Meeting another CD’er in person.

Omg I wish. I haven't since I started dressing. Other part is I just started so I'm still in the lost in the sexy dress and skirt filled maze.

I think I look forward to being around someone o can talk about skirts and other fem things I like in person.

Hi Zoe........don't be afraid...but do be guarded at first. It is just like meeting a blind date....until you get to know a stranger....be careful. Most of us CD'rs are very friendly and can be trusted....but you could run into a bad apple now and then. We are just humans who dress differently......not perverted ogres. We are gentle and understanding just like most real girls.  I look forward to chatting with you, my new Sister and getting to know you better. Until then......hugs.......

Dame Veronica

Zoe, before you meet in person,  e sure to make very clear what you are looking for, and what you are NOT looking for. even If you don’t have any reservations and everything goes, it would be a lot safer if you met in person in a neutral place first.

This is not only for meeting another CD, this goes for everybody meeting in person somebody they only know online. Be safe...

Gaby

I'm very lucky to live in a city with a crossdresser support group. It was my first venture into the cd community where we get to talk cd and transgender issues, concerns, and celebrations. It's also where I get to wear whatever I want so I can feel the clothes to see what feels and looks good on me in public. We also meet at restaurants and bars for social events where we can dress or come in drab, depending on our comfort level. This has been a huge boost to my confidence and self-esteem.

At the age of 65 I meet with my first CD friend. A girl here at CDH. Yes, I was scare, especially with the long drive I had to do to meet her, but it was a day I'll never forget.

Thanks for all the wonderful commments.  Please keep them coming.  I’m still undecided on a meetup.  Z

I have not met another CDer since I started dressing.

I would like to and have a GF to go out together with.

hi zoe. that is my dream to meet another cd'r. like you though, I think I would be scared as well, I mean its a huge step to take. half of me is desperately wanting to meet and form a friendship with a fellow cd'r and the other half is scared of letting go. I know one day I am going to have to overcome my fears as I want to move forward as that is most of our desires. as long as its safe and within your boundries I would be tempted to go for it. you never know, it could be the makings of a brilliant friendship.

fiona xx

The first time I ever dressed fully fem was at 18 for a college Halloween Party. I met other CD's there. It was 4 years of great dressing, great fun and great parties.

I hadn't dressed in over 20 years. When I began again, I visited Long Island lingerie store that had a crossdressing clientele. I met other guys there. It was awkward at first but after breaking the ice, we encouraged each other, got makeovers together and dressed and went out together. One of the girls told me about Femme Fever. I went there and met other CD's. All of them are so nice. It's great.

This is me as well and since I only dress when traveling it is that much harder.  Many have told me of gatherings in their areas and that would be great, a cd dinner bunch that meets once a month, but the travel timing has never worked.

I have hung out with the other girls at a bar.  It had a drag show and a lot of girls would show up.  It was fun as we had our own little click.  I remember one time we were all in the girls bathroom fixing our makeup and such and we were just chatting away.  I think that was the closets I ever got to just feeling like one of the girls.

Go for it, Zoe!  I would if I could!

I definitely would meet another cd if I get the opportunity it would be so nice to have someone to have girl talk and dress face to face so I would do it for sure

I hope that all of you who are longing to meet other crossdressers will be able to do so.  Just make sure that the person is legitimate and try to meet at a neutral place first. Sadly, many of us have a lot to lose if outed, so be careful. Not fearful.

I had a few local friends. We met every once in a while for lunch. And even though we were presenting as guys, our conversations would not be very different than those of female friends in a similar situation. From family and work to fashion and shopping. It was very nice. Too bad that we stopped meeting for some reason.

Gaby