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little box of your life

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Lady
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(@prettytoes)
Prominent Member     alfred, Maine, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

im sure everyone here has their own little box of their life. what would they find if they opened it? (your phone) everything you have is probably on your phone. pictures of friends, family, emails, texts, crossdressing pictures, pictures of you naked, names and phone number of people you know, things you ordered, etc. have you ever wondered what would happen if you lost this box? maybe some of you did at one time. everything anybody wanted to know about you at their fingertips. scary is it?

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@prettytoes not if your phone needs a password to open it...

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 6 months ago

Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 478

@prettytoes Not everything is on my phone. They would find my shopping history but that's about it. They'd have to search deep in my computer and then they would find my visits to these sights. They'd find over 20 years of photos categorized by year and they'd see the evolution I've experienced. They'd see how dreadful (my term) I looked early on and how different I am now. 

They'd see all this of a person they knew and loved. I would hope that they would still have those feelings and not turn away simply because they discovered a side of me that they never knew. I would hope they would wonder why they never knew, why I never told them. I would hope they would not change their opinion of me simply because there was a side of me I had to keep from them.

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Duchess
(@melaniew)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Posts: 28

@cherylt That is beautifully put. I look at it that way too. I know it's the way I'd feel if I was doing the discovering. I might be a little sad they felt thaty couldn't share it with me but I'd respect that.

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 1017

@cherylt That’s a nice take on the subject and one I hadn’t considered before Cheryl. Sometimes we don’t get to know everything about our loved ones. We don’t need to. And there’s a good reason for it. If you really love someone and discovery of a little secret cross-dressing they enjoyed causes you to reconsider your love for them- then I feel sorry for you.

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Duchess
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 758

@prettytoes it is scary.  I do have it password protected, but I also have a program where I can tell where it is and if necessary wipe it clean remotely.  Makes me sleep better.

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(@Anonymous 99924)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member
Posts: 58

@prettytoes Be pretty scary if someone found naked pictures of me on my phone. Scares me just thinking about it.

Allison 

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Lady
(@lamm)
Joined: 6 years ago

Reputable Member     Manchester, Lancashire, United Kingdom
Posts: 415

@allisonwannabe it would be really scary if anybody found naked photos of me on my phone or anywhere else for that matter as I haven't got any and to the best of my knowledge, neither does anyone else.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1312

@allisonwannabe If anyone found naked pictures of me, I'd be scared for them!!! Laugh Loud

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1813

@rebeccabaxter I've done photoshoots wearing very little. Having done that a, photoshoot in a dress is not a problem.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1201

@prettytoes My phone is always with me and it's password protected.  The fact that I count my steps all the time helps me to make sure I have my eye on it.   It's just a habit that it's always with me now.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

As I am so out it wouldn't matter to me. Those that matter are the ones that will get to see everything and those that know nothing about the other side will react in whatever way they want, I won't be there!

There is no box just bits laying around, the phone isn't a worry and the main computer hasn't anything I would be embarrassed about,  it certainly won't be a case of 'Hold the front page' so nothing to see here.

 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I have lived the vast majority of my life before cell phones, so losing it would not be a problem. I have also lost  every single personal item in a wildfire (my heart goes out to my California neighbors currently expeiencing this,) and am doing just fine. Most of us are entirely too tied up in things that are not truly important. My box of life is full of memories and close relationships, and that is what is impprtant in life.

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 2101

@jjandme sorry to hear of you losing everything in a wildfire - my heart goes out to those in California experiencing that now and also to all the other victims of natural disasters who experienced losses. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 11 months ago

My phone goes everywhere with me. There's a lot of stuff that I don't put on it. I have a box at home of old stuff that's important to me, mostly stuff of sentimental value.

In the box there's my grandfather's identity papers from his army service, the train ticket from my last ever day working in London, my last school report, my first passport etc....

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Lady
(@margprodue)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 1113

@annaredhead Oh Anna, I have the same situation too.  Mine is just a big cardboard paper box and I also have one made for each of my kids.  They will have fun upon my death discovering that I kept their clay hands, prom pics, report cards, traffic tickets and other things that l remember and hold dear but perhaps they didn't.  Safe Journey, Marg

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4010

@margprodue Hmmm, that is a great idea for a parent! It may be a little too late for me to start one now, but I will think about it.

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Lady
(@margprodue)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 1113

@harriette  Maybe not too late Harriette.  Just get the boxes started and put a label on them.  Then as you come across stuff that means something don't think twice, just go right to the box and toss it in.  Before you know it, you've got a small collection of memories.  Hugs, Marg

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1312

@annaredhead I have diaries that I started writing in 2019; wouldn't want to lose them. Any photos I have are on my PC and backed up to two separate drives. The only things I have of sentimental value are playing ball with each other downstairs as I write this—my wife and my dog. I wouldn't want to lose my saxophone, it's not sentimental...but it is bloody expensive.

My phone? Meh, so long as they couldn't get into my bank account from it, it wouldn't be the end of the world.

Any important documents are kept in a fire safe.

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Phones do carry a lot mine under passcode then all my photos as a CDer are hiding and passcoded as well but I do panic when I hand someone mine to show a pic and hope I hide all mine do wonder tho what would happen if someone got it and was able to hack into it 🤔

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Lady
(@kerrismith)
Prominent Member     Belvidere, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I’m not out to my family so I never leave cd photos on my phone or my laptop for any length of time for fear they might accidentally get emailed to the wrong person.  One wrong keystroke and the jig is up. Be cautious Ladies.

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Lady
(@kerrismith)
Prominent Member     Belvidere, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I’m not out to my family so I never leave cd photos on my phone or my laptop for any length of time for fear they might accidentally get emailed to the wrong person.  One wrong keystroke and the jig is up. Be cautious Ladies.

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Lady
(@kylikki)
Eminent Member     Helsinki, Uusimaa, Finland
Joined: 5 months ago

I don't keep anything private only my phone and I don't keep any compromising materials there. At least not permanently. True, I have my banking apps and stuff like this, but crossdressing pictures are getting uploaded to my PC usually on the same or next day. I always switch the cloud copy storage off before taking those, and only switch it on again after I transfer my crossdressing pictures out of my phone, in an oldschool way - via the cable. They then rest in their special, password protected folder on my PC. 

(of course I also have a local copy on a portable drive of all my pictures). 

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Baroness
(@dianas1960)
Reputable Member     South Central, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I keep a separate account on my Android phone for Diana.  I keep everything there.  It is not very intuitive to know there are multiple accounts setup.  I do not fear my wife will open my phone or look over my shoulder when searching for something and something I did not want her to see show up.  I also keep a pin code on both my accounts.

Yesterday my wife asked me to share my google photos with her.  Because I keep the separate account I was not worried she would see anything I did not want her to see.

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

First up, this old bird only uses an old flip phone for texts and calls. It only does postage size photos, so I dont bother. I have an old I phone for music and would not have that if my I pods were still "alive." Tho I do use it for communicating with folks like my BFF Dani.

I use a digital camera for Caty and 90% of the shots taken are on USB's, not on the hard drive.

My lovely DADT partner never goes anywhere near either my phone or laptop.

 

Caty

 

 

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Joined: 7 years ago

Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Posts: 2034

Oh and I delete all photos off the camera SD card once I have transferred them to a USB

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 Lea
Lady
(@lea-jhene)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Let's see, a girl can't just have one little box. Instead, I have countless shoe boxes, a few drawers, a clothes rack, and a few things tucked in nooks and crannies. All my fem stuff. That would be the big surprise. And it's mostly in the open, easy for a nosy house guest to find.

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Lady
(@orcharddwee)
Estimable Member     Staten Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

I'm so old that I keep nothing on my phone, which I have locked up with a complex password anyway. My laptop is locked up similarly. My box, however, is a room in my house. I had a contractor build a room in the basement which is my makeup room, and it's femmy as all get out. All my clothes, makeup, and whatnot is in that room, and while I would like to hire that contractor for other jobs I have a feeling he would want to see the room to see how it's holding up and what it's being used for and I honestly don't know what he would think as soon as he opened the door and was greeted by so much girly stuff. "Oh, my mom is staying with us and using the room, but she's not here right now" just sounds like the coverup it is. Maybe I just need to get some courage and admit the truth and see what happens. I just hope it doesn't result in my losing this contractor, because he does do really good work. We'll see....

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