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(@katherineboesemann)
Reputable Member     Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Joined: 5 years ago

We sometimes write effusively here about our latest acquisitions from the ladies' clothing department, so it might seem odd for me to mention my recent acquisition of a vacuum cleaner and spinbucket mop.

My late wife warned me that being a woman was not all about parading in heels at glamorous functions or relaxing in beauty parlours.

I would have to master also a repertoire of the mundane tasks historically relegated to women such as cleaning, cooking and laundry, etc.

She would have liked me to be a full-time "housewife" for her, but as this was not possible financially, weekends were our chance for me to transform into a traditional woman.

Arriving home from work on a Friday, it always gave me an intense thrill to hear her say matter-of-factly: "Put on a nice panty."

This statement signaled the start of a fulfilling two days of housekeeping/home-making and under her tutelage, I think I not only developed into an expert "housewife" but also learnt to experience and express my female identity through household chores.

My latest housekeeping tools reduce the effort and speed up the cleaning, leaving more energy and time for doing my nails and strutting my heels.

What's your take?

Love,

Katherine 

 

 

 

 

 

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Duchess
(@michellemybell)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Clearwater, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 624

@katherineboesemann I love doing chores en femme and would make a great traditional housewife.  I have always thought that it would be a win win for me and my wife but she just doesn't like seeing me dressed.  However, we recently made a deal that I can cook in my 3 inch wedges with a cute apron on once in a while.  I spent the day yesterday cooking like that and got a bit brave and added breast forms.  She didn't remark on it and it was a wonderful day.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@katherineboesemann My maid's uniform is gloriously impractical for housework, even if it does look and feel great to wear.

If there are jobs that need doing and I'm en-femme then I'll do them. A job in the garden or the garage will mean a quick wardrobe adjustment.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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(@katherineboesemann)
Joined: 5 years ago

Reputable Member     Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Posts: 192

@annaredhead Indeed, the classic "maid's uniform" (often seen in fetish online departments), while eye-catching is not at all practical when it comes down to the nitty-gritty of performing the daily tasks of the "woman of the house."

As confessed by me in an article here some time ago, I always aspired to wearing a basic "house dress" such as I saw my older female relatives wearing when doing the housework and have even since had two of them custom-made by a seamstress.

My late wife, who came from a Central American country, had a pile of very pretty traditional dresses (light cotton with brocading and embroidery) that were also remarkably comfortable.

She handed down two or three of them for me to wear at home (along with some of her frillier full brief panties that she no longer needed, of course).

As for garage and garden jobs, I make no compromises and have found that ladies' leggings (also jeggings) and short-sleeved Henley tops are quite suitable.

Sororal Greetings,

Katherine

Heart

 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@katherineboesemann My maid's dress is very short and very wide, even before a petticoat.

If dressed at home and doing jobs, I wear a simple T-dress. 

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@katherineboesemann House work is a lot of fun especially when you wear the right attire.. 😍

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@katherineboesemann Well in my house I do 99% of the cooking. And yes I do prefer to be dressed femme while doing so.  I do all the laundry and grocery shopping and I was cleaning the house while my wife was dealing with some health issues. I do not mind at all when my wife will ask if Ashley would mind cleaning the bathroom or do the vacuuming. I have done a complete clean of the house while fully dressed and I’ll wear my heels the whole time. Wife and sister in law can’t believe I can do in heels which for me is a pleasure not a chore.  Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying it’s “woman’s work” but I enjoy doing it so much more while I’m in femme mode.

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Lady
(@doreen)
Joined: 1 month ago

Active Member     Flintshire, Clwyd, United Kingdom
Posts: 3

Hi Ashley

Good morning

Given I had the opportunity to dress the other morning, I was preparing all of the ingredients for a beef cassarole after cleaning out our log burner and generally tidying up when there was a knock at the front door.

I picked up a tea towel and wiped my hands and answered the door completely forgetting I was dressed along with my apron. It was an Amazon delivery and guy handed me a parcel and took a photo of me holding it. We had a brief chat about this cold weather and he said goodbye. It was only when I closed the door that I realized that's the first time that someone has photographed me in my clothes. Looking in the mirror at my make up, I certainly didn't need to add anymore blusher !!

Thank you

Doreen

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@doreen I’m sure the delivery driver and seen it before hun.  I’ve opened the door a few times to get our food order and the driver has still been in sight of me.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@katherineboesemann My goal is to just blend in with other women.   I take great joy from going about my normal day's business as my authentic self.   When I'm doing housework, it's my everyday leggings and a casual top for me.

While role play is fun, I reserve that for other times.

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Lady
(@gorgeousgwen)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Northamptonshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 56

@katherineboesemann a nice floral apron does the trick for me

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(@katherineboesemann)
Joined: 5 years ago

Reputable Member     Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Posts: 192

@gorgeousgwen My dear late wife was quite into my wearing an apron when doing certain domestic chores.

In addition to the house dresses she let me have, she bought me two lovely bright aprons.

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(@Anonymous 97944)
Reputable Member
Joined: 6 months ago

My sisters here have encouraged me to get a maid's uniform.  I haven't done this yet.  But I get a warm feminine glow as I get fully dressed for housekeeping time.  Just last night, having returned home from a civic function, slipped off my guy slacks and already being in pantyhose, donned skirt, heels, and apron to touch up the kitchen before bedtime.

hugs.

Dani

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Duchess
(@alison-anderson)
Noble Member     Middlesex county, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

When dressed, I just go about and do whatever tasks I would otherwise do. It's rare that I'm all glamoured up.

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Since leaving work in 2017, I've been been 'domestic technician, designate'. When I realised how much time alone I now had and began dressing again, I quickly discovered how much more enjoyable it is to do the housework en femme. Not only getting a chance to be dressed, but fulfilling that particular fantasy of mine to be 'the little woman about the house', whilst at the same time getting the jobs done! 

These days, being out to my partner, I am de facto 'housewife'; she goes out to work and I stay home, doing the laundry, cleaning, baking and preparing meals. One particular thrill is that if she has to work late, I like to be waiting by the door with a welcoming kiss and a glass of wine or G&T, hoping she'll compliment me on my appearance and giggling shyly when she does 🤭

 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@caroline2k I had 3 months off work at the beginning of 2017, had loads of things that I intended to do but  I spent half the time going running and the other half model making. It was great but I didn't do loads of jobs round the house I had meant to.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 618

@annaredhead It's usually the way of things. There is never as much time as you think there will be. 😞

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@caroline2k I'm just good at putting off jobs that I don't want to do

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@caroline2k can you fix us some bait hun? 🤣 🤣 🤣

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 618

@leslienix Do you have any specific dietary requirements?

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@caroline2k Just allergic to wearing boring clothes, have you mastered the art of making a Knickerbocker glory hun? 😋 

bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/knickerbocker_glory_59895

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 618

@leslienix It's not something I've tried although I'm sure I could rustle one up if required 🙂

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(@katherineboesemann)
Joined: 5 years ago

Reputable Member     Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Posts: 192

@caroline2k You lucky gurl, you.

You're living the life I've always dreamt of.

 

Hugs,

Katherine 

 

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 618

@katherineboesemann Thank you Katherine. I remind myself how lucky I am everyday 🙂

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

No it's not all glamour Katherine but it doesn't mean you can't be a little more femme in the way you dress doing the chores. Those fifties and sixties adverts showing a very well dressed woman doing the chores is an example albeit somewhat 'Stepford Wives'.

I do everything at home and garden wearing what I feel is appropriate and there are even days where a bit of hoovering in a nightie is quite normal.

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170
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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

I get more house chores done dressed in fem the thrill and excitement of cleaning etc dressed is fabulous especially when you get that maid outfit 

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Personal  I love doing chores dressed up fem, baking, cleaning , organising !!!

 I think I would make a great traditional housewife, all dressed up feminine in a A dress  & High Heels ... 

At lease part time ,  !!!!  

Stephanie 

 

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Lady
(@doreen)
Joined: 1 month ago

Active Member     Flintshire, Clwyd, United Kingdom
Posts: 3

Hi Stephanie

Good morning. Yes I agreed and I do enjoy housework when all dressed up. [I enjoy housework anyway].

It's good fun and having to focus on keeping your clothes and appearance while cleaning the bathroom and loo is a challenge but one I'm very at home with.

Thank you

Doreen

 

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Joined: 2 months ago

Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Posts: 531

@doreen 

I very much agree with that Doreen ,   ( enjoy housework when all dressed up. . ) Is very nice & feminine feeling , especially in a nice 50s 60s dress.  Something very soft & feminine ,  being the housewife ,  ,  

Stephanie👠

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Lady
(@doreen)
Active Member     Flintshire, Clwyd, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 month ago

Good morning

Given I had the opportunity to dress the other morning, I was preparing all of the ingredients for a beef cassarole after cleaning out our log burner and generally tidying up when there was a knock at the front door.

I picked up a tea towel and wiped my hands and answered the door completely forgetting I was dressed along with my apron. It was an Amazon delivery and guy handed me a parcel and took a photo of me holding it. We had a brief chat about this cold weather and he said goodbye. It was only when I closed the door that I realized that's the first time that someone has photographed me in my clothes. Looking in the mirror at my make up, I certainly didn't need to add anymore blusher !!

Thank you

Doreen Smile  

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Joined: 7 months ago

When I'm cookin I love to get jiggy

et toi?

bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0026b78

 

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

🍒🍒🍒I lov doing the Lady of the House, Housewife chores,  all dressed up as a housewife in a soft pretty feminine dress,  found out how much more enjoyable it is to do the housework en femme, and now much more enjoyable and faster it goes ..

Lov to be a full-time "housewife" , dressed is a soft pretty feminine  1950 or 1960 dress , & panty girdle, or shapewear  as a house wife ..  💓💓

Huggs 

Stephanie👠

 

 

 

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(@katherineboesemann)
Joined: 5 years ago

Reputable Member     Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Posts: 192

@stephanieann Doing the housework is often a good reason to put on a panty and dress; wearing a panty and dress is (for me) also a strong motivation to get stuck into the housework.

My deepest desire always has been to be a fulltime housewife.

My late wife's impressionable years were spent in a country caught up in a war which compelled the female population to take up the jobs and positions historically occupied by the men - who were now mostly away in combat.

At the cessation of conflict, the men returned to find themselves displaced from their tradional roles by women who were now their bosses and the main breadwinners.

Many men seemingly easily accepted their new positions as stay-at-home partners, doing the cleaning, cooking and laundry.

In her early twenties my wife had come to see this as the natural order of things and would have preferred keeping me permanently at home as well, but the economic situation was not ideal in our early years of marriage so it was only at weekends (when I still worked regular shifts) that we could observe a semblance of this arrangment.

Since I was in any case a "two-spirit" being, it was easy for my wife to nurture my feminine attributes and groom me as the junior woman in the house. 

Love, Katherine

 

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