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Main stream venues

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(@carlafirst11)
Honorable Member     So. California , California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hello beautiful people,

I recently had an opportunity to attend a main stream club in Hollywood, although if you have ever been in West LA the crowd is usually pretty friendly and liberal, but it was nice to be just a regular girl hanging out with a couple of friends, enjoying each other’s company, listening to some 80’s music, in other words just being a regular girl, in the past every night club I have attended has been Transgender/ CD friendly and honestly sometimes not as friendly as some of the TGirls can be extremely rude and territorial.

Anyway, it was a lovely experience, and I am looking forward to attend more of these outings.

Does anyone else have had a similar experience? 

I must add, I regularly go out in public during day time, very different than night life experience.

Thank you all,

Carla

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(@robertaf)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Posts: 1063

@carlafirst11 I much more prefer a regular club or venue. It helps to do normal things that people do but doing it dressed.

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Lady
(@stereleo)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Las vegas, Nevada, United States of America
Posts: 78

@carlafirst11 

Please tell more on how the daytime differs.  I was just thinking about normal venues because I’m a lipstick lesbian through and through and like being surrounded by girls. More girls at main venues I think, but don’t want to deal with guys :/

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Duchess
(@gracepal)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Posts: 1036

@carlafirst11 Wow Carla, rude and territorial TGirls in the Transgender/CD friendly venues? Why am I not surprised by this? There’s groups of “mean girls” everywhere you go nowadays, fighting their secret wars against those who do not fall into line with them. I can see it.

I’m with another commenter on this, I’d love to hear about how the daytime differs from the night life. I expect it has everything to do with alcohol being part of the equation.😊

GP

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Lady
(@kimdl94)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Blearmill, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 175

@carlafirst11 yes, most of my experiences have been main stream.   I can’t recall a single bad experience in over a dozen years, day or night.

Early on I made it a point to go places I would otherwise go, and do things I would do regardless of my attire.  So I went to the local grocery, dry cleaner, bank, coffee shop, auto repair shop.  Later I went to the theater, museums and made numerous road drips across the middle of the country.   Always enjoyable!

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(@lizk)
Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Yeah it happens.  Some girls are not very nice to other members of their tribe.  I don't see it often.  But I agree that it's more likely in a trans/CD friendly venue.

Glad you had a great time being out in a mainstream crowd.  I go wherever I want and never have an issue.  SoCal is pretty cool in that regard.

/LK

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Lady
(@carlafirst11)
Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     So. California , California, United States of America
Posts: 289

@lizk ❤️😘

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Lady
(@krisburton)
Prominent Member     The Hub City, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Like Roberta, I prefer regular venues also. I feel much more secure personally if I know my surroundings before visiting en femme. This has served me well in the past, whether solo or with friends. Having said that, it doesn't surprise me that you might feel uncomfortable in some of the TG/CD places. People can be very territorial and insular to an unfamiliar person in their domain. I would not want to visit in such a place solo, with friends adds security it would seem, and if you could go with someone who is known in a particular venue it may go a long way to feeling more welcome. 

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(@lauren114)
Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I'm definitely over the whole night club scene.   I much prefer a nice restaurant or bar that is quieter to allow normal conversation to flow.  While I have been in TG/CD places, I have been fortunate not to experience the territorial behavior that is described.  As others have said, I can certainly see it happening due to the way people are these days.   For me, I have nothing to prove so I'll leave places like these to the people who do.

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 7 months ago

Actually I've never been to a TG club or gay club. I've only ever been out to regular places like malls, restaurants and such. I have no idea how I'd be received at a TG/gay club. 

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

I only go to regular places and just enjoy going about my day with or without company. Clubbing is a long gone activity nowadays but will meet friends in low key restaurants or a bar.

Years ago I was with a group of crossdressers meeting in a regular bar where we to have a meal. I suppose you could class it as 'lively'. I arrived alone and soon met the host then went to the bar alone to get a drink. I was standing next to groups of guys and heard one exclaim, 'Look there are more of them'. I didn't get a second glance! I knew then I had arrived as it were.....

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