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Lady
(@vecca)
Reputable Member     Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

My trick is to shop with my wife or shop while away on business. It helps to have a girlfriend with you as backup or be in a place nobody knows you. Hope it helps.

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(@katey)
Prominent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Vecca, I wish I had a friend to go shopping with that would be so great. I have also thought about taking a long drive out of my area to go shopping. Hoping that I won't run into anyone I know. Thank you for reaching out to me. Hugs Katey

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(@katey)
Prominent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Emily, thank you for reaching out to me. All the ladies here have been so supportive. I really wish I had someone to go shopping with but I don't so the plan for me right now is to continue to do little trips to build the confidence level and two maybe take a ride out of town to go shopping. I really love shopping for Katey. Hugs - Katey

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(@katey)
Prominent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Susan, thats a well thought out plan. I must confess I have completed the "dry runs" and walked through the ladies department scoping out my possible purchase and getting a lay on the land. I also have thought about taking a trip out of town to purchase my items. I live in a small town and I know a lot of people so option two will probably be best for me. Susan, thank you so much for your advice. Hugs - Katey

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Lady
(@marci)
Active Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Going clothes shopping with my wife would be a dream come true!

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(@hildaruth)
Reputable Member     Brighton, East Sussex, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Katey,
Can I endorse the idea of shopping with a woman friend. I came out to my friend Nina just over a year ago; we have been friends for almost 20 years. She was accepting, very kind and supportive and has given me lots of advice on about 'femme' matters. I stayed with her for a week last year pre lockdown and not only was she happy for me to dress whilst staying with her but we went out on all sorts of trips together; including clothes shopping, supermarket shopping, morning coffee and supper at a posh restaurant, all with me en femme as HildaRuth. It was a tremendous confidence boost. I'm very lucky to have her as a GG girl friend.
Love and hugs as always
HildaRuth 💋💋

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 Leah
Baroness
(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

I think when we are dressed, we are all a bit hyper sensitive to being noticed or found out, even more when we are out in Public. It is like we have this bright led lights or spot light on us to say " here I am ad]ll dressed up" ..lol.  Depending on where you are and where you are going, you will have a variety of reactions. Some good, some not so good.   I remember seeing a lady dressed up as I was going to a meeting, I noticed her from a distance as she was smartly dressed in a pencil skirt and blazer, as I got closer, I saw and realized she was either TG or dressed up.   No one around her ( about 20 people) were making and issues or fuss about her.  She was calm as could be and like a fish in water.

So, a lot of our issues surrounding cross dressing are in our minds and we are our own worst enemy!

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