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Ok girls, trying to wrap my brain around this. For over 20 years I would dress fully in dresses or skirts and pass casually; get gas, drive through, room service, things where there was short interaction if any and they have no choice but to deal with you as a customer. These outings were always short lived and I always felt as if I were in a costume.
Now for the past two years I've been interacting more at restaurants and shopping, won $40 in vegas and have added perfume and jewelry to try to finish my look a bit more. During these longer excursions I tend to feel more like me than as if in a costume. I don't act overly feminine but certainly look it.
Seeing others here out in public in more casual womens clothes has inspired me. I move slow but finally was out a bit the past few morning and got coffee form the hotel bistro in leggings. I certainly look fem but find myself acting more naturally fem.
Maybe compensating for not looking as womanly? It just feels like the natural me. Anyone else have similar experience.
Yes for me too. I don't get to go out often but when I do I love to go all the way on my dressing and makeup. When I am all dolled up I feel much more feminine and my alter fem ego Jennifer loves it.
Happens every time I am in "Caty mode". I move differently, hold my arms and hands differently, use the pads on my fingers to open doors, (no fingernail involved) with or without false nails..
With breast forms attached and my bra on, I have a better posture and I try to eat small portions and sip my glass of wine like a female.
Even when back in "drab" these actions and feelings takea while to "wear off".
Caty
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What a nice Saturday morning. Red Mary Jane Heels, white stockings, pink frilly rumba panties, white petti coat and pink negligee and robe. Just sitting hear sipping my coffee with a shot of toquilla in it and smoking a bowl or two. Mmmm feeling so girly and just loving it.