male / female differences

Biggest one I’ve noticed so far is how much Rei enjoys being in front of the camera. I’ve spent 40+years despising the guy I in saw pictures.
Also, I am an exhibitionist at heart and with the female in me being freed, I find myself wearing clothes that if my youngest daughter wore out I’d be upset! Lol

Hi Rachel,

I may have to give this more thought but at first blush i match your items 3, 5, & 7 but i'm okay with pink and/or blue either way.  As Joanne becomes more dominant whatever differences there are become irrelevant.  I am Joanne.

Hello Rachel....

The main difference is....there are none!!!

In drab mode....I dream about living as Grace

In female mode.... I'm living the dream as Grace

yes you guessed it, grace ❤️❤️

Guy mode I like wearing guys stuff. (Okay. I know I upset a lot of you saying guy stuff, but hey, get over it. Labels are helpful 😉 )

In girl mode, I like wearing girly stuff.

I don't know that my personality changes. There are times I yearn to dress enfemme, and times I don't.

I identify excessively with number 3.

Really, I think the big difference is just caring.  Especially about how my hair looks(!!), and the clothes I'm wearing.  Male mode just doesnt give a damn about that stuff much.  I'd like to think I'm more sensitive when dressed properly, but I can always cry at the drop of a hat, regardless of my attire.  Most of me, being me, is pretty similar though, whether I'm drab, dressed, or anywhere in between.

Stevie

My personas are entirely opposites, at this time, But like Grace, as the male, I'm thinking of Regine.
In male mode I am entirely macho, in my work I am the Alpha male to all the employees at my division, but when I leave, Regine starts to filter in,and when I arrive home, Im ready to be Regine, with all the female accoutrements I can apply
Regine

i forgot that one. i have almost no pictures of me in male mode. there are more pictures of me in female mode

My girl side pays more attention to my outfit, guys, and manners.

My guy side pays more attention to...Um, he doesn't pay much attention to anything!

Colours don’t matter to me... my panties are  white, pink, purple, blue , black, red , green and everything thing in between , same with my  drab shirts and T-shirts, my girly jeans are blue and black ... same as my drab jeans... that I only wear for work now...my feminine side loves all the colours of the rainbow and my wife says I’m secure enough with my masculine side to rock pink, so I go with it. My personality doesn’t change ...I try to be calm and level headed , caring and understanding, loving and genuine and I’m pretty outgoing no matter what mode I’m in. But I do feel much calmer in lingerie and since I switched to panties 24/7  I have almost no more temper... can’t explain that one!!

As time goes by, I noticed that my male side isn't around much any more; but when he is, he's a hermit, hates to shop and dresses mostly in black, and doesn't really care how he looks.  Bettylou loves to chat, is a shopaholic who favors bright floral prints, and spends too much time  fussing with her hair and nails, and choosing a wardrobe.

I learned a long time ago that there's only me in here. That me is Casey Morgan. (Casey Amber is to make it easier for those who knew me as Amber Lynn to make the adjustment to my newer name.) When I was little I was always a mix of male and female. So now when I'm an adult I'm the same way. Which is why I often don't even think about the fact that I'm transgendered. Being just me no matter what has helped me be so much more calm and at ease. Rather than fighting myself and trying to be male sometimes and female other times I'm androgynous all the time. It works for me but YMMV. All of me enjoys the same things all the time. Hey, I have enough problems in my life without having to be Mike and Amber alternately.