at least wear something feminine every day.
Hi Grace,
Plain and simply… THANK YOU. I’ve been in a dark place for some time and your post has helped. Keep being you.
Geena 😊😬
LOL!!!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Something tells me I may not quite get it, but I think it translates OK to Canadian English.
Google is being stubborn and not helping much. Bad Google!
Hugs, Barb 🐶
Hello Barb !
Did you get my PM ?
Love Sylvia.
Lippy!?? Noooo.....
Nothing but smiles and grins at my end!!
I think I'll go have a 2 hour shave and slip into many silky somethings!
💓 Barb 👗
Ms. Scarlett, You are so right... Hadn't underdressed in a while but did yesterday to do some shopping, Bra, panties, thigh highs and top and It felt great!! Just knowing that I had it on put some extra bounce in my step and I swear some people noticed.. wondering why I was so happy!! Had a Big Smile all through the store even when I thought my Nylons were slipping but I checked and all was fine!! It really helped to "Scratch that Itch" and keep me smiling.. 💖💖💖 Jill
